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M&#7895;i &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; sinh ra &#273;&#7873;u b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng, nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t t&#7915; khi n&agrave;o, c&aacute;n c&acirc;n b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng &#7845;y d&#7847;n l&#7879;ch &#273;i&hellip; V&agrave; nh&#432; m&#7897;t l&#7869; hi&#7875;n nhi&ecirc;n, con trai lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#432;&#7903;ng m&#7897;t &ldquo;&#273;&#7863;c quy&#7873;n &#432;u ti&ecirc;n&rdquo; v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh v&#7873; gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c trong ti&#7873;m th&#7913;c c&#7911;a nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i.Nh&#7919;ng b&eacute; trai lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng h&#7885;c nh&#7919;ng ng&agrave;nh ngh&#7873; &ldquo;tri th&#7913;c&rdquo; theo quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n, nh&#432; b&aacute;c s&#297;, k&#7929; s&#432;, gi&#7843;ng vi&ecirc;n, nh&agrave; nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u th&ocirc;ng qua vi&#7879;c nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n qu&agrave; mang t&iacute;nh s&#7855;p &#273;&#7863;t nh&#432; b&#7897; &#273;&#7891; ch&#417;i x&#7871;p h&igrave;nh, m&aacute;y bay, robot&hellip;Ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i, nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a b&eacute; g&aacute;i, nghi&#7877;m nhi&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c trao cho nh&#7919;ng con b&uacute;p b&ecirc; &#273;&aacute;ng y&ecirc;u, g&#432;&#417;ng, l&#432;&#7907;c c&ugrave;ng nh&#7919;ng b&#7897; &#273;&#7891; h&agrave;ng... V&agrave; c&#361;ng t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; &#273;&oacute;, ch&uacute;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7863;c &#273;&#7883;nh tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc; g&aacute;i y&#7871;u &#273;u&#7889;i, m&#7887;ng manh, nh&#7889;t m&igrave;nh trong nh&agrave;, ch&#7881; bi&#7871;t l&agrave;m &#273;&#7865;p v&agrave; n&#7845;u &#259;n nh&#432; c&aacute;ch b&agrave; v&agrave; m&#7865; ch&uacute;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c d&#7841;y.Nh&#7919;ng c&#7853;u b&eacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c d&#7841;y &#273;&#7875; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh nh&#7919;ng &ldquo;ng&#432;&#7901;i tri th&#7913;c&rdquo;, c&ograve;n nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc; b&eacute; th&igrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7843;o ban ch&#7881; n&ecirc;n quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n v&#7867; ngo&agrave;i v&agrave; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng n&#7897;i tr&#7907;. (Ngu&#7891;n &#7843;nh: Internet)T&#7915; khi c&ograve;n b&eacute;, nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a b&eacute; trai &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7843;o ban r&#7857;ng &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng sinh ra &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#7909; c&#7897;t, ng&#432;&#7901;i h&ugrave;ng, k&#7867; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c l&#7899;n, v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c kh&oacute;c; c&ograve;n ph&#7909; n&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7841;o ra ch&#7881; &#273;&#7875; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh h&#7853;u c&#7847;n cho ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng.V&agrave; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc; b&eacute;, &#273;&acirc;y s&#7869; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u n&oacute;i m&agrave; h&#7859;n r&#7857;ng ai c&#361;ng t&#7915;ng nghe qua &iacute;t nh&#7845;t m&#7897;t l&#7847;n: "H&#7885;c chi r&#7891;i sau n&agrave;y c&#361;ng l&#7845;y ch&#7891;ng, &#273;&#7867; con", "H&#7885;c cho gi&#7887;i r&#7891;i sau n&agrave;y c&#361;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&aacute;m con trai l&#7845;n l&#432;&#7899;t th&ocirc;i con &#7841;", "Con g&aacute;i m&agrave; gi&#7887;i qu&aacute; th&igrave; th&#7857;ng n&agrave;o m&agrave; th&egrave;m l&#7845;y"... V&agrave; c&#7913; th&#7871;, x&atilde; h&#7897;i m&#7863;c &#273;&#7883;nh g&aacute;n gh&eacute;p cho h&#7885; h&igrave;nh &#7843;nh nhu nh&#432;&#7907;c, y&#7871;u &#273;u&#7889;i, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ti&#7871;ng n&oacute;i v&agrave; d&#7877; b&#7883; sai khi&#7871;n