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<html><body><p>B&#7841;n c&oacute; bi&#7871;t t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u c&#361;ng c&oacute; ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; ri&ecirc;ng c&#7911;a n&oacute;? V&agrave; m&#7895;i ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng &ldquo;n&oacute;i&rdquo; m&#7897;t <strong>ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u</strong> c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh? &#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u b&aacute;c s&#297; Gary Chapman k&#7871;t lu&#7853;n sau nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u v&agrave; th&#7921;c nghi&#7879;m trong ngh&#7873;. Ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;ch cho v&agrave; nh&#7853;n t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u kh&aacute;c nhau.</p><p>C&oacute; <strong>5 ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u</strong>, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave;:</p><ul><li>Th&#7901;i gian b&ecirc;n nhau (Quality time)</li><li>S&#7921; chu &#273;&aacute;o (Acts of service)</li><li>L&#7901;i y&ecirc;u (Words of affirmation)</li><li>Qu&agrave; t&#7863;ng (Gift)</li><li>Nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i ch&#7841;m (Physical touch)</li></ul><p>Ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n th&acirc;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh c&oacute; <strong>ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u</strong> l&agrave; s&#7921; chu &#273;&aacute;o, trong khi b&#7841;n trai c&ocirc; &#7845;y l&#7841;i th&iacute;ch d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian b&ecirc;n nhau. C&ocirc; &#7845;y d&#7895;i h&#7901;n khi kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#432;a &#273;&oacute;n trong nh&#7919;ng bu&#7893;i h&#7865;n h&ograve; c&ograve;n anh th&igrave; th&#7845;y b&#7883; ng&oacute; l&#417; khi c&ocirc; ng&#7891;i c&#7841;nh anh m&agrave; v&#7851;n l&#432;&#7899;t facebook t&aacute;n g&#7851;u v&#7899;i b&#7841;n b&egrave;. V&agrave; h&#7885; l&#7841;i say &#273;&#7855;m nhau khi c&ocirc; r&#7911; anh &#273;i &#259;n &#273;&ecirc;m v&agrave; c&ugrave;ng t&acirc;m s&#7921; say m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y d&agrave;i l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c, anh l&eacute;n &#273;&#7875; trong t&uacute;i x&aacute;ch c&ocirc; chi&#7871;c kh&#7849;u trang v&agrave; vi&ecirc;n k&#7865;o ng&#7853;m ho trong nh&#7919;ng ng&agrave;y gi&oacute; r&eacute;t. &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; s&#7913;c m&#7841;nh c&#7911;a <strong>ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u.&nbsp;</strong></p><blockquote><p>&#272;&#7875; t&igrave;m xem m&igrave;nh thu&#7897;c nh&oacute;m ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u n&agrave;o, b&#7841;n th&#7917; l&agrave;m b&agrave;i test &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y nh&eacute;: <a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/">https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/</a></p></blockquote><p>C&ugrave;ng t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u k&#7929; h&#417;n v&#7873; 5 lo&#7841;i ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; n&agrave;y nh&eacute;.</p><h4>Th&#7901;i gian b&ecirc;n nhau (Quality time)</h4><figure class="image"><img src="/upload/files/69afae711d29c41ca525b550febdabc5.jpg"><figcaption>C&ugrave;ng nhau &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t n&#417;i xa</figcaption></figure><p>Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&oacute;i ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; n&agrave;y cho r&#7857;ng th&#7901;i gian l&agrave; m&oacute;n qu&agrave; qu&yacute; gi&aacute; nh&#7845;t. Nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ch&#7881; &#273;&#417;n thu&#7847;n l&agrave; &#7903; c&#7841;nh nhau, h&#7885; c&#7847;n &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; th&#7901;i gian cho