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HerN&oacute;i v&#7873; c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, t&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y n&oacute; r&#7845;t ri&ecirc;ng v&agrave; c&#361;ng r&#7845;t chung. M&#7895;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n b&#7871; ri&ecirc;ng m&#7897;t ni&#7873;m c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, r&#7891;i n&oacute; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; chung c&#7911;a r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i. Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta c&oacute; th&#7875; r&#7845;t m&#7879;t m&#7887;i &#273;&#7875; m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n c&aacute;c ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng s&#7889;ng, nh&#432;ng khi c&oacute; &#273;&#7911; th&#7901;i gian ng&#7851;m ngh&#297;, h&#7885; v&#7851;n bi&#7871;t m&igrave;nh c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, ho&#7863;c m&#7845;t k&#7871;t n&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t v&ugrave;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i v&igrave; m&#7897;t l&yacute; do n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ai bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. C&oacute; l&#7869; v&igrave; th&#7871; m&agrave; ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khai th&aacute;c r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u n&#417;i &#273;i&#7879;n &#7843;nh, &#273;&#7883;a h&#7841;t c&#7911;a ngh&#7879; thu&#7853;t th&#7913; b&#7843;y, n&#417;i k&yacute; h&#7885;a l&#7841;i nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng (ho&#7863;c kh&oacute;) nh&igrave;n r&otilde; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7915; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. &nbsp;&#272;&#7841;o di&#7877;n Orson Welles t&#7915;ng n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng: &ldquo;Ch&uacute;ng ta sinh ra m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7889;ng m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh, ch&uacute;ng ta ch&#7871;t m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh. Ch&#7881; c&oacute; s&#7921; k&#7871;t n&#7889;i qua t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u v&agrave; t&igrave;nh b&#7841;n, ch&uacute;ng ta m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7841;o ra m&#7897;t &#7843;o t&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7857;ng con ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#417;n &#273;&#7897;c. ". Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta bi&#7871;t n&#7895;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n th&#432;&#7901;ng xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n trong nh&#7919;ng m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng t&aacute;ch bi&#7879;t, kh&#7855;c nghi&#7879;t, thi&#7871;u &#273;i s&#7921; k&#7871;t n&#7889;i. Nh&#432;ng &#7903; Her t&ocirc;i th&#7845;y s&#7921; lo&#7841;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n &#273;ang &#259;n m&ograve;n lo&agrave;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. Ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7909;p &#273;&#7893; v&igrave; m&#7897;t tai h&#7885;a, m&#7897;t b&#7845;t h&#7841;nh, m&#7897;t bi k&#7883;ch b&#7845;t th&igrave;nh l&igrave;nh gi&aacute;ng xu&#7889;ng nh&#432;ng ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7889;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&#7895;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n hi&#7879;n sinh - hi&#7879;n h&#7919;u qu&aacute; &#273;&#7895;i t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7853;n ra &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7845;t th&#432;&#7901;ng. &nbsp;M&#7903; &#273;&#7847;u phim l&agrave; h&igrave;nh &#7843;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng &#273;ang th&#7889;t ra nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng r&#7845;t &#273;&#7865;p. &#272;&#7865;p v&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng hoa m&#7929;, v&agrave; ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh. Nh&acirc;n v&#7853;t Theodore (Joaqu&iacute;n Phoenix th&#7911; vai) hi&#7879;n l&ecirc;n gi&#7919;a v&ocirc; v&agrave;n nh&#7919;ng y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&#7917;i g&#7855;m, b&#7903;i h&#7855;n l&agrave; g&atilde; nh&agrave; v&#259;n vi&#7871;t th&#432; thu&ecirc; trong v&#259;n ph&ograve;ng. &#272;i&#7873;u bi k&#7883;ch &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&#7907;i ra khi m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;ang &#273;&#7913;ng tr&ecirc;n b&#7901; v&#7921;c tan v&#7905; c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n l&#7841;i hi&#7879;n h&#7919;u gi&#7919;a m&#7897;t kh&ocirc;ng gian t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng quan t&acirc;m y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng kh&ocirc;ng d&agrave;nh cho m&igrave;nh. &nbsp;Theodore c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7919;a ni&#7873;m vui c&#7911;a m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. G&atilde; m&#7845;t k&#7871;t n&#7889;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh v&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; tho&aacute;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7921; suy t&#432; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &ndash; m&#7897;t c&aacute;i b&#7851;y &#259;n m&ograve;n con ng&#432;&#7901;i. G&atilde; t&#7921; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;. Khi l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c, khi &#273;i l&#7841;i tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng, khi v&#7873; nh&agrave;. Theodore c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n m&#7885;i l&uacute;c. T&ocirc;ng m&agrave;u si&ecirc;u th&#7921;c c&ugrave;ng v&#7899;i b&#7889;i c&#7843;nh hi&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;i g&#7847;n c&#7911;a b&#7897; phim v&agrave; m&agrave;u &#273;&#7887; tr&ecirc;n con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a g&atilde; nh&#7845;n m&#7841;nh s&#7921; l&#7867; loi c&#7911;a c&aacute; nh&acirc;n gi&#7919;a m&#7897;t kh&ocirc;ng gian t&#7845;p n&#7853;p nh&#7919;ng l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i. Nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i ngh&#297;, m&agrave;u &#273;&#7887; th&#432;&#7901;ng tr&#7921;c &#273;&oacute; c&ograve;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t d&#7845;u hi&#7879;u v&#7873; m&#7897;t