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Khi b&#7883; thu h&uacute;t b&#7903;i m&#7897;t ai &#273;&oacute;, b&#7843;n n&#259;ng s&#7869; th&ocirc;i th&uacute;c ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7889; g&#7855;ng l&agrave;m h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng h&#7885; v&agrave; t&#7921; m&#7863;c &#273;&#7883;nh r&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; li&ecirc;n t&#7909;c &aacute;m ch&#7881; v&#7899;i &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; h&#7885; c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7891;ng trong quan &#273;i&#7875;m l&#7851;n l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432;&#7901;ng n&agrave;o.Trong bu&#7893;i h&#7865;n &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n, khi &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng t&igrave;nh c&#7901; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng h&#7885; th&iacute;ch khi&ecirc;u v&#361;, ta s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7847;n ng&#7841;i ra hi&#7879;u r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh c&#361;ng th&iacute;ch nh&#7843;y nh&oacute;t. Ho&#7863;c khi h&#7885; chia s&#7867; r&#7857;ng h&#7885; th&#7845;y b&#7843;o t&agrave;ng nh&agrave;m ch&aacute;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432;&#7901;ng n&agrave;o, ta s&#7869; gi&#7845;u nh&#7865;m &#273;i chuy&#7871;n &#273;i Berlin v&agrave;o n&#259;m ngo&aacute;i khi &#273;&atilde; d&agrave;nh ra c&#7843; ng&agrave;y th&iacute;ch th&uacute; tham quan c&aacute;c ph&ograve;ng tr&#432;ng b&agrave;y trong B&#7843;o t&agrave;ng Altes.<figure class="image"><img src="https://cdna.artstation.com/p/assets/images/images/018/423/250/large/karmen-loh-final-logo-compressed.jpg?1559310183" alt="Sleepy Wolf Commission"><figcaption>Khi b&#7883; thu h&uacute;t b&#7903;i m&#7897;t ai &#273;&oacute;, b&#7843;n n&#259;ng s&#7869; th&ocirc;i th&uacute;c ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7889; g&#7855;ng l&agrave;m h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng h&#7885; v&agrave; t&#7921; m&#7863;c &#273;&#7883;nh r&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; li&ecirc;n t&#7909;c &aacute;m ch&#7881; v&#7899;i &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; h&#7885; c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7891;ng trong quan &#273;i&#7875;m l&#7851;n l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432;&#7901;ng n&agrave;o.</figcaption></figure>Kh&ocirc;ng tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p n&oacute;i d&#7889;i nh&#432;ng thay v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng n&eacute; tr&aacute;nh ho&#7863;c b&#7867; cong s&#7921; th&#7853;t &#273;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7841;o &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng v&#7873; s&#7921; t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7891;ng g&#7847;n nh&#432; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n v&#7899;i &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng. T&acirc;m l&yacute; c&#7889; l&agrave;m h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&#7881;nh &#273;i&#7875;m khi &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c: ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; m&#7841;o hi&#7875;m chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng nh&#7919;ng t&#432;&#7903;ng t&#432;&#7907;ng t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c th&#7921;c s&#7921; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Ch&uacute;ng ta ch&#7881; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng h&ugrave;a theo &ndash; nh&#432; m&#7897;t tr&ugrave;ng h&#7907;p k&#7923; di&#7879;u &ndash; y h&#7879;t gi&#7889;ng nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; h&#7885; mong mu&#7889;n v&#7873; t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c.Xuy&ecirc;n su&#7889;t bu&#7893;i h&#7865;n, h&#7847;u nh&#432; ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng s&#7869; l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u t&#432;&#417;ng t&#7921; v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh &ndash; nh&#432; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng kh&eacute;o l&eacute;o &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881;nh &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n sao cho ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i s&#7903; th&iacute;ch c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y s&#7869; g&acirc;y ra t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng d&#7903; kh&oacute;c d&#7903; c&#432;&#7901;i. Hai ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7883;ch thi&#7879;p &#273;ang c&#7889; t&#7887; ra t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t c&oacute; th&#7875; trong m&#7855;t &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng. Ban &#273;&#7847;u, kh&ocirc;ng ai c&oacute; &yacute; &#273;&#7883;nh l&#7915;a g&#7841;t, nh&#432;ng d&#7847;n d&#7847;n l&#7841;i h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh nh&#7919;ng hi&#7875;u l&#7847;m v&agrave; &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n sai l&#7879;ch v&#7873; &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng.<figure class="image image-style-side"><img src="https://i.pinimg.com/564x/ef/b7/09/efb70901e0db9400c0d126db39528e64.jpg"><figcaption>T&acirc;m l&yacute; c&#7889; l&agrave;m h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng b&#7841;n h&#7865;n c&oacute; th&#7875; th&ocirc;i th&uacute;c c&#7863;p &#273;&ocirc;i d&#7885;n &#273;&#7871;n s&#7889;ng c&ugrave;ng nhau v&agrave; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n sau &#273;&oacute;. &#272;&#7875; r&#7891;i, v&#7873; l&acirc;u d&agrave;i, d&#432;&#7899;i s&#7921; g&#7855;n k&#7871;t m&#7853;t thi&#7871;t, vi&#7879;c s&#7889;ng ch&uacute;ng t&#7845;t y&#7871;u s&#7869; l&agrave;m s&aacute;ng t&#7887; nh&#7919;ng k&#7923; v&#7885;ng sai l&#7847;m &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng bu&#7893;i h&#7865;n h&ograve; tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&oacute;.