nh&#7919;ng cu&#7897;c tr&ograve; chuy&#7879;n ch&#7845;t l&#432;&#7907;ng, cho nh&#7919;ng h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng &yacute; ngh&#297;a. &#272;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7875; s&#7921; tr&igrave; ho&atilde;n, gi&aacute;n &#273;o&#7841;n hay l&yacute; do v&#7863;t n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n th&#7901;i gian c&#7911;a hai ng&#432;&#7901;i. N&#7871;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7863;ng qu&agrave;, h&#7885; s&#7869; r&#7845;t c&#7843;m k&iacute;ch tr&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n qu&agrave; m&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7863;ng b&#7887; th&#7901;i gian v&agrave; t&acirc;m huy&#7871;t v&agrave;o. M&#7897;t v&agrave;i g&#7907;i &yacute; cho c&aacute;c b&#7841;n: &#272;&#259;ng k&yacute; h&#7885;c c&ugrave;ng l&#7899;p h&#7885;c v&#7899;i nhau, m&#7897;t b&#7919;a &#259;n t&#7889;i h&#7865;n h&ograve;, t&#7921; tay l&agrave;m m&oacute;n qu&agrave; nh&#7887; hay &ldquo;&#273;&#432;a nhau &#273;i tr&#7889;n&rdquo; v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&agrave;y ngh&#7881;.</p><h4>S&#7921; chu &#273;&aacute;o (Acts of service)</h4><p>B&#7841;n c&oacute; ngh&#297; h&uacute;t b&#7909;i s&agrave;n nh&agrave; l&agrave; m&#7897;t bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u kh&ocirc;ng? &#272;&uacute;ng th&#7871; &#273;&#7845;y. B&#7845;t c&#7913; &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; b&#7841;n l&agrave;m gi&uacute;p gi&#7843;m nh&#7865; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, s&#7921; lo &acirc;u cho &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u m&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i n&oacute;i ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; &ldquo;acts of service&rdquo; c&#7847;n. C&acirc;u m&agrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y/anh &#7845;y mu&#7889;n nghe nh&#7845;t l&agrave; &ldquo;C&#7913; &#273;&#7875; anh/em lo&rdquo;. H&atilde;y t&#7921; h&#7887;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, &ldquo;M&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m g&igrave; &#273;&#7875; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i &#7845;y &#273;&#7905; v&#7845;t v&#7843; h&#417;n?&rdquo;. B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; thay h&#7885; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c h&#7885; c&#7847;n l&agrave;m nh&#432;ng v&#7851;n ch&#432;a th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; gi&#7863;t gi&#361;, tr&#7891;ng c&acirc;y, &#273;&#7893; r&aacute;c ch&#7859;ng h&#7841;n. V&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng c&#7863;p &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; con, th&igrave; vi&#7879;c nh&#7853;n tr&ocirc;ng con &#273;&#7875; v&#7907;/ch&#7891;ng b&#7841;n y&ecirc;n t&acirc;m ng&#7911; th&ecirc;m gi&#7845;c l&agrave; m&#7897;t &yacute; t&#432;&#7903;ng tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i.</p><h4>L&#7901;i y&ecirc;u (Words of affirmation)</h4><p>M&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7847;n ch&uacute; &yacute; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i thu&#7897;c nh&oacute;m <strong>ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u</strong> n&agrave;y: h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n nghe nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i y&ecirc;u su&ocirc;ng. H&#7885; th&iacute;ch &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nghe nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i ng&#7885;t ng&agrave;o nh&#432;ng ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh. B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; vi&#7871;t m&#7897;t chi&#7871;c b&#432;u thi&#7871;p xinh x&#7855;n hay m&#7897;t t&#7845;m thi&#7879;p ch&#7913;a nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng s&#7869; l&agrave;m tr&aacute;i tim c&#7911;a n&#7917;a kia &#273;ong &#273;&#7847;y trong h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c v&agrave; ni&#7873;m vui, L&agrave;m m&#7897;t playlist nh&#7841;c &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t ch&#7881; d&agrave;nh ri&ecirc;ng cho h&#7885; ho&#7863;c quay m&#7897;t vlog nh&#7887; n&oacute;i v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng k&#7927; ni&#7879;m gi&#7919;a hai b&#7841;n &#273;&#7875; ng&#432;&#7901;i y&ecirc;u c&oacute; th&#7875; xem l&#7841;i b&#7845;t c&#7913; l&uacute;c n&agrave;o.