t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u ch&aacute;y b&#7887;ng trong l&ograve;ng g&atilde; nh&agrave; v&#259;n. Kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u nam n&#7919;, m&agrave; l&agrave; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m kh&aacute;t khao v&#7873; m&#7897;t s&#7921; giao ti&#7871;p, &#273;i&#7873;u c&#417; b&#7843;n nh&#7845;t trong s&#7921; k&#7871;t n&#7889;i gi&#7919;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7899;i nhau. &nbsp;Th&#7871; n&ecirc;n vi&#7879;c g&atilde; mua m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n m&#7873;m giao ti&#7871;p c&#361;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7897;t h&#7879; qu&#7843; t&#7845;t y&#7871;u c&#7911;a m&#7897;t n&#7895;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n dai d&#7859;ng. Con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; b&#7843;n n&#259;ng sinh t&#7891;n &#273;&#7875; thay &#273;&#7893;i b&#7889;i c&#7843;nh s&#7889;ng t&#7889;t h&#417;n. Kh&ocirc;ng ai c&oacute; th&#7875; l&ecirc;n &aacute;n &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;, nh&#7845;t l&agrave; khi nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh Theodore c&#361;ng b&#7883; cu&#7889;n v&agrave;o s&#7921; an &#7911;i si&ecirc;u nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng t&#7915; c&ocirc;ng ngh&#7879;. M&#7897;t th&#7913; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng d&agrave;nh cho b&#7841;n ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n s&#7869; t&#432;&#417;ng th&iacute;ch v&#7899;i b&#7841;n h&#417;n m&#7897;t con ng&#432;&#7901;i. Theodore ch&#7885;n m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n m&#7873;m gi&#7885;ng n&#7919;, t&#7921; &#273;&#7863;t t&ecirc;n l&agrave; Samantha, v&agrave; &#273;&#7875; cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&#7885;c v&#7883; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; thi&#7871;u trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. Hay n&oacute;i &#273;&uacute;ng h&#417;n, l&agrave; m&#7897;t th&agrave;nh t&#7889; c&#7845;u n&ecirc;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a g&atilde; &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng trung th&#7921;c th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n s&#7921; bu&#7891;n b&atilde; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. &nbsp;M&#7863;c d&ugrave; Theodore &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; &ldquo;ng&#432;&#7901;i&rdquo; b&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh. N&#7895;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng t&aacute;ch r&#7901;i kh&#7887;i m&#7841;ch phim. Nh&#7919;ng ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng c&#7911;a Theodore v&agrave; Samantha &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ghi nh&#7853;n t&#7915; g&oacute;c m&aacute;y con m&#7855;t c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i b&ecirc;n ngo&agrave;i (t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t di&#7877;n t&#7843; nh&#432; n&agrave;o v&#7873; c&aacute;c g&oacute;c m&aacute;y &#273;i&#7879;n &#7843;nh), ng&#432;&#7901;i ta ch&#7881; nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y m&#7897;t g&atilde; &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng t&#7921; vui, t&#7921; c&#432;&#7901;i, v&agrave; t&#7921; h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng v&#7899;i ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. V&#7873; m&#7863;t v&#7853;t l&yacute; h&#7919;u h&igrave;nh, Theodore v&#7851;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t m&#7843;nh r&#7901;i c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i; v&#7873; m&#7863;t tinh th&#7847;n, g&atilde; y&ecirc;u c&#7921;c &#273;oan m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n m&#7873;m. G&atilde; v&#7851;n c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n. &nbsp;Cao tr&agrave;o &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; tuy&ecirc;n ng&ocirc;n cho s&#7921; t&#7897;t c&ugrave;ng c&ocirc; &#273;&#7897;c, g&atilde; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh h&#7919;u thanh v&#7899;i Samantha. Cao tr&agrave;o th&#7913; hai, g&atilde; &ecirc; ch&#7873; khi ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7907; g&atilde; t&#7915;ng y&ecirc;u l&ecirc;n &aacute;n g&atilde; v&#7899;i t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i. Cao tr&agrave;o th&#7913; ba, g&atilde; nh&#7853;n ra g&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; ngo&agrave;i m&#7897;t c&#417;n m&ecirc; v&#7915;a tho&aacute;ng ra, &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; t&ocirc;i mong s&#7869; c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian xem h&#7871;t b&#7897; phim &#273;&#7875; kh&oacute;c c&ugrave;ng g&atilde;.Her &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7843;n xu&#7845;t m&#7897;t th&#7853;p ni&ecirc;n k&#7875; t&#7915; khi Lost In Translation &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&igrave;nh chi&#7871;u. C&ugrave;ng khai th&aacute;c ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; s&#7921; c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n hi&#7879;n sinh c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i, t&ocirc;i ng&#7901; r&#7857;ng b&#7897; phim l&agrave; m&#7897;t l&#7901;i h&#7891;i &#273;&aacute;p t&#7915; Spike Jonze (&#273;&#7841;o di&#7877;n Her) &#273;&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7907; c&#361; Sofia Coppola (&#273;&#7841;o di&#7877;n Lost In Translation). M&#7897;t l&#7901;i xin l&#7895;i nh&#7865; nh&agrave;ng t&#7915; c&aacute;ch di&#7877;n t&#7843; s&#7921; &#273;&#417;n &#273;&#7897; v&agrave; l&#7841;c l&#7887;ng c&#7911;a m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng t&#7915; trong ch&iacute;nh h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a h&#7855;n cho &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#7853;t. &nbsp;C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ph&acirc;n c&#7843;nh t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng t&#7915; Her, b&#7913;c h&igrave;nh d&#432;&#7899;i &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; Theodore n&#7857;m gi&#7919;a b&atilde;i c&aacute;t khi &#273;&atilde; tr&ograve; chuy&#7879;n vui say v&#7899;i Samantha. &nbsp;Khuy&#7871;n kh&iacute;ch m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i xem &#273;&#7875; th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c di&#7877;n xu&#7845;t Joaqu&iacute;n Phoenix.

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