b&#7903;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i-kh&aacute;c-ph&aacute;i: &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng.D&ugrave; c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n s&#7917;a &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c Tokyo, Nh&#7853;t &#273;&atilde; l&#7855;ng xu&#7889;ng, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng th&ocirc;i &aacute;m &#7843;nh b&#7903;i l&#7901;i gi&#7843;i th&iacute;ch &ldquo;ph&#7909; n&#7919; c&oacute; khuynh h&#432;&#7899;ng b&#7887; vi&#7879;c sau khi tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh b&aacute;c s&#297;, c&#7909; th&#7875; l&agrave; l&uacute;c h&#7885; l&#7853;p gia &#273;&igrave;nh v&agrave; c&oacute; con c&aacute;i. C&aacute;c b&aacute;c s&#297; nam &#273;&#432;&#7907;c cho l&agrave; b&aacute;m ngh&#7873;, ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &aacute;p l&#7921;c th&#7901;i gian v&agrave; c&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7897; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c cao h&#417;n&rdquo;. V&#7853;y m&#7899;i th&#7845;y, s&#7921; b&#7845;t b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng trong gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c t&#7891;n t&#7841;i l&agrave; v&igrave; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng suy ngh&#297;, t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7893; h&#7911; &#273;eo b&aacute;m v&agrave; k&eacute;o tr&igrave; nh&#7919;ng b&#432;&#7899;c ti&#7871;n c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i.Nh&#7919;ng nam sinh vi&ecirc;n, d&ugrave; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7853;t s&#7921; &#273;am m&ecirc; ng&agrave;nh y, c&#361;ng v&igrave; cha m&#7865; mong mu&#7889;n v&agrave; &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n x&atilde; h&#7897;i m&agrave; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh nh&#7919;ng &ldquo;b&aacute;c s&#297; l&agrave;nh ngh&#7873;&rdquo; m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch d&#7877; d&agrave;ng v&igrave; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng nh&agrave; tuy&#7875;n sinh v&#7899;i suy ngh&#297; &aacute;p &#273;&#7863;t v&agrave; c&#7893; h&#7911; nh&#432; &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c Tokyo. C&ograve;n nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc; g&aacute;i, d&ugrave; y&ecirc;u th&iacute;ch khoa h&#7885;c, mong mu&#7889;n c&#7889;ng hi&#7871;n cho x&atilde; h&#7897;i b&#7857;ng ng&agrave;nh ngh&#7873; v&ocirc; c&ugrave;ng cao qu&yacute;: b&aacute;c s&#297;, c&#361;ng v&igrave; b&#7903;i hi&#7879;n t&#432;&#7907;ng &ldquo;b&#7887; vi&#7879;c sau khi l&#7853;p gia &#273;&igrave;nh v&agrave; c&oacute; con c&aacute;i&rdquo; (theo l&#7901;i gi&#7843;i th&iacute;ch c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c Tokyo sau v&#7909; b&ecirc; b&#7889;i) m&agrave; ph&#7843;i g&#7845;p nh&#7919;ng trang s&aacute;ch, c&#7845;t nh&#7919;ng &#432;&#7899;c m&#417; &#7845;y &#273;i &#273;&#7875; t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m m&#7897;t t&#7845;m ch&#7891;ng th&agrave;nh &#273;&#7841;t v&agrave; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t "ng&#432;&#7901;i n&#7897;i tr&#7907; &#273;&#7843;m &#273;ang", "ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; &#273;&#7913;ng sau l&#432;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng"..., theo nh&#432; quan ni&#7879;m c&#7911;a nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i.H&#7885; c&oacute; c&ugrave;ng xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t &#273;i&#7875;m, nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c trao c&ugrave;ng c&#417; h&#7897;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng sinh vi&ecirc;n nam, nh&#7845;t l&agrave; trong nh&#7919;ng nh&oacute;m ng&agrave;nh &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i nh&acirc;n s&#7921; &ldquo;tri th&#7913;c cao&rdquo; v&agrave; &ldquo;ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &aacute;p l&#7921;c&rdquo;. (Ngu&#7891;n &#7843;nh: Internet)&#272;&#7845;y l&agrave; c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n chung c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng b&eacute; g&aacute;i, ch&uacute;ng l&#7899;n d&#7847;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh nh&#7919;ng n&#7919; sinh r&#7891;i l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; v&#7899;i c&#7843; ph&#7847;n &#273;&#7901;i ch&ocirc;n v&ugrave;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n trong nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n v&agrave; &aacute;p &#273;&#7863;t c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i. C&ograve;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i th&igrave; sao?L&uacute;c b&eacute; t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7863;ng cho nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n &#273;&#7891; h&agrave;ng, nh&#7919;ng con b&uacute;p b&ecirc; xinh &#273;&#7865;p, hay th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n trang s&#7913;c d&agrave;nh cho tr&#7867; em. Nh&#432;ng ba m&#7865; t&ocirc;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng, h&#7885; cho t&ocirc;i ch&#417;i nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; t&ocirc;i th&iacute;ch, t&ocirc;i th&iacute;ch ch&#417;i xe &#273;i&#7873;u khi&#7875;n, h&#7885; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng &eacute;p t&ocirc;i b&aacute;n &#273;&#7891; hang; t&ocirc;i th&iacute;ch ch&#417;i si&ecirc;u nh&acirc;n, h&#7885; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng thay n&oacute; b&#7857;ng m&#7897;t con b&uacute;p b&ecirc; v&agrave; b&#7843;o t&ocirc;i &ldquo;ru em ng&#7911;&rdquo;.Ba m&#7865; ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng b&#7855;t t&ocirc;i l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; theo &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n x&atilde; h&#7897;i. T&ocirc;i ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7921; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh m&#7885;i th&#7913; thu&#7897;c v&#7873; m&igrave;nh, mi&#7877;n l&agrave; &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i vi&#7879;c sai tr&aacute;i. (Ngu&#7891;n &#7843;nh: Internet)Khi c&ograve;n b&eacute;, t&ocirc;i b&#7843;o mu&#7889;n l&agrave;m b&aacute;c s&#297; v&agrave; ph&#7843;i &#273;i du h&#7885;c, ba m&#7865; t&ocirc;i ch&#7881; b&#7843;o &ldquo;mu&#7889;n l&agrave;m b&aacute;c s&#297; th&igrave; ph&#7843;i h&#7885;c th&#7853;t gi&#7887;i&rdquo; v&agrave; th&#7853;t v&#7853;y, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng su&#7889;t nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m c&#7845;p M&#7897;t, c&#7845;p Hai &#273;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh gi&#7845;c m&#417; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Th&#7845;y v&#7853;y, nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n khuy&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n h&#7885;c cao, h&#7885;c b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7875; sau n&agrave;y c&oacute; ngh&#7873; &#273;i l&agrave;m l&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Nh&#432;ng ba m&#7865; t&ocirc;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng, h&#7885; khuy&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i ph&#7843;i c&#7889; g&#7855;ng h&#7885;c h&agrave;nh, ph&#7843;i t&#7921; &#273;&#7913;ng tr&ecirc;n &#273;&ocirc;i ch&acirc;n c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, ngay c&#7843; ba m&#7865; c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; lo cho t&ocirc;i c&#7843; &#273;&#7901;i, th&igrave; &ldquo;ch&#7891;ng&rdquo; c&#361;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh t&#7889;t &ldquo;tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m&rdquo; &#273;&oacute;.L&ecirc;n c&#7845;p ba, t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n ra m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng h&#7907;p v&#7899;i ng&agrave;nh y v&agrave; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh h&#7885;c Quan h&#7879; qu&#7889;c t&#7871;, ba m&#7865; ch&#7881; b&#7843;o, h&#7885;c ng&agrave;nh n&agrave;y kh&aacute; c&#7921;c, nh&#432;ng ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng ph&#7843;n &#273;&#7889;i con g&aacute;i, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i, h&#7885; c&ograve;n &#7911;ng h&#7897; t&ocirc;i l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u m&igrave;nh th&iacute;ch. Nh&#432;ng nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n, b&#7841;n b&egrave; th&igrave; l&#7841;i lu&ocirc;n nh&igrave;n t&ocirc;i v&#7899;i &aacute;nh m&#7855;t e ng&#7841;i &ldquo;con g&aacute;i m&agrave; ch&#7885;n ng&agrave;nh n&agrave;o c&#361;ng kh&oacute;&rdquo; hay &ldquo;gia &#273;&igrave;nh c&oacute; ai l&agrave;m ng&agrave;nh &#273;&oacute; &#273;&acirc;u&rdquo;.C&oacute; th&#7875; t&ocirc;i may m&#7855;n h&#417;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, ba m&#7865; t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng ph&#7843;n &#273;&#7889;i b&#7845;t c&#7913; &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; t&ocirc;i mu&#7889;n l&agrave;m v&#7899;i