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<html><body>Quan h&#7879; x&atilde; giao, d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian t&aacute;m chuy&#7879;n, &#273;&#7913;ng l&#7841;i c&#432;&#7901;i n&oacute;i, l&#432;u s&#7889; t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m g&igrave;, khi &#273;&#7871;n l&uacute;c ta c&#7847;n h&#7885; l&#7841;i l&agrave;m ng&#417;, ch&#7881; b&#7903;i v&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911; &#432;u t&uacute;, kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911; gi&#7887;i giang. Qu&#7843; l&agrave; r&#7845;t t&agrave;n nh&#7851;n, nh&#432;ng ai l&#7841;i mu&#7889;n gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; m&#7897;t k&#7867; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; n&#7893;i b&#7853;t &#273;&acirc;y, ph&#7843;i v&#7853;y kh&ocirc;ng?N&#259;m &#7845;y, t&ocirc;i m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh l&ecirc;n th&agrave;nh ph&#7889; mang theo l&#7901;i b&#7889; d&#7863;n: "Nh&#7899; ch&#417;i v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u b&#7841;n v&agrave;o con nh&eacute;!". V&igrave; th&#7871;, khi v&agrave;o &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t th&iacute;ch giao l&#432;u, tham gia c&ugrave;ng l&uacute;c ba t&#7893; ch&#7913;c &#273;o&agrave;n th&#7875;, ch&#7881; c&#7847;n c&oacute; ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng l&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; m&#7863;t. T&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n vui v&#7867; l&#432;u s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&uacute;c t&ocirc;i c&ograve;n r&#7845;t t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&#7873; s&#7889; l&#432;&#7907;ng s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i c&#7911;a m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; m&igrave;nh l&#432;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.T&ocirc;i r&#7845;t nhi&#7879;t t&igrave;nh, ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh v&#7899;i m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng hi&#7875;u sao lu&ocirc;n b&#7883; b&#7887; qua. Ch&#7881; khi c&#7847;n c&oacute; ai &#273;&oacute; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c v&#7863;t, h&#7885; m&#7899;i nh&#7899; ra trong h&#7897;i c&ograve;n c&oacute; t&ocirc;i. Kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian &#273;&oacute;, tuy th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n c&oacute; m&#7863;t t&#7841;i nh&#7919;ng cu&#7897;c h&#7897;i h&#7885;p, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c cho v&agrave;o b&#7897; nh&#7899;, m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n l&agrave;m b&#7841;n v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i l&#7855;m.Sau c&aacute;c ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng, ng&#432;&#7901;i &#7903; l&#7841;i d&#7885;n d&#7865;p v&#7879; sinh lu&ocirc;n l&agrave; t&ocirc;i.M&#7897;t l&#7847;n, t&ocirc;i quen v&#7899;i m&#7897;t gi&aacute;o vi&ecirc;n trong tr&#432;&#7901;ng. L&agrave; h&#7885;c sinh, t&ocirc;i th&#7853;t th&agrave; &#273;&#7871;n ph&ograve;ng c&#7911;a th&#7847;y v&agrave;o l&uacute;c &#273;&ecirc;m mu&#7897;n ch&#7881; v&igrave; th&#7847;y b&#7843;o bu&#7893;i t&#7889;i th&#7847;y tr&#7921;c ban m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh &#7903; v&#259;n ph&ograve;ng. Th&#7847;y n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t l&acirc;u, c&#361;ng ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t, ch&#7881; l&agrave; v&agrave;i c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n x&atilde; giao ng&#7855;n ng&#7911;i. Th&#7847;y b&#7843;o t&ocirc;i r&#7857;ng th&#7847;y ph&#7909; tr&aacute;ch c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng. T&ocirc;i ch&#259;m ch&uacute; l&#7855;ng nghe, tr&#432;&#7899;c khi v&#7873; c&ograve;n l&#432;u s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i c&#7911;a th&#7847;y, c&ograve;n bi&#7871;u th&#7847;y hai t&uacute;i hoa qu&#7843; mang theo.Sau n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i