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&ldquo;Kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t b&agrave;n tay c&oacute; linh h&#7891;n kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7881;? T&#7841;i sao ng&#432;&#7901;i ta c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7847;n ng&#7841;i vi&#7871;t ra nh&#7919;ng d&ograve;ng b&igrave;nh lu&#7853;n nh&#432; th&#7871;&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i b&igrave;nh lu&#7853;n tr&ecirc;n Facebook c&#7911;a m&#7895;i m&#7897;t c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n s&#7921; vi&#7879;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; n&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i &#273;&#417;n thu&#7847;n. M&#7895;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#7849;n sau nh&#7919;ng t&agrave;i kho&#7843;n &#273;&oacute; d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; &#273;&#7873;u cho r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh c&oacute; quy&#7873;n ph&aacute;n x&eacute;t m&#7885;i th&#7913;, &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;o&#7841;t &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; &#273;&uacute;ng hay sai. Nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i &aacute;c &yacute; tr&ecirc;n m&#7841;ng sinh ra t&#7915; &#273;&ocirc;i tay c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; r&#7843;nh r&#7895;i, ng&agrave;y ng&agrave;y ch&#7881; bi&#7871;t ph&aacute;t ng&ocirc;n cay nghi&#7879;t.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Vi&#7879;c c&#7889; s&#7889;ng ch&#7871;t t&igrave;m ra cho khuy&#7871;t &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng c&oacute; khi l&#7841;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; b&#7857;ng ch&#7913;ng cho n&#7897;i t&acirc;m ngh&egrave;o n&agrave;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Th&#7853;t &#273;&aacute;ng bu&#7891;n khi m&agrave; nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; bu&ocirc;ng ra l&#7901;i n&oacute;i &#273;&oacute; l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; bi&#7871;t khen ng&#7907;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; bi&#7871;t quan t&acirc;m ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i mu&#7889;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng m&igrave;nh, kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; bi&#7871;t d&agrave;nh t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u cho m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i mu&#7889;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&#272;i&#7873;u minh ch&#7913;ng r&otilde; r&agrave;ng nh&#7845;t c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng b&igrave;nh lu&#7853;n &aacute;c &yacute; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&#7893;i ti&#7871;ng. &#272;&atilde; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i n&#7893;i ti&#7871;ng th&igrave; vi&#7879;c c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i gh&eacute;t hay th&iacute;ch l&agrave; chuy&#7879;n hi&#7875;n nhi&ecirc;n. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; c&aacute;i c&#7899; &#273;&#7875; ta bu&ocirc;ng l&#7901;i mi&#7879;t th&#7883; h&#7885;. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i m&agrave; t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&ecirc;n m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i l&agrave;m t&ocirc;i s&#7907; &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c gi&#7853;t m&igrave;nh. H&#7885; vi&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u ch&#7919; v&#7873; ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y ng&#432;&#7901;i kia m&agrave; ch&#7859;ng ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c m&igrave;nh n&oacute;i l&agrave; sai hay &#273;&uacute;ng. H&#7885; th&ugrave; gh&eacute;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; h&#7885; ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c, ch&#7881; bi&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute; qua l&#7901;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y ng&#432;&#7901;i kia. H&ugrave;a theo h&#432;&#7899;ng d&#432; lu&#7853;n m&agrave; &#273;&#432;a ra ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch, &#273;&#7863;t &#273;i&#7873;u v&#7873; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; nh&#7919;ng &aacute;c &yacute; n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i v&igrave; m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i m&#7899;i c&oacute;. N&oacute; c&oacute; trong &yacute; th&#7913;c c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i. Internet ch&#7881; l&agrave; c&ocirc;ng c&#7909; &#273;&#7875; ng&#432;&#7901;i ta gi&#7845;u m&#7863;t v&agrave; tr&#7889;n tr&aacute;nh tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m d&#7877; h&#417;n. Th&#7871; n&ecirc;n khi b&#7841;n ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng ch&#7881; m&#7897;t l&#7901;i n&oacute;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh th&igrave; c&oacute; g&igrave; &#273;&acirc;u. Nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u ai c&#361;ng ngh&#297; v&#7853;y g&#7897;p l&#7841;i n&oacute; s&#7869; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t v&#7909; &ldquo;B&#7841;o l&#7921;c m&#7841;ng&rdquo;. N&#7871;u v&#7853;y th&igrave;&nbsp; l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i ch&#7883;u tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&#7899;i l&#7901;i n&oacute;i!