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Th&#7901;i k&#7923; gi&atilde;n c&aacute;ch x&atilde; h&#7897;i do COVID-19 &#273;&atilde; thay &#273;&#7893;i b&#7913;c tranh h&#7865;n h&ograve; c&#7911;a &#273;a s&#7889; c&aacute;c b&#7841;n tr&#7867;, khai ph&aacute; nhi&#7873;u &ldquo;s&acirc;n ch&#417;i&rdquo; m&#7899;i cho xu h&#432;&#7899;ng h&#7865;n h&ograve; online. S&#7921; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n m&#7841;nh m&#7869; c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng &#7913;ng d&#7909;ng h&#7865;n h&ograve; d&ugrave; &#273;&atilde; &#273;em l&#7841;i cho gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; nhi&#7873;u tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m th&uacute; v&#7883; c&oacute; 1 kh&ocirc;ng 2 nh&#432;ng v&#7851;n l&agrave;m x&aacute;o tr&#7897;n &#273;&#7901;i s&#7889;ng t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#7911;a m&#7897;t s&#7889; b&#7897; ph&#7853;n. V&agrave; v&igrave; th&#7871; m&agrave; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u &ldquo;&#259;n li&#7873;n&rdquo; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&aacute;ng lo ng&#7841;i cho Gen Z. V&#7853;y &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y c&oacute; g&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t v&agrave; l&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; h&#7841;n ch&#7871; r&#7911;i ro trong chuy&#7879;n t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m? H&atilde;y c&ugrave;ng Youth+ t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u trong b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y nh&eacute;.&nbsp;1. Hi&#7875;u nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o v&#7873; dating app v&agrave; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng y&ecirc;u &ldquo;&#259;n li&#7873;n&rdquo;? Sinh ra trong th&#7901;i &#273;&#7841;i c&ocirc;ng ngh&#7879; th&ocirc;ng tin ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n b&ugrave;ng n&#7893;, nh&#7919;ng t&#7915; kh&oacute;a nh&#432; Tinder, Bumble, Badoo, Litmatch&hellip; ch&#7855;c h&#7859;n kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n xa l&#7841;i v&#7899;i c&aacute;c b&#7841;n tr&#7867;, khi ch&uacute;ng d&#7877; d&agrave;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;m th&#7845;y v&agrave; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh &ldquo;list t&#7915; v&#7921;ng&rdquo; quen thu&#7897;c trong cu&#7889;n t&#7915; &#273;i&#7875;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a nhi&#7873;u Gen Z &nbsp;ng&agrave;y nay. Dating app hay hi&#7875;u l&agrave; &#7913;ng d&#7909;ng h&#7865;n h&ograve; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc;ng c&#7909; gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m "n&#7917;a kia" c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh ch&#7881; trong v&agrave;i gi&acirc;y &#273;&#7891;ng h&#7891;, ch&#7881; c&#7847;n v&#7899;i 2 thao t&aacute;c &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; &ldquo;&#273;&#7885;c profile&rdquo; v&agrave; &ldquo;qu&#7865;t&rdquo;. Nh&#432;ng li&#7879;u t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m v&agrave; &#273;o l&#432;&#7901;ng b&#7857;ng m&#7897;t &#7913;ng d&#7909;ng? Ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i. T&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&#7843;m x&uacute;c, m&#7897;t tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i tinh th&#7847;n, kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; &#273;o l&#432;&#7901;ng b&#7857;ng s&#7889; li&#7879;u hay thu&#7853;t to&aacute;n. &#272;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&atilde; x&#7843;y ra khi h&#7865;n h&ograve; qua m&#7841;ng l&ecirc;n ng&ocirc;i v&agrave; b&ugrave;ng n&#7893; nh&#432; hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i? &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7875; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n v&agrave; ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng, hi&#7875;u m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch n&ocirc;m na r&#7857;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i