ph&#7843;i vi&#7871;t &#273;&#417;n xin l&ecirc;n c&#7845;p. V&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t c&oacute; th&#7875; l&ecirc;n m&#7841;ng t&#7843;i b&#7843;n m&#7851;u v&#7873;, n&ecirc;n th&#7857;ng ng&#7889;c nh&#432; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; g&#7917;i tin nh&#7855;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7901; th&#7847;y gi&uacute;p. &Ocirc;ng ta l&#7841;nh l&ugrave;ng tr&#7843; l&#7901;i g&#7885;n l&#7887;n: "T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng r&#7895;i."Th&#7921;c ra, trong r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i s&#7921; t&#7915; ch&#7889;i nh&#432; th&#7871;. T&ocirc;i c&#7913; ngh&#297; m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; l&#432;u s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i th&igrave; &iacute;t nh&#7845;t hai b&ecirc;n c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; l&#7851;n nhau.Nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; qu&ecirc;n m&#7845;t m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u r&#7845;t quan tr&#7885;ng, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave;: Ch&#7881; c&oacute; b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng trong quan h&#7879;, m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; l&#7851;n nhau.C&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n c&oacute; li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n v&#7883; th&#7847;y gi&aacute;o n&agrave;y v&#7851;n ch&#432;a k&#7871;t th&uacute;c. V&agrave;i n&#259;m sau, khi &#273;&atilde; l&agrave; m&#7897;t gi&aacute;o vi&ecirc;n ti&#7871;ng Anh, t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t c&uacute; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i v&agrave;o n&#7917;a &#273;&ecirc;m. Ng&#432;&#7901;i g&#7885;i &#273;&#7871;n ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; v&#7883; th&#7847;y gi&aacute;o n&#259;m x&#432;a &#273;&oacute;. &Ocirc;ng ta c&#432;&#7901;i n&oacute;i h&#7887;i th&#259;m t&ocirc;i v&agrave;i c&acirc;u, r&#7891;i r&#7845;t nhanh ch&oacute;ng &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; ch&iacute;nh.&nbsp;<figure class="image"><img src="https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2015/01/08/18/27/startup-593341_960_720.jpg" alt="Kh&#7903;i &#272;&#7897;ng, Ng&#432;&#7901;i, Thung L&#361;ng Silicon"></figure>Th&igrave; ra &ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n nh&#7901; t&ocirc;i gi&#7899;i thi&#7879;u cho m&#7897;t gi&aacute;o vi&ecirc;n ti&#7871;ng Anh &#273;&aacute;ng tin c&#7853;y, hy v&#7885;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; d&#7841;y th&ecirc;m cho con trai c&#7911;a &ocirc;ng ta. Th&#7901;i gian &#273;&oacute;, ng&agrave;y n&agrave;o t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i l&ecirc;n l&#7899;p, ban ng&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; m&#7879;t h&#7871;t c&#7843; h&#417;i, bu&#7893;i t&#7889;i th&igrave; b&#7853;n &#273;&#7871;n hoa m&#7855;t ch&oacute;ng m&#7863;t, l&#7841;i nh&#7899; &#273;&#7871;n qu&aacute; kh&#7913; ch&#7859;ng t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p g&igrave;, th&#7871; l&agrave; t&ocirc;i tr&#7843; l&#7901;i &#273;&#7889;i ph&oacute;:&nbsp;"&#272;&#7875; h&ocirc;m kh&aacute;c em h&#7887;i xem sao", r&#7891;i t&#7855;t m&aacute;y lu&ocirc;n.T&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n, t&ocirc;i ch&#7859;ng gi&uacute;p g&igrave; cho &ocirc;ng ta c&#7843;.Sau n&agrave;y, khi ch&#7907;t nh&#7899; &#273;&#7871;n chuy&#7879;n n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7863;t c&acirc;u h&#7887;i: V&igrave; sao t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng gi&uacute;p &ocirc;ng ta, hay n&oacute;i c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c, tr&#432;&#7899;c kia, v&igrave; sao &ocirc;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng gi&uacute;p t&ocirc;i? &nbsp;C&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i r&#7845;t &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n: B&#7887; qua t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#7911;a