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<html><body>M&#7908;C TI&Ecirc;U 5 N&#258;M T&#7898;I - TR&#7840;M D&#7914;NG CH&Acirc;N TI&#7870;P S&#7912;CN&#7871;u ch&uacute;ng ta coi cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c ch&#7841;y &#273;ua t&#7889;c &#273;&#7897;, &#432;&#7899;c m&#417; l&agrave; &#273;&iacute;ch &#273;&#7871;n th&igrave; ch&#7855;c h&#7859;n nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u d&agrave;i, ng&#7855;n &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng d&#7841;m d&#7915;ng ch&acirc;n &#273;&#7875; ch&uacute;ng ta l&#7845;y l&#7841;i s&#7913;c, &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng &#273;i v&agrave; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c b&#7913;t ph&aacute;t. V&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i nh&#432; l&agrave; kim ch&#7881; nam d&#7851;n &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng cho m&#7885;i n&#7895; l&#7921;c v&agrave; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh.C&ograve;n b&#7841;n, b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; bao gi&#7901; ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c vi&#7871;t ra nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u trong v&ograve;ng 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh ch&#432;a? N&#7871;u &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, b&#259;n kho&#259;n kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t n&ecirc;n &#273;&#7863;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o, c&oacute; c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7863;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u xa &#273;&#7871;n th&#7871; kh&ocirc;ng?&nbsp;B&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng tr&#7843; l&#7901;i nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u h&#7887;i tr&ecirc;n. M&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i m&#7897;t chuy&ecirc;n gia, c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i qu&aacute; gi&#7887;i giang, m&igrave;nh &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7875; d&#7841;y b&#7841;n &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; c&#7843;, m&agrave; ch&#7881; mu&#7889;n chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i b&#7841;n c&aacute;ch ngh&#297; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&#7873; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh.M&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m - M&#7889;i li&ecirc;n k&#7871;t gi&#7919;a qu&aacute; kh&#7913; v&agrave; hi&#7879;n t&#7841;iNh&#432; m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i &#7903; tr&ecirc;n, m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m nh&#432; m&#7897;t tr&#7841;m d&#7915;ng ch&acirc;n sau m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian b&#7841;n ch&#7841;y &#273;ua t&#7845;t b&#7853;t v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng b&#7897;n b&#7873; c&#7911;a c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. &#272;&atilde; &#273;&#7871;n l&uacute;c b&#7841;n d&#7915;ng ch&#7841;y, ngh&#7881; ng&#417;i v&agrave; nh&igrave;n l&#7841;i qu&atilde;ng &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng v&#7915;a qua. C&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m r&#7845;t t&#7889;t, nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7841;n th&#7845;t b&#7841;i r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u, kh&ocirc;ng sao c&#7843;. H&atilde;y cho m&igrave;nh kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian ngh&#297; l&#7841;i v&#7873; m&#7885;i vi&#7879;c, &#273;&#7875; bi&#7871;t m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; thay &#273;&#7893;i nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o so v&#7899;i 5 n&#259;m tr&#432;&#7899;c, &#273;&#7875; bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh c&#7911;a 5 n&#259;m tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#7863;t ra hay ch&#432;a, &#273;&#7875; x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; &#273;i &#273;&uacute;ng h&#432;&#7899;ng ch&#432;a, c&#7847;n c&oacute; s&#7921; &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881;nh n&agrave;o kh&ocirc;ng?M&#7895;i l&#7847;n d&#7915;ng l&#7841;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y, m&igrave;nh c&#7843;m th&#7845;y kh&aacute; tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i. M&igrave;nh t&#7893;ng k&#7871;t l&#7841;i nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, t&igrave;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n v&agrave; ch&#7881;nh s&#7917;a l&#7841;i m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u cho th&#7853;t ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i mong mu&#7889;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i.C&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7841;n s&#7869; th&#7855;c m&#7855;c t&#7841;i sao l&agrave; 5 n&#259;m, m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i m&#7897;t con s&#7889; kh&aacute;c?&#7902; ph&#432;&#417;ng &#272;&ocirc;ng, c&oacute; l&#7869; 5 l&agrave; m&#7897;t con s&#7889; &#273;&#7865;p, kh&ocirc;ng qu&aacute; d&agrave;i m&agrave; c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng qu&aacute; ng&#7855;n, &#273;&#7911; &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u trung h&#7841;n trong cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i.