&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;M&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t th&#7871; gi&#7899;i kh&aacute;c so v&#7899;i cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng h&agrave;ng ng&agrave;y c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta nh&#432;ng d&ugrave; l&agrave; &#7903; &#273;&acirc;u l&#7901;i n&oacute;i &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; m&#7897;t gi&aacute; tr&#7883; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh. N&#7871;u &#7903; internet l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i b&igrave;nh lu&#7853;n cay nghi&#7879;t th&igrave; trong &#273;&#7901;i th&#7921;c l&agrave;m t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t c&#7909;m t&#7915; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &ldquo;n&oacute;i x&#7845;u sau l&#432;ng&rdquo;. &#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; vi&#7879;c m&agrave; h&#7847;u nh&#432; v&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave;m &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;i t&#7887;a c&#259;ng th&#7859;ng hay l&agrave; s&#7921; b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c t&aacute;n g&#7851;u n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;. Ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&ocirc;i khi bu&ocirc;ng nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng hay v&#7873; m&#7897;t ai &#273;&oacute;, nh&#432; th&#7875; mu&#7889;n k&#7875; t&#7897;i hay k&#7871;t &aacute;n h&#7885;. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tham gia cu&#7897;c n&oacute;i x&#7845;u t&#7915; ng&#432;&#7901;i &ldquo;kh&#7903;i x&#432;&#7899;ng&rdquo; cho &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; &ldquo;h&ugrave;a theo&rdquo; h&#259;ng h&aacute;i bu&ocirc;ng l&#7901;i t&aacute;n &#273;&#7891;ng, ngay t&#7915; gi&acirc;y ph&uacute;t n&oacute;i nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i x&#7845;u x&iacute; &#273;&atilde; b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u nh&#7853;n th&#7845;y n&#7895;i kho&aacute;i c&#7843;m k&igrave; l&#7841;. V&agrave; cu&#7897;c n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n di&#7877;n ra th&igrave; h&#7847;u nh&#432; &#273;&#7873;u b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u b&#7857;ng c&acirc;u &ldquo;T&ocirc;i ch&#7881; n&oacute;i cho m&igrave;nh c&#7853;u th&ocirc;i &#273;&#7845;y&rdquo;. V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i &#7845;y s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; bi&#7871;n m&#7845;t, n&oacute;i s&#7869; lu&ocirc;n lu&ocirc;n hi&#7879;n h&#7919;u.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &ldquo;L&#7901;i n&oacute;i x&#7845;u sau l&#432;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; t&agrave;n l&#7909;i&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;S&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; m&#7901; nh&#7841;t theo n&#259;m th&aacute;ng&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;L&#7901;i n&oacute;i x&#7845;u sau l&#432;ng s&#7869; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c truy&#7873;n t&#7915; mi&#7879;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y sang ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, quay v&ograve;ng, quay v&ograve;ng l&#7885;t v&agrave;o tai c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; l&#7855;m &#273;i&#7873;u, v&#7897;i v&atilde; truy&#7873;n &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&ocirc;i m&ocirc;i c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; th&iacute;ch &#273;&#417;m &#273;&#7863;t. R&#7891;i cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng, ch&uacute;ng s&#7869; bay &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&ocirc;i tai c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7883; &#273;&#7863;t &#273;i&#7873;u. C&#7843; l&#7901;i n&oacute;i x&#7845;u ban &#273;&#7847;u v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng tam sao th&#7845;t b&#7843;n c&#7911;a n&oacute; &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c truy&#7873;n nguy&ecirc;n v&#7865;n &#273;&#7871;n tai c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7883; h&#7841;i.R&#7845;t kh&oacute; &#273;&#7875; bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i x&#7845;u &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o. Nh&#432;ng tuy nhi&ecirc;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n r&#7857;ng: Nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i x&#7845;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c bu&ocirc;ng ra v&#7899;i m&#7897;t t&#7889;c &#273;&#7897; &#273;&aacute;ng s&#7907; nh&#432; t&ecirc;n bay nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t l&uacute;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; n&oacute; s&#7869; &#273;&#7893;i h&#432;&#7899;ng, lao &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432; m&#7897;t m&#361;i gi&aacute;o s&#7855;c nh&#7885;n &#273;&acirc;m th&#7859;ng v&agrave;o &#273;&ocirc;i tai v&agrave; tr&aacute;i tim nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; &#273;&atilde; ph&aacute;t ng&ocirc;n ra n&oacute;.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&ldquo; Hy v&#7885;ng r&#7857;ng, m&#7895;i l&#7901;i n&oacute;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t ai &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; l&agrave; m&#7897;t b&ocirc;ng hoa r&#7921;c r&#7905; ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t m&#361;i gi&aacute;o s&#7855;c nh&#7885;n.&rdquo;T&aacute;c gi&#7843;: L&aacute; nh&#7887;&nbsp;

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