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<html><body>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &ldquo;Mu&#7889;n th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, tr&#432;&#7899;c h&#7871;t ph&#7843;i hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh&rdquo;<figure class="image"><img src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/YMV-zxI8yhrvvoqwx3vTl7uGELHcwmvJ7DpdyzbieCrFRZnyuecBb8v6YhNTOV2hFEuM_6ZkX2-RM2N9NRvkvvvAm9ynHe4VLgvwJzjJR2SqM5ylotQgz0J5uv5xTBd41bkjdYFk"></figure>K&#7929; n&#259;ng x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; k&#7929; n&#259;ng hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. Gi&aacute; tr&#7883; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&#7891;n t&#7841;i trong m&#7895;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n, l&agrave;m n&ecirc;n s&#7921; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t, ph&acirc;n bi&#7879;t ta v&#7899;i h&agrave;ng t&#7881; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. N&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m m&#7841;nh, nh&#7919;ng n&#259;ng l&#7921;c trong ta, &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7875; hi&#7879;n qua nh&#7919;ng k&#7929; n&#259;ng, h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng, &#273;&#7913;c tin, c&aacute;ch gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; v&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. Tuy v&#7853;y, kh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t nh&#7919;ng b&#7841;n tr&#7867; v&#7851;n &#273;ang m&ocirc;ng lung tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng t&igrave;m c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i cho c&acirc;u h&#7887;i: &ldquo;T&ocirc;i l&agrave; ai?&rdquo;, &ldquo;T&ocirc;i gi&#7887;i c&aacute;i g&igrave;, d&#7903; c&aacute;i g&igrave;?&rdquo;.&nbsp;T&#7841;i sao ta ph&#7843;i &#273;i t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh &#273;&oacute;? V&igrave; n&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; th&#7913; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh c&#7843; cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i ta. N&oacute; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh xem m&#7895;i s&aacute;ng m&#7903; m&#7855;t ra ta s&#7869; l&agrave;m g&igrave;, ta s&#7869; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh ai v&agrave; khi ta ch&#7871;t &#273;i, ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7901;i s&#7869; nh&#7899; &#273;&#7871;n ta nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o. V&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#7867;, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; h&#7885;c sinh c&#7845;p 3, &#273;&#7913;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c h&agrave;ng ng&agrave;n ng&atilde; r&#7869;, ch&uacute;ng ta n&ecirc;n &#273;i v&#7873; &#273;&acirc;u, n&ecirc;n ch&#7885;n th&#7913; g&igrave;? &#272;&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&agrave; c&acirc;u h&#7887;i kh&oacute; m&agrave; ch&#7881; khi ta hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh ta m&#7899;i tr&#7843; l&#7901;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. N&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; ngh&#7873; nghi&#7879;p, n&oacute; c&ograve;n quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh xem ta s&#7869; l&agrave; ai m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y, m&#7895;i tu&#7847;n v&agrave; su&#7889;t nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m th&aacute;ng cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i. N&oacute;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c, n&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch s&#7889;ng m&agrave; ta h&#432;&#7899;ng t&#7899;i, &#273;&#7875; tr&aacute;nh khi v&#7873; gi&agrave;, nh&igrave;n l&#7841;i v&agrave; th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; ph&iacute; ho&agrave;i cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng n&agrave;y nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o. Kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; th&#7871;, vi&#7879;c x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh gi&aacute; tr&#7883; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&ograve;n gi&uacute;p ta bi&#7871;t ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, bi&#7871;t t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng s&#7921; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t. Kh&ocirc;ng ai l&agrave; v&ocirc; gi&aacute; tr&#7883; tr&ecirc;n cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i n&agrave;y c&#7843;,h&#7885; ch&#7881; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng th&#7871; m&#7841;nh tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i &#7849;n gi&#7845;u &#273;ang ch&#7901; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; m&agrave; th&ocirc;i.