</p><h4>Qu&agrave; t&#7863;ng (Gift)</h4><p>B&aacute;c s&#297; Chapman ph&acirc;n t&iacute;ch, &ldquo;&#272;&#7915;ng nh&#7847;m l&#7851;n ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u n&agrave;y v&#7899;i ch&#7911; ngh&#297;a v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t, v&igrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&iacute;ch nh&#7853;n qu&agrave; s&#7869; quan t&acirc;m v&#7873; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u, s&#7921; chu &#273;&aacute;o v&agrave; &yacute; ngh&#297;a &#273;&#7913;ng sau m&ograve;n qu&agrave; &#7845;y [h&#417;n l&agrave; v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t b&ecirc;n ngo&agrave;i]&rdquo;. Nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n qu&agrave; nh&#7887; v&agrave; th&#432;&#7901;ng xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n b&#7845;t ng&#7901; l&agrave; c&aacute;ch m&agrave; nh&oacute;m n&agrave;y nh&#7853;n th&#7845;y h&#7885; quan tr&#7885;ng v&#7899;i b&#7841;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432;&#7901;ng n&agrave;o v&agrave; ch&uacute;ng th&#7875; hi&#7879;n s&#7921; quan t&acirc;m, hy sinh c&#7911;a b&#7841;n d&agrave;nh cho &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng. H&atilde;y mang v&#7873; cho h&#7885; m&oacute;n qu&agrave; nh&#7887; sau chuy&#7871;n &#273;i d&agrave;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, d&agrave;nh t&#7863;ng h&#7885; v&#7899;i m&oacute;n &#273;&#7891; u&#7889;ng y&ecirc;u th&iacute;ch v&agrave; bu&#7893;i s&aacute;ng hay m&oacute;n qu&agrave; nh&#7887; v&agrave;o m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t.</p><h4>Nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i ch&#7841;m (Physical touch)</h4><figure class="image"><img src="/upload/files/55073597347957774f2668b770344ccb.jpg"></figure><p>&ldquo;Th&#7901;i gian b&ecirc;n nhau&rdquo; v&agrave; &ldquo;nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i ch&#7841;m&rdquo; l&agrave; hai ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u kh&aacute; d&#7877; k&#7871;t h&#7907;p c&ugrave;ng nhau. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&oacute;i ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u n&agrave;y c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c quan t&acirc;m, &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&acirc;n tr&#7885;ng v&agrave; che ch&#7903; qua nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i n&#7855;m tay khi &#273;i tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng. C&aacute;i kho&aacute;c vai, nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i &ocirc;m c&#361;ng l&agrave; c&aacute;ch hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; &#273;&#7875; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u. B&#7903;i v&#7853;y &#273;&#7915;ng qu&ecirc;n d&agrave;nh t&#7863;ng h&#7885; n&#7909; h&ocirc;n, c&aacute;i &ocirc;m tr&#432;&#7899;c khi r&#7901;i kh&#7887;i nh&agrave;, matxa cho nhau sau m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y m&#7879;t m&#7887;i, hay &#273;&ocirc;i khi c&ugrave;ng nhau ch&#417;i c&aacute;c m&ocirc;n th&#7875; thao hay th&#7853;m ch&iacute; c&ugrave;ng nhau &#273;i d&#7841;o v&agrave;o m&#7897;t bu&#7893;i t&#7889;i m&aacute;t tr&#7901;i c&ugrave;ng &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7911; l&atilde;ng m&#7841;n r&#7891;i.</p><p>--------------------</p><p><i>Tham kh&#7843;o t&#7915; ngu&#7891;n Vietcetera v&agrave; The 5 love language.</i></p></body></html>


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