d&ugrave;ng l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &ldquo;&ocirc;ng t&#417; b&agrave; nguy&#7879;t&rdquo; cho ch&iacute;nh m&#7889;i t&#417; duy&ecirc;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y c&#361;ng d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t th&#7921;c tr&#7841;ng y&ecirc;u &ldquo;nhanh&rdquo;, y&ecirc;u &ldquo;&#259;n li&#7873;n&rdquo; &#273;&#7875; tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m c&#7911;a gi&#7899;i tr&#7867;. So s&aacute;nh th&#7913; cao c&#7843;, &#273;&#7865;p &#273;&#7869; nh&#432; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u v&#7899;i &#273;&#7891; &#259;n li&#7873;n nghe c&oacute; v&#7867; kh&#7853;p khi&#7877;ng, nh&#432;ng th&#7921;c ch&#7845;t trong ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh n&agrave;y th&igrave; l&#7841;i c&oacute; l&yacute;. T&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u m&agrave; ch&oacute;ng v&aacute;nh, nhanh &#273;&#7871;n r&#7891;i c&#361;ng nhanh &#273;i, ch&#7881; &#273;&#7875; th&#7887;a m&atilde;n nhu c&#7847;u t&#7913;c th&#7901;i m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7885;ng l&#7841;i gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a m&#7897;t m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh &#273;&iacute;ch th&#7921;c th&igrave; c&#361;ng gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; m&oacute;n &#259;n li&#7873;n c&oacute; th&#7875; ti&#7871;t ki&#7879;m th&#7901;i gian v&agrave; th&#7887;a m&atilde;n chi&#7871;c b&#7909;ng &#273;&oacute;i ngay l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute;, nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i ch&#7859;ng t&#7889;t cho s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e v&#7873; l&acirc;u v&#7873; d&agrave;i. &nbsp;Nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &ldquo;tr&ecirc;n t&igrave;nh b&#7841;n, d&#432;&#7899;i t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u&rdquo; nh&#432; FWB (friends with benefit), ONS (one night stand), GWTF (get what they want and then forget/ go with the flow) c&#361;ng ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n h&#417;n trong c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng gi&#7899;i tr&#7867;. M&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i v&#7899;i c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; kh&ocirc;ng cam k&#7871;t hay r&agrave;ng bu&#7897;c, cho ph&eacute;p h&#7885; t&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng s&#7921; t&#7921; do v&agrave; kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&agrave; &aacute;p l&#7921;c l&acirc;u d&agrave;i. Ngo&agrave;i ra, m&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#432;a s&#7861;n s&agrave;ng cho m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; nghi&ecirc;m t&uacute;c ho&#7863;c kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n cam k&#7871;t v&agrave;o l&uacute;c n&agrave;y, thay v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; ng&#7855;n h&#7841;n &#273;&#7875; th&#7887;a m&atilde;n nhu c&#7847;u t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c ho&#7863;c c&#7843;m x&uacute;c t&#7841;m th&#7901;i m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i c&aacute;c y&#7871;u t&#7889; ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p c&#7911;a m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; l&acirc;u d&agrave;i. V&#7853;y xu h&#432;&#7899;ng y&ecirc;u &ldquo;nhanh&rdquo; n&agrave;y c&oacute; g&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t?&nbsp;2. &#7842;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng t&#7899;i gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o? Nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m ch&oacute;ng v&aacute;nh, v&#7897;i v&atilde; nh&#432; v&#7853;y c&oacute; th&#7875; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; trong nhi&#7873;u c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c nhau. Kh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t b&#7841;n tr&#7867; c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; n&agrave;y v&agrave; coi ch&uacute;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng hi&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;i. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; n&agrave;y c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; g&acirc;y ra nh&#7919;ng h&#7853;u qu&#7843; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c.Nhi&#7873;u tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m kh&ocirc;ng mong mu&#7889;nKh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t b&#7841;n tr&#7867; &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng kh&#7887;i th&#7845;t v&#7885;ng khi &ldquo;v&#7905; m&#7897;ng&rdquo; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng chi&#7871;c ph&ocirc;ng b&#7841;t &#7843;o tr&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng &#7913;ng d&#7909;ng h&#7865;n h&ograve; khi ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng nhi&#7873;u tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p kh&oacute; &#273;&#7905; v&#7873; &ldquo;h&agrave;ng tr&ecirc;n m&#7841;ng&rdquo; VS &ldquo;h&agrave;ng th&#7853;t&rdquo; x&#7843;y ra. Nh&#7919;ng h&igrave;nh &#7843;nh ch&#7881; mang t&iacute;nh ch&#7845;t minh h&#7885;a &#273;&oacute; &#273;&atilde; khi&#7871;n dating app nh&#7853;n v&ocirc; s&#7889; s&#7921; ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch, cho r&#7857;ng ch&uacute;ng khi&#7871;n th&#7913; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m cao &#273;&#7865;p &#273;&oacute; v&agrave; vi&#7879;c h&#7865;n h&ograve; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh s&agrave;n th&#432;&#417;ng m&#7841;i &#273;i&#7879;n t&#7917; v&#7899;i tr&agrave;n lan &ldquo;m&#7863;t h&agrave;ng&rdquo; &#273;&#7875; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n l&agrave;m n&#7917;a kia cho m&igrave;nh v&agrave; b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u nh&#7919;ng cu&#7897;c t&igrave;nh &ldquo;mau n&#7903; ch&oacute;ng t&agrave;n&rdquo;. &nbsp;C&ocirc;ng ngh&#7879; v&agrave; Internet l&agrave; th&#7871; gi&#7899;i &#7843;o n&ecirc;n con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#361;ng &ldquo;&#7843;o&rdquo;, ch&uacute;ng ch&#7881; nh&#7857;m ph&#7909;c v&#7909; nh&#7919;ng nhu c&#7847;u v&agrave; l&#7907;i &iacute;ch nh&#7845;t th&#7901;i c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng mang l&#7841;i gi&aacute; tr&#7883; v&#7873; x&uacute;c c&#7843;m, &#273;&aacute;nh m&#7845;t &#273;i b&#7843;n ch&#7845;t gi&aacute; tr&#7883; ban &#273;&#7847;u c&#7911;a m&#7897;t m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh. Nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; d&#7889;i tr&aacute; tr&#7855;ng tr&#7907;n v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&atilde; &#273;em l&#7841;i h&#7853;u qu&#7843; cho nhi&#7873;u &ldquo;n&#7841;n nh&acirc;n&rdquo; m&#7845;t ni&#7873;m tin v&agrave;o m&#7897;t t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u &#273;&iacute;ch th&#7921;c v&agrave; s&#7921; g&#7855;n b&oacute;, cam k&#7871;t trong m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;. S&#7913;c kh&#7887;e ph&#7843;i g&aacute;nh ch&#7883;u kh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t h&#7879; l&#7909;yGen Z &#273;&#432;&#7907;c xem l&agrave; th&#7871; h&#7879; c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#432;a kh&aacute;m ph&aacute;, &#432;a t&#7921; do v&agrave; ch&uacute; tr&#7885;ng vi&#7879;c tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m, t&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng h&#417;n l&agrave; &#273;i t&igrave;m m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u y&ecirc;u &#273;&#432;&#417;ng l&atilde;ng m&#7841;n. Nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; ch&oacute;ng v&aacute;nh, v&#7897;i v&atilde; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; &ldquo;li&#7873;u thu&#7889;c&rdquo; ch&#7919;a l&agrave;nh cho c&#259;n b&#7879;nh &#7871; hay c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n nh&#7845;t th&#7901;i nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i g&acirc;y ra t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng t&acirc;m l&yacute; kh&ocirc;ng &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; khi