l&yacute; do v&igrave; t&ocirc;i l&agrave; con g&aacute;i. Nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; ngo&#7841;i l&#7879; c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n &ldquo;con g&aacute;i l&#7899;n th&igrave; ph&#7843;i l&#7845;y ch&#7891;ng&rdquo; &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n v&agrave; b&#7841;n b&egrave;. Nh&#432;ng &#273;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng, &#273;&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; tin v&agrave;o l&#7901;i b&#7843;o ban &ldquo;con g&aacute;i kh&ocirc;ng b&#7857;ng con trai&rdquo;, t&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &#273;&#7875; ch&#7913;ng minh &#273;i&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i cho m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng &ldquo;con-g&aacute;i l&agrave; t&ecirc;n g&#7885;i kh&aacute;c c&#7911;a b&#7843;n-l&#297;nh&rdquo; v&agrave; r&#7857;ng &ldquo;m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7869; t&#7921; n&#7855;m l&#7845;y s&#7889; ph&#7853;n c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh, ch&#7913; n&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh b&#7903;i x&atilde; h&#7897;i v&agrave; &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n&rdquo;.T&ocirc;i mu&#7889;n n&oacute;i g&igrave; qua c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng b&eacute; g&aacute;i, v&agrave; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&ocirc;i?L&agrave; con g&aacute;i, t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng ngh&#297; &#273;&#7875; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7883; s&#7855;p &#273;&#7863;t b&#7903;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. N&#7871;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ta n&oacute;i l&agrave;m con g&aacute;i l&agrave; thi&#7879;t th&ograve;i, th&igrave; t&ocirc;i ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;n ch&iacute;nh s&#7921; thi&#7879;t th&ograve;i &#273;&oacute; th&agrave;nh &#432;u th&#7871; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. T&ocirc;i c&#7889; g&#7855;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7875; ch&#7913;ng minh cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c th&#7845;y t&ocirc;i t&agrave;i gi&#7887;i, m&agrave; l&agrave; &#273;&#7875; ph&#7911; &#273;&#7883;nh l&#7841;i c&acirc;u n&oacute;i c&#7917;a mi&#7879;ng &ldquo;ch&#7855;c n&#7883;ch&rdquo; c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i &ldquo;con g&aacute;i ch&#7859;ng bao gi&#7901; b&#7857;ng con trai&rdquo;.L&agrave; con g&aacute;i, t&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n cho m&igrave;nh quy&#7873;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7921; do, t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng ngh&#297; l&#7845;y ch&#7891;ng hay sinh con ph&#7843;i l&agrave; m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919;. &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; giai &#273;o&#7841;n m&agrave; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7869; tr&#7843;i qua, nh&#432;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; &#273;&iacute;ch &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng. N&#7871;u con trai v&agrave; con g&aacute;i sinh ra l&agrave; b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng, th&igrave; t&#7841;i sao ng&#432;&#7901;i ta l&#7841;i &#273;&#7863;t &#273;&iacute;ch &#273;&#7871;n c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; tr&#432;&#7899;c ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng? &#272;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; ch&#7859;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;ang ng&#7847;m kh&#7859;ng &#273;&#7883;nh r&#7857;ng m&#7897;t khi ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; &ldquo;l&#7845;y ch&#7891;ng, sinh con&rdquo; ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh ngh&#297;a l&agrave; cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; &#273;&atilde; tr&#7885;n v&#7865;n, c&ograve;n ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng sau khi &ldquo;l&#7845;y v&#7907;, c&oacute; con&rdquo; th&igrave; v&#7851;n s&#7869; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng theo &#273;u&#7893;i s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh hay sao?V&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, m&#7897;t khi ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; &ldquo;l&#7845;y ch&#7891;ng, sinh con&rdquo; ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh ngh&#297;a l&agrave; cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; &#273;&atilde; tr&#7885;n