hai b&ecirc;n v&#7899;i nhau, &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n c&#417; b&#7843;n &#273;&#7875; khi&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; m&igrave;nh ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; m&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&aacute;p l&#7841;i h&#7885; &#273;i&#7873;u c&oacute; gi&aacute; tr&#7883; t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#432;&#417;ng. Hay n&oacute;i c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c, ng&agrave;y tr&#432;&#7899;c t&ocirc;i l&agrave; h&#7885;c sinh, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; c&aacute;ch n&agrave;o &#273;&aacute;p l&#7841;i cho &ocirc;ng ta &#273;i&#7873;u &ocirc;ng ta c&#7847;n; sau n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; nhu c&#7847;u l&agrave;m g&igrave; li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c &ocirc;ng ta gi&#7887;i n&#7919;a, &ocirc;ng ta c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; c&aacute;ch n&agrave;o tr&#7843; &#417;n t&ocirc;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch x&#7913;ng &#273;&aacute;ng, n&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y c&#7847;n quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n &ocirc;ng &#7845;yH&#417;n n&#7919;a, n&#7873;n t&#7843;ng t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; con s&#7889; 0. S&#7921; th&#7853;t r&#7845;t l&#7841;nh l&ugrave;ng, nh&#432;ng &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; s&#7921; th&#7853;t.Ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng tham gia v&agrave;o c&aacute;c cu&#7897;c x&atilde; giao, nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng, r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u cu&#7897;c x&atilde; giao tr&ecirc;n th&#7921;c t&#7871; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m g&igrave;, nh&#432; vi&#7879;c l&#432;u l&#7841;i s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, khi c&#7847;n s&#7921; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905;, th&igrave; ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7845;t c&ocirc;ng g&#7885;i m&#7897;t c&uacute; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i m&agrave; th&ocirc;i.<figure class="image"><img src="https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2020/04/18/20/01/background-5060836_960_720.jpg" alt="N&#7873;n, Kinh Doanh, Closeup, M&aacute;y T&iacute;nh, Kh&aacute;i Ni&#7879;m, Thi&#7871;t K&#7871;"></figure>C&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n t&#7915;ng h&#7887;i t&ocirc;i r&#7857;ng: "M&igrave;nh c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i, b&#7841;n b&egrave; c&#361;ng nhi&#7873;u, v&#7853;y t&#7841;i sao lu&ocirc;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, &#273;&#7871;n n&#7895;i b&acirc;y gi&#7901; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7873;u ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; ai gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905;?".&nbsp;&#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y khi&#7871;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y r&#7845;t bu&#7891;n.T&ocirc;i h&#7887;i c&ocirc; &#7845;y: "Khi n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n, m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng gi&#7899;i thi&#7879;u c&#7853;u th&#7871; n&agrave;o?"C&ocirc; &#7845;y b&#7843;o: "B&#7841;n b&egrave; g&#7885;i t&#7899; l&agrave; Ti&#7875;u B&#7841;ch."T&ocirc;i h&#7887;i: "Th&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885; gi&#7899;i thi&#7879;u nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i gi&#7887;i giang nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o?"C&ocirc; &#7845;y tr&#7843; l&#7901;i: "L&agrave; nh&agrave; v&#259;n, ch&#7911; nhi&#7879;m, &#273;&#7841;o di&#7877;n, gi&aacute;o s&#432;..."T&ocirc;i b&#7843;o: "Th&#7871; n&ecirc;n c&#7853;u hi&#7875;u ch&#432;a?! N&#7871;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&#7853;u kh&ocirc;ng gi&#7887;i, th&igrave; nh&#7919;ng quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i