m&#7897;t trong hai ng&#432;&#7901;i trong cu&#7897;c t&igrave;nh &#273;&oacute; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y b&#7883; t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng ho&#7863;c b&#7883; b&#7887; r&#417;i. Nh&#7919;ng t&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng t&acirc;m l&yacute; nh&#432; t&#7921; ti, s&#7907; h&atilde;i, m&#7845;t ni&#7873;m tin v&agrave;o m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &#273;&aacute;ng tin c&#7853;y, m&#7845;t c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m v&agrave; t&#259;ng s&#7913;c &eacute;p t&acirc;m l&yacute; c&#361;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n x&#7843;y ra.Ngo&agrave;i ra, ki&#7875;u quan h&#7879; nh&#432; fwb, ons,... c&ograve;n ti&#7873;m &#7849;n nguy c&#417; l&acirc;y nhi&#7877;m b&#7879;nh t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; khi kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; s&#7921; ch&uacute; &yacute; &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n &#273;&#7871;n bi&#7879;n ph&aacute;p b&#7843;o v&#7879; v&agrave; an to&agrave;n t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c, t&#7915; &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n thai ngo&agrave;i &yacute; mu&#7889;n ho&#7863;c nhi&#7877;m tr&ugrave;ng.&nbsp;M&#7843;nh &#273;&#7845;t m&agrave;u m&#7905; cho nh&#7919;ng chi&ecirc;u tr&ograve; l&#7915;a &#273;&#7843;o, l&#7907;i d&#7909;ngT&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng l&#7915;a t&igrave;nh, l&#7915;a ti&#7873;n v&#7851;n &#273;ang r&#7845;t ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n tr&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng n&#7873;n t&#7843;ng h&#7865;n h&ograve; online. Vi&#7879;c k&#7871;t n&#7889;i ch&#7881; th&ocirc;ng qua nh&#7919;ng t&#7845;m h&igrave;nh &ldquo;&#7843;o&rdquo;, nh&#7919;ng d&ograve;ng bio cu&#7889;n h&uacute;t v&agrave; thao t&aacute;c &ldquo;qu&#7865;t ph&#7843;i&rdquo; &#273;&atilde; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh ch&#7845;t x&uacute;c t&aacute;c ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o cho nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; x&#7845;u ng&#7909;y trang &#273;&#7875; l&#7915;a d&#7889;i nhi&#7873;u b&#7841;n tr&#7867; c&ograve;n non n&#7899;t trong t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m.Ai g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i nh&#7919;ng g&atilde; s&#7903; khanh, nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; m&#7841;o danh &#7855;t h&#7859;n &#273;&#7873;u tr&#7843;i qua vi&#7879;c b&#7883; g&#7841; g&#7851;m v&agrave;o lo&#7841;i quan h&#7879; m&#7853;p m&#7901;, &ldquo;t&igrave;nh - ti&#7873;n&rdquo;, b&#7883; thao t&uacute;ng, l&#7907;i d&#7909;ng v&agrave; qu&#7845;y r&#7889;i b&#7857;ng ng&ocirc;n t&#7915;. N&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng may b&#7883; m&#7855;c l&#7915;a, h&#7853;u qu&#7843; &#273;&#7893;i l&#7841;i c&ograve;n kinh kh&#7911;ng h&#417;n nhi&#7873;u.&nbsp;&nbsp;3. Gi&#7919; c&aacute;i &#273;&#7847;u l&#7841;nh trong m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;Cu&#7897;c tranh lu&#7853;n v&#7873; vi&#7879;c dating app c&oacute; g&igrave; t&#7889;t hay kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t &#273;&atilde; di&#7877;n ra kh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t l&#7847;n v&agrave; d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; v&#7851;n ch&#432;a c&oacute; d&#7845;u hi&#7879;u &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n h&#7891;i k&#7871;t. N&oacute; &#273;&atilde; &#273;em &#273;&#7871;n s&#7921; thay &#273;&#7893;i l&#7899;n v&#7873; c&aacute;ch gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; ng&agrave;y nay k&#7871;t n&#7889;i, giao ti&#7871;p v&agrave; y&ecirc;u &#273;&#432;&#417;ng. Th&#7871; nh&#432;ng dating app &#273;i k&egrave;m v&#7899;i xu h&#432;&#7899;ng y&ecirc;u &ldquo;&#259;n li&#7873;n&rdquo; l&#7841;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n kh&aacute;c. V&agrave; &#273;&#7875; h&#7887;i li&#7879;u t&ocirc;i c&oacute; &#7911;ng