&nbsp;V&#7853;y l&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n? T&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch con ng&#432;&#7901;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t m&#7899; r&#7889;i ren, h&#7895;n &#273;&#7897;n, th&#7871; n&ecirc;n vi&#7879;c hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh m&#7899;i kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; d&#7877; d&agrave;ng. N&#7871;u ta ch&#7881; ng&#7891;i ngh&#297;, ta s&#7869; ch&#7859;ng th&#7875; n&agrave;o t&igrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i, ph&#7843;i h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng ngay:<ol><li>Ph&#7843;i v&#432;&#7907;t qua gi&#7899;i h&#7841;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n: K&#7881; l&#7909;c l&agrave; do con ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7841;o ra &#273;&#7875; l&#7853;p k&#7881; l&#7909;c m&#7899;i. Ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng v&#7853;y, h&atilde;y lu&ocirc;n ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7889;t h&#417;n m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y, l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng phi th&#432;&#7901;ng h&#417;n, th&igrave; bi&#7871;t &#273;&acirc;u ta l&#7841;i c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; ra m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u k&igrave; di&#7879;u g&igrave; &#273;&oacute; &#7903; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&agrave; m&igrave;nh ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng bi&#7871;t &#273;&#7871;n.</li><li>Giao l&#432;u v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i: T&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7919;ng gi&uacute;p t&#259;ng kh&#7843; n&#259;ng giao ti&#7871;p m&agrave; c&ograve;n m&#7903; r&#7897;ng m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng, tha h&#7891; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n nh&#7919;ng kh&#7843; n&#259;ng m&#7899;i. H&#7885;c h&#7887;i b&#7841;n b&egrave; l&agrave; c&aacute;ch v&ocirc; c&ugrave;ng t&#7889;t &#273;&#7875; hi&#7875;u ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh.</li><li>H&#7885;c c&aacute;ch s&#7889;ng &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p: Ch&#7859;ng ai c&oacute; th&#7875; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khi n&#7845;p d&#432;&#7899;i s&#7921; che ch&#7903; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. Ph&#7843;i v&ugrave;ng v&#7851;y, ph&#7843;i phi&ecirc;u l&#432;u th&#7853;t nhi&#7873;u m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; thay &#273;&#7893;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh.</li><li>Th&#7887;a s&#7913;c l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u m&igrave;nh th&iacute;ch: &#272;i&#7873;u cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng n&agrave;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng nh&#7845;t. Nh&acirc;n l&uacute;c khi ta c&ograve;n tr&#7867;, ch&acirc;n c&ograve;n kh&#7887;e, &#273;&#7847;u &oacute;c c&ograve;n nhanh nh&#7841;y, h&atilde;y c&#7913; s&#7889;ng cho th&#7887;a th&iacute;ch. D&aacute;m ngh&#297; d&aacute;m l&agrave;m, d&aacute;m th&#7917; th&aacute;ch m&#7899;i bi&#7871;t &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; l&agrave; th&#7921;c s&#7921; ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh, m&#7899;i bi&#7871;t b&#7843;n l&#297;nh m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&acirc;u v&agrave; bi&#7871;t m&igrave;nh c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m g&igrave; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#432;&#7899;c m&#417;.</li></ol>Khi &#273;&atilde; kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&agrave; khi ta &#273;&atilde; b&#432;&#7899;c ch&acirc;n tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng. Ch&#7881; khi ta bi&#7871;t m&igrave;nh l&agrave; ai, x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh v&#7883; tr&iacute; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh tr&ecirc;n cu&#7897;c &#273;ua n&agrave;y, ta m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#7919;ng b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave; &#273;i ti&#7871;p. Khi &#273;&oacute;, &#273;&#7915;ng s&#7907; h&atilde;i, h&atilde;y c&#7913; &#432;&#7899;c m&#417; v&agrave; theo &#273;u&#7893;i &#432;&#7899;c m&#417; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7871;n c&ugrave;ng, kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n g&igrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;n b&#432;&#7899;c ta &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&#7919;a.&nbsp;</body></html>

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