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<html><body>M&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u nh&#7853;n th&#7845;y r&otilde; r&agrave;ng trong th&#7921;c t&#7871; h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng hi&#7879;n nay l&agrave; tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t h&#417;n bao gi&#7901; h&#7871;t. H&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; n&#417;i h&#7885;c sinh hay c&#7843; sinh vi&ecirc;n ch&uacute; t&acirc;m r&egrave;n luy&#7879;n ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c, nh&#7919;ng ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c n&#7873;n t&#7843;ng c&#7913;ng ph&#7909;c v&#7909; cho c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n h&#7885;c c&aacute;i g&igrave;, r&egrave;n luy&#7879;n ra sao, &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o v&agrave;&nbsp; c&aacute;c v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; t&acirc;m sinh l&yacute; x&#7843;y ra trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t th&#7871; n&agrave;o l&#7841;i l&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; kh&oacute; &#273;&#7863;t ra. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p &#273;&#7871;n ch&#7845;t l&#432;&#7907;ng h&#7885;c t&#7853;p c&#7911;a h&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n v&agrave; l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u x&atilde; h&#7897;i c&#7847;n quan t&acirc;m. Tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; vi&#7879;c c&#7845;p b&aacute;ch c&#7847;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n r&#7897;ng r&atilde;i h&#417;n bao gi&#7901; h&#7871;t, nh&#432;ng trong th&#7921;c t&#7871; th&igrave; gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c Vi&#7879;t Nam v&#7851;n c&ograve;n kh&aacute; h&#7841;n ch&#7871; v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y.<h4>1. T&#7847;m quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng</h4>&#272;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i c&#7843; h&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#7867; n&oacute;i chung, vi&#7879;c tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng n&oacute;i ri&ecirc;ng hay tham v&#7845;n &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng n&oacute;i chung s&#7869; gi&uacute;p c&aacute;c b&#7841;n th&#7845;u hi&#7875;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Th&#7845;u hi&#7875;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&agrave; vi&#7879;c thi&#7871;t y&#7871;u nh&#7845;t n&#7871;u b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng l&#7897; tr&igrave;nh h&#7885;c t&#7853;p, ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch hi&#7879;u qu&#7843;.&nbsp;Th&#7845;u hi&#7875;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t h&agrave;nh tr&igrave;nh, kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i m&#7897;t s&#7899;m m&#7897;t chi&#7873;u. Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta b&#7843;o, khi ra tr&#7853;n, bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7875;m m&#7841;nh, &#273;i&#7875;m y&#7871;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh l&agrave; &#273;&atilde; c&#7847;m trong tay 50% chi&#7871;n th&#7855;ng. Cha m&#7865; sinh con, tr&#7901;i sinh t&iacute;nh. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng t&agrave;i n&#259;ng l&agrave; thi&ecirc;n b&#7849;m, l&agrave; tr&#7901;i ph&uacute; cho. V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n, nh&#7853;n ra &#273;i&#7875;m m&#7841;nh, &#273;i&#7875;m y&#7871;u, t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch l&agrave; vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n v&agrave; b&#7855;t bu&#7897;c ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m. H&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n th&#7845;u hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7875;m m&#7841;nh, &#273;i&#7875;m y&#7871;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh s&#7869; gi&uacute;p vi&#7879;c l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n ng&agrave;nh ngh&#7873; &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n h&#417;n hay trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#361;ng s&#7869; r&egrave;n luy&#7879;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng s&#7921; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t, gi&uacute;p c&aacute;c b&#7841;n l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c t&#7853;p th&#7875; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; h&#417;n.<figure class="image"><img src="https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5707fe7627d4bdf152fca70f/588183191b631b7fda7ae03e/5c327314758d4678747fe1c4/1546811718641/WhoAmI.jpeg?format=1500w" alt="K&#7871;t qu&#7843; h&igrave;nh &#7843;nh cho who am i"></figure>Tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng c&ograve;n gi&uacute;p c&aacute;c b&#7841;n tr&#7867; gi&#7843;i &#273;&aacute;p c&aacute;c th&#7855;c m&#7855;c tu&#7893;i m&#7899;i l&#7899;n, gi&#7843;i t&#7887;a v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; t&acirc;m l&yacute; v&agrave; c&oacute; th&ecirc;m c&aacute;c ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c k&#7929; n&#259;ng m&#7873;m quan tr&#7885;ng. Kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; nhu c&#7847;u c&#7911;a h&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n, Tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng c&ograve;n l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u c&aacute;c b&#7853;c ph&#7909; huynh r&#7845;t quan t&acirc;m.Trong m&#7897;t nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u c&#7911;a TS Nguy&#7877;n Th&#7883; H&#7857;ng Ph&#432;&#417;ng - Khoa T&acirc;m l&yacute; - Gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c, Tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c S&#432; ph&#7841;m (&#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c &#272;&agrave; N&#7861;ng), k&#7871;t qu&#7843; kh&#7843;o s&aacute;t ph&#7909; huynh &#7903; &#272;&agrave; N&#7861;ng cho th&#7845;y, ph&#7909; huynh c&#7847;n nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng (TLH&#272;) h&#7895; tr&#7907; cho con c&aacute;i &#7903; tr&#432;&#7901;ng; &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i