&nbsp;N&#259;m b&#7841;n 18 tu&#7893;i, b&#7841;n b&#432;&#7899;c ch&acirc;n v&agrave;o &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, b&#7841;n c&oacute; 4 n&#259;m h&#7885;c &#273;&#7875; tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng sinh vi&ecirc;n, v&agrave; 1 n&#259;m ra tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7875; b&#432;&#417;n ch&#7843;i cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. C&oacute; l&#7869;, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; 5 n&#259;m qu&yacute; gi&aacute; nh&#7845;t trong cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&#7895;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i, l&agrave; l&uacute;c &#273;&#7875; m&igrave;nh th&#7917;, m&igrave;nh d&aacute;m sai v&agrave; d&aacute;m s&#7917;a.5 n&#259;m ti&#7871;p theo b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i b&#432;&#417;n ch&#7843;i v&agrave;o cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng, ph&#7843;i x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh xem c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh s&#7869; &#273;i theo h&#432;&#7899;ng n&agrave;o?V&agrave; 5 n&#259;m ti&#7871;p theo b&#7841;n s&#7869; ph&#7843;i l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n gi&#7919;a gia &#273;&igrave;nh v&agrave; s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n?T&#7915; 18-38 tu&#7893;i, 20 n&#259;m quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh ph&#7847;n l&#7899;n cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i c&ograve;n l&#7841;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. Th&#7917; h&#7887;i n&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i, b&#7841;n li&#7879;u c&oacute; l&#7841;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng, m&#7845;t ph&#432;&#417;ng h&#432;&#7899;ng?M&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i: C&#7847;u n&#7889;i gi&#7919;a hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i v&agrave; t&#432;&#417;ng laiV&#7899;i m&igrave;nh, &#273;&#7863;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; d&#7915;ng l&#7841;i &#7903; vi&#7879;c ng&#7891;i g&#7841;ch &#273;&#7847;u d&ograve;ng nh&#7919;ng d&ograve;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. M&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng vi&#7871;t th&#432; &#273;&#7875; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n &#273;i&#7873;u m&igrave;nh mu&#7889;n. M&#7897;t b&#7913;c th&#432; d&agrave;nh cho m&igrave;nh c&#7911;a 5 n&#259;m sau &#273;&#7885;c. C&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7841;n s&#7869; th&#7845;y n&oacute; h&#417;i k&igrave; c&#7909;c, nh&#432;ng tin m&igrave;nh &#273;i, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t vi&#7879;c th&uacute; v&#7883;, truy&#7873;n c&#7843;m h&#7913;ng h&#417;n nhi&#7873;u so v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c ng&#7891;i li&#7879;t k&ecirc;. M&igrave;nh s&#7869; k&#7875; cho m&igrave;nh c&#7911;a 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng t&acirc;m s&#7921; nho nh&#7887;, nh&#7919;ng mong mu&#7889;n v&#7873; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, b&#7841;n b&egrave;, gia &#273;&igrave;nh v&agrave; c&#7843; vi&#7879;c m&igrave;nh mu&#7889;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7871; n&agrave;o. M&igrave;nh c&#361;ng vi&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i &#273;&#7897;ng vi&ecirc;n, an &#7911;i m&igrave;nh c&#7911;a 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7887; cu&#7897;c v&agrave; ph&#7843;i ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c c&#7889; g&#7855;ng. Vi&#7871;t ra m&#7897;t b&#7913;c th&#432; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, nh&#432; l&agrave; m&#7897;t l&#7901;i h&#7913;a m&igrave;nh d&agrave;nh cho m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c - m&igrave;nh c&#7911;a 5 n&#259;m sau. V&igrave; th&#7871; m&agrave; m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c h&#417;n, c&#7889; g&#7855;ng theo &#273;u&#7893;i nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u m&igrave;nh mong mu&#7889;n h&#417;n. M&igrave;nh ch&#7901; &#273;&#7907;i 5 n&#259;m sau, m&igrave;nh s&#7869; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khoe nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u m&igrave;nh vi&#7871;t &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&atilde; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh s&#7921; th&#7853;t, t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&igrave; m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; l&agrave; m&#7897;t phi&ecirc;n b&#7843;n t&#7889;t h&#417;n c&#7911;a qu&aacute; kh&#7913;.<figure class="image"><img src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/0Oo2EgskXLqfyGzcDS1UWO8zKUIWbQ_VtJx0Wiy53SJubzWrhX_XMPU7KRQmHqqCXQj_RZmmMEDGksPIlnifaWjl2f-nXa87vyXb7CH6W4rErAhS3fWlnOxn78-SOFmqRq1YzcE8"></figure>Th&#7853;t th&uacute; v&#7883; khi b&#7841;n l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i vi&#7871;t th&#432;, g&#7917;i th&#432; v&agrave; nh&#7853;n l&#7845;y l&aacute; th&#432; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nhngu&#7891;n &#7843;nh: InternetVi&#7871;t, bao gi&#7901; c&#361;ng t&#7889;n nhi&#7873;u th&#7901;i gian h&#417;n ngh&#297;, nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&acirc;u h&#417;n v&agrave; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c ch&acirc;n th&#7853;t h&#417;n, v&igrave; v&#7853;y m&igrave;nh mong c&aacute;c b&#7841;n c&#361;ng s&#7869; d&agrave;nh m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t th&#7901;i gian nh&#7887; b&eacute; &#273;&#7875; vi&#7871;t ra nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a 5 n&#259;m t&#7899;i, c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7917; d&#7909;ng c&aacute;ch c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh ho&#7863;c kh&ocirc;ng, mi&#7877;n l&agrave; c&aacute;c b&#7841;n vi&#7871;t ra, v&agrave; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh n&oacute;, nh&#432; m&igrave;nh.Thu Ph&#432;&#417;ng</body></html>

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