h&#7897; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng y&ecirc;u &ldquo;&#259;n li&#7873;n&rdquo; hay kh&ocirc;ng &#432;? &#272;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; l&agrave; qu&aacute; kh&oacute; kh&#259;n! V&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng h&#7879; l&#7909;y m&agrave; n&oacute; g&acirc;y ra, vi&#7879;c gi&#7919; "c&aacute;i &#273;&#7847;u l&#7841;nh" trong m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m l&agrave; v&ocirc; c&ugrave;ng c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t. &nbsp;Y&ecirc;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c khi y&ecirc;u aiVi&#7879;c y&ecirc;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c khi y&ecirc;u ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh v&agrave; b&#7873;n v&#7919;ng h&#417;n. Y&ecirc;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n cho ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7921; t&#7921; tin v&agrave; s&#7921; t&#7921; tr&#7885;ng, gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; l&#7845;n &aacute;t b&#7903;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u v&agrave;o h&#7885;. Bi&#7871;t y&ecirc;u v&agrave; t&#7853;p trung v&agrave;o b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&#361;ng s&#7869; khi&#7871;n b&#7841;n hi&#7875;u r&otilde; nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883;, ni&#7873;m tin v&agrave; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u khi t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7891;ng h&agrave;nh ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh. 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Vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;n kh&eacute;o v&agrave; t&#7881;nh t&aacute;o khi b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng tr&ecirc;n c&#417; s&#7903; ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh, t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng v&agrave; s&#7921; hi&#7875;u bi&#7871;t l&#7851;n nhau, kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; l&ocirc;i cu&#7889;n b&#7903;i nh&#7919;ng c&#7843;m x&uacute;c v&agrave; h&#7913;ng th&uacute; ban &#273;&#7847;u. B&#7841;n c&#361;ng h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&aacute;ch gi&#7919; g&igrave;n v&agrave; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i c&#361;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t khi n&agrave;o n&ecirc;n bu&ocirc;ng tay v&agrave; ch&#7845;m d&#7913;t m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh n&#7871;u n&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh.&nbsp;&nbsp;K&#7870;T LU&#7852;NNh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c hay &ldquo;h&#7919;u x&#7841; t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n h&#432;&#417;ng&rdquo; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; &ldquo;m&oacute;n &#259;n li&#7873;n&rdquo; th&#417;m ngon ch&#7889;ng &ldquo;&#273;&oacute;i&rdquo; ngay l&#7853;p t&#7913;c nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i &#273;&#7875; l&#7841;i nhi&#7873;u r&#7911;i ro v&#7873; l&acirc;u v&#7873; d&agrave;i. T&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u &#273;&iacute;ch th&#7921;c l&agrave; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; ri&ecirc;ng Gen Z n&ecirc;n t&igrave;m &#273;&#7871;n. Tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh trong m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m kh&ocirc;ng &#273;ong &#273;&#7871;m b&#7857;ng s&#7889; m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh b&#7841;n tr&#7843;i qua, m&agrave; l&agrave; h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&aacute;ch t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng. T&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; th&agrave;nh t&iacute;ch, c&agrave;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; xem l&agrave; th&agrave;nh t&iacute;ch, t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u l&agrave; th&#7913; x&uacute;c c&#7843;m n&#7897;i t&#7841;i t&#7915; s&acirc;u b&ecirc;n trong, &#273;&#7865;p &#273;&#7869; v&agrave; cao qu&yacute;! 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