h&#7885; c&#7847;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#432;&#7899;ng d&#7851;n th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n c&aacute;c ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng t&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c v&#7899;i con v&agrave; c&#361;ng nhi&#7873;u ph&#7909; huynh c&#7847;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#432; v&#7845;n cho m&igrave;nh. C&#7909; th&#7875; l&agrave; 29,3% ph&#7909; huynh mong &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&aacute;c chuy&ecirc;n vi&ecirc;n TLH&#272; t&#432; v&#7845;n cho h&#7885; v&#7873; c&aacute;ch d&#7841;y con h&#7885;c t&#7853;p (c&aacute;ch n&oacute;i v&#7899;i con nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; con l&agrave;m b&agrave;i, nh&#7855;c nh&#7903; con chuy&#7879;n s&aacute;ch v&#7903; b&uacute;t gi&#7845;y nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o cho ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p...). C&oacute; &#273;&#7871;n 35,1% ph&#7909; huynh mong &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&aacute;c c&ocirc; test/tr&#7855;c nghi&#7879;m cho con xem con c&oacute; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#273;&uacute;ng v&#7899;i l&#7913;a tu&#7893;i, c&oacute; m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; nh&#7853;n bi&#7871;t v&agrave; th&ocirc;ng minh &#7903; m&#7913;c n&agrave;o.<h4>2. C&#7847;n &#273;&#7849;y m&#7841;nh ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng</h4>Trong c&aacute;c v&#7909; b&#7841;o l&#7921;c h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng v&agrave; h&#7885;c sinh t&#7921; t&#7917; v&igrave; &aacute;p l&#7921;c h&#7885;c h&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian qua c&oacute; nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n t&#7915; vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#432; v&#7845;n t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng. Th&#7871; nh&#432;ng, h&#7847;u h&#7871;t c&aacute;c tr&#432;&#7901;ng ph&#7893; th&ocirc;ng l&#7841;i ch&#432;a c&oacute; c&aacute;n b&#7897; chuy&ecirc;n tr&aacute;ch l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c tham v&#7845;n t&acirc;m l&yacute;. Th&#7921;c tr&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i cho th&#7845;y, &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7893;i m&#7899;i c&#259;n b&#7843;n v&agrave; to&agrave;n di&#7879;n gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c th&igrave; ph&#7843;i t&#7853;p trung ch&#259;m s&oacute;c &#273;&#7901;i s&#7889;ng v&agrave; s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e t&acirc;m th&#7847;n cho h&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;m thi&#7875;u nh&#7919;ng kh&oacute; kh&#259;n t&acirc;m l&yacute;, ph&aacute;t huy t&#7889;i &#273;a ti&#7873;m n&#259;ng c&aacute; nh&acirc;n ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7885;c. Ch&iacute;nh v&igrave; v&#7853;y, c&aacute;c d&#7883;ch v&#7909; Tham v&#7845;n h&#432;&#7899;ng nghi&#7879;p, Tham v&#7845;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng, Tham v&#7845;n s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e t&acirc;m th&#7847;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c... &#273;&atilde; v&agrave; &#273;ang tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh nhu c&#7847;u x&atilde; h&#7897;i c&#7845;p b&aacute;ch.<figure class="image"><img src="https://youth.com.vn/mediacenter/0189534110694cd4bfe1f9d344751242" alt="[&#272;&#258;NG K&Yacute; MI&#7876;N PH&Iacute;] THAM V&#7844;N CHUY&Ecirc;N S&Acirc;U &#272;&#7882;NH H&#431;&#7898;NG B&#7842;N TH&Acirc;N"></figure>Ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng v&#7851;n &#273;ang &#273;&#432;&#7907;c di&#7877;n ra nh&#432;ng v&#7899;i quy m&ocirc; c&ograve;n h&#7841;n ch&#7871;. &#7902; c&aacute;c tr&#432;&#7901;ng ph&#7893; th&ocirc;ng v&agrave; &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c v&#7851;n c&oacute; c&aacute;c bu&#7893;i chia s&#7867; t&#432; v&#7845;n t&acirc;m l&yacute;, &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng ngh&#7873; nghi&#7879;p cho h&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n hay nh&#7919;ng t&#7893; ch&#7913;c h&#7895; tr&#7907; &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. C&oacute; th&#7875; k&#7875; &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432; d&#7921; &aacute;n h&#432;&#7899;ng nghi&#7879;p Shape Your Future c&#7911;a JCI Hanoi, d&#7921; &aacute;n Yo&#7909;th+ Academy c&#7911;a Youth+ Vietnam v&agrave; c&aacute;c ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng, t&#7893; ch&#7913;c kh&aacute;c &#273;ang c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&oacute;ng g&oacute;p t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c cho c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng.T&oacute;m l&#7841;i, Tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&atilde; &#273;ang v&agrave; lu&ocirc;n c&#7847;n l&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c quan t&acirc;m v&agrave; &#273;&#7847;u t&#432; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#273;&#7875; h&#432;&#7899;ng t&#7899;i s&#7921; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n to&agrave;n di&#7879;n c&#7911;a th&#7871; h&#7879; tr&#7867; Vi&#7879;t Nam. H&#7885;c sinh, sinh vi&ecirc;n, ph&#7909; huynh c&#361;ng nh&#432; th&#7847;y c&ocirc; c&#7847;n c&oacute; s&#7921; ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; quan t&acirc;m t&#7899;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; tham v&#7845;n t&acirc;m l&yacute;, tham v&#7845;n ngh&#7873; nghi&#7879;p. &#272;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i t&#7841;i c&aacute;c tr&#432;&#7901;ng ph&#7893; th&ocirc;ng, tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c v&agrave; c&aacute;c t&#7893; ch&#7913;c x&atilde; h&#7897;i c&#361;ng c&#7847;n m&#7903; r&#7897;ng h&#417;n ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng tham v&#7845;n h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7875; mang nh&#7919;ng &#273;&oacute;ng g&oacute;p v&agrave; s&#7921; thay &#273;&#7893;i t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c cho c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng.</body></html>

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