kia th&#7921;c ra c&#361;ng v&ocirc; ngh&#297;a m&agrave; th&ocirc;i. Ch&#7881; c&oacute; s&#7921; trao &#273;&#7893;i b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7921; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; h&#7907;p l&iacute;. Do &#273;&oacute;, m&#7897;t khi c&#7853;u c&ograve;n ch&#432;a &#273;&#7911; gi&#7887;i, ch&#432;a &#273;&#7911; &#432;u t&uacute;, th&igrave; ch&#7899; c&oacute; l&atilde;ng ph&iacute; qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u th&#7901;i gian qu&yacute; b&aacute;u v&agrave;o c&aacute;c cu&#7897;c x&atilde; giao, h&atilde;y d&ugrave;ng m&#7897;t &iacute;t th&#7901;i gian &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7885;c s&aacute;ch n&acirc;ng cao k&#7929; n&#259;ng chuy&ecirc;n m&ocirc;n. Ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng tham gia v&agrave;o m&#7897;t h&#7897;i n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, r&#7891;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra r&#7857;ng ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; &#273;&#7875; n&oacute;i, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m g&igrave;, b&#7903;i l&#7869; t&#7853;p th&#7875; &#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng thu&#7897;c v&#7873; ch&uacute;ng ta. Ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng, ch&#7881; c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#432;u t&uacute; t&agrave;i gi&#7887;i, m&#7899;i c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i c&oacute; &iacute;ch." &nbsp;<figure class="image"><img src="https://cafebiz.cafebizcdn.vn/thumb_w/640/2018/9/7/9qtuvcuq-1536309006981716506224.jpeg" alt="Ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7871;n 30 tu&#7893;i t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i hi&#7875;u, ch&#7881; c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i t&agrave;i gi&#7887;i m&#7899;i c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i c&oacute; &iacute;ch, c&ograve;n thanh xu&acirc;n c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u &ldquo;b&#7841;n b&egrave;&rdquo; th&igrave; c&#361;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; x&atilde; giao v&ocirc; b&#7893; - &#7842;nh 3."></figure>&#272;&#7915;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y th&#7871; gi&#7899;i n&agrave;y t&agrave;n kh&#7889;c, &#273;&oacute; ch&#7881; l&agrave; quy t&#7855;c c&#7911;a tr&ograve; ch&#417;i...C&oacute; s&#7921; trao &#273;&#7893;i b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng, th&igrave; m&#7899;i c&oacute; t&igrave;nh b&#7841;n h&#7919;u b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng!V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c khi mu&#7889;n c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; c&oacute; &iacute;ch, v&agrave; m&#7897;t th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&#7919;ng ch&#7855;c th&igrave; h&atilde;y t&#7921; gi&uacute;p m&igrave;nh tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7919;u &iacute;ch v&agrave; l&agrave; chuy&ecirc;n gia trong m&#7897;t l&#297;nh v&#7921;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;.*B&agrave;i vi&#7871;t th&#7875; hi&#7879;n quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&aacute; nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a t&aacute;c gi&#7843; L&yacute; Th&#432;&#7907;ng Long, &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&iacute;ch t&#7915; cu&#7889;n s&aacute;ch "G&#7885;i l&agrave; &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh, th&#7853;t ra l&agrave; ho&agrave;i ph&iacute; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng"------------------------------------------------------------Link b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t g&#7889;c : <a href="http://ttvn.toquoc.vn/kinh-doanh/phai-den-30-tuoi-toi-moi-hieu-chi-co-nguoi-tai-gioi-moi-co-duoc-quan-he-xa-hoi-co-ich-con-thanh-xuan-co-nhieu-ban-be-thi-cung-chi-la-nhung-moi-quan-he-xa-giao-vo-bo-52018791554107.htm">https://bit.ly/3eP95qW</a>&#7842;nh: Internet</body></html>

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