v&#7865;n, c&ograve;n ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng sau khi &ldquo;l&#7845;y v&#7907;, c&oacute; con&rdquo; th&igrave; v&#7851;n s&#7869; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng theo &#273;u&#7893;i s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. (Ngu&#7891;n &#7843;nh: Internet)V&agrave; l&agrave; con g&aacute;i, t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; cho ph&eacute;p m&igrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&igrave; tr&#7879; h&#7885;c t&#7853;p, v&igrave; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n, tuy h&#7885;c t&#7853;p kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng duy nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7871;n th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, nh&#432;ng &#273;&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ng&#7855;n nh&#7845;t v&agrave; tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p nh&#7845;t. T&ocirc;i ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; cho r&#7857;ng ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c l&agrave; s&#7921; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n t&#7889;t, d&ugrave; cho &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; l&agrave; ba m&#7865; hay ch&#7891;ng m&igrave;nh, v&igrave; n&#7871;u n&oacute; t&#7889;t, th&igrave; ch&#7859;ng ai khuy&ecirc;n con trai h&#7885;c nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m g&igrave; m&agrave; thay v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; khuy&#7871;n kh&iacute;ch ch&uacute;ng ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c ba m&#7865; hay v&#7907; m&igrave;nh.Cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i l&agrave; do h&#7885; t&#7921; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh, c&oacute; th&#7875;, nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; s&#7869; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng h&#7885; v&#7851;n s&#7889;ng h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c v&agrave; &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; d&ugrave; &#273;ang ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n v&agrave;o kinh t&#7871; c&#7911;a ch&#7891;ng, d&ugrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i gi&#7887;i giang. Nh&#432;ng h&#7885; l&#7841;i qu&ecirc;n m&#7845;t vi&#7879;c t&#7921; h&#7887;i r&#7857;ng h&#7885; s&#7869; ra sao n&#7871;u m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y b&#7879; &#273;&#7905; kinh t&#7871; c&#7911;a h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n. T&igrave;m l&#7845;y m&#7897;t n&#7873;n t&#7843;ng kinh t&#7871; kh&aacute;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; t&#7921; an &#7911;i m&igrave;nh r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&#7851;n &#7893;n v&agrave; s&#7869; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c v&#7899;i &#273;&ocirc;i ch&acirc;n kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t s&#7921; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n th&ocirc;ng minh &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i &#273;a s&#7889; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, n&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c d&ugrave;ng l&agrave;m l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n cho nh&#7919;ng b&eacute; g&aacute;i ch&#7881; v&igrave; h&#7885; ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng ch&uacute;ng y&#7871;u &#273;u&#7889;i, nhu nh&#432;&#7907;c v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng b&#7843;n l&#297;nh b&#7857;ng &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng, ch&#7881; th&#7871; th&ocirc;i!V&#7853;y n&#7871;u l&agrave; b&#7841;n, b&#7841;n s&#7869; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; c&#7911;a gia &#273;&igrave;nh, m&atilde;n nguy&#7879;n v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng t&#7893; &#7845;m v&agrave; &#273;&#7913;ng tr&ecirc;n &#273;&ocirc;i ch&acirc;n c&#7911;a &ldquo;ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7891;ng th&agrave;nh &#273;&#7841;t&rdquo; trong m&#417;, hay s&#7869; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng t&#7921; x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng ti&#7873;m l&#7921;c v&agrave; &#273;&#7913;ng tr&ecirc;n &#273;&ocirc;i ch&acirc;n c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh?T&aacute;c Gi&#7843;: &#272;&#7863;ng M&#7929; AnNgu&#7891;n: Tri&#7871;t H&#7885;c Tu&#7893;i Tr&#7867;

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