&nbsp;</figcaption></figure>T&acirc;m l&yacute; c&#7889; l&agrave;m h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng b&#7841;n h&#7865;n c&oacute; th&#7875; th&ocirc;i th&uacute;c c&#7863;p &#273;&ocirc;i d&#7885;n &#273;&#7871;n s&#7889;ng c&ugrave;ng nhau v&agrave; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n sau &#273;&oacute;. &#272;&#7875; r&#7891;i, v&#7873; l&acirc;u d&agrave;i, d&#432;&#7899;i s&#7921; g&#7855;n k&#7871;t m&#7853;t thi&#7871;t, vi&#7879;c s&#7889;ng ch&uacute;ng t&#7845;t y&#7871;u s&#7869; l&agrave;m s&aacute;ng t&#7887; nh&#7919;ng k&#7923; v&#7885;ng sai l&#7847;m &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng bu&#7893;i h&#7865;n h&ograve; tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&oacute;. Trong chu&#7895;i c&aacute;c giai &#273;o&#7841;n v&#7905; m&#7897;ng, c&#7843; hai s&#7869; ph&#7843;i ch&#7883;u t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng, th&#7845;t v&#7885;ng v&agrave; s&#7889;c khi th&#7921;c s&#7921; bi&#7871;t m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; k&#7871;t &#273;&ocirc;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&#432; n&agrave;o. S&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i bu&#7897;c t&#7897;i l&#7851;n nhau, nh&#7919;ng h&agrave;ng r&agrave;o v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng h&ograve;a gi&#7843;i mong manh cho &#273;&#7871;n khi, cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng m&#7897;t b&ecirc;n hay c&#7843; hai &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n k&#7871;t lu&#7853;n nghi&#7879;t ng&atilde; nh&#432;ng v&#7851;n &#273;&aacute;ng ng&#7841;c nhi&ecirc;n r&#7857;ng h&#7885; ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; h&#7907;p nhau.&nbsp;Ho&#7863;c c&oacute; l&#7869; ta s&#7869; k&#7865;t l&#7841;i v&#7899;i n&#7895;i phi&#7873;n mu&#7897;n ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng ch&#7891;ng ch&#7845;t. Ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng k&#7923; ngh&#7881; m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng bao g&#7891;m chuy&#7871;n th&#259;m b&#7843;o t&agrave;ng nh&#432; mong mu&#7889;n, s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; th&#7921;c s&#7921; th&#7887;a m&atilde;n trong t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c. Hay nghi&#7879;t ng&atilde; h&#417;n, ch&uacute;ng ta cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng l&#7841;i ph&#7843;i d&#7845;n th&acirc;n v&agrave;o m&#7897;t m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh v&#7909;ng tr&#7897;m, theo &#273;u&#7893;i nh&#7919;ng nhu c&#7847;u c&aacute; nh&acirc;n m&agrave; ta &#273;&atilde; gi&#7843; v&#7901; nh&#432; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute;. Cho &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y, cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng hai m&#7863;t c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7883; ph&#417;i b&agrave;y - v&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ta s&#7869; ng&#7841;t th&#7903; trong cay &#273;&#7855;ng, gi&#7853;n d&#7919; v&agrave; &#273;au kh&#7893;.Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, ngu&#7891;n c&#417;n c&#7911;a vi&#7877;n c&#7843;nh &aacute;c m&#7897;ng &#273;&oacute; ch&#7881; l&agrave; xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; mong mu&#7889;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; nhanh ch&oacute;ng, d&#7877; d&agrave;ng do &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng &#273;&#7847;y r&#7911;i ro v&agrave; thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t. Ch&uacute;ng ta mu&#7889;n th&#7853;t &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n, nh&#432;ng cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng l&#7841;i k&#7871;t th&uacute;c v&#7899;i m&#7897;t m&#7899; h&#7895;n &#273;&#7897;n.M&#7897;t c&aacute;ch ti&#7871;p c&#7853;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; ph&#7843;i h&#417;i ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p ngay t&#7915; &#273;&#7847;u. Khi &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n chuy&#7879;n khi&ecirc;u v&#361;, m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7865;n h&ograve; kh&ocirc;n ngoan s&#7869; ngay l&#7853;p t&#7913;c n&ecirc;u quan &#273;i&#7875;m r&#7857;ng h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; th&iacute;ch nh&#7843;y nh&oacute;t; c&#361;ng nh&#432; khi ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; v&#7873; vi&#7879;n b&#7843;o t&agrave;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&#7907;i m&#7903;, ta n&ecirc;n ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh th&#7875; hi&#7879;n &#273;am m&ecirc; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Khi n&oacute;i &#273;&#7871;n th&oacute;i quen v&agrave; s&#7903; th&iacute;ch, ta n&ecirc;n tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n ni&#7873;m vui khi c&oacute; b&#7871;p n&uacute;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c lau ch&ugrave;i k&#7929; l&#432;&#7905;ng, khi th&#7913;c d&#7853;y v&agrave;o l&uacute;c th&#7871; gi&#7899;i v&#7851;n c&ograve;n &#273;ang ng&#7911;.Kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i tr&acirc;ng tr&aacute;o hay &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i. V&agrave; c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u n&agrave;o r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n h&#7865;n ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; v&#7899;i quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a ta hay n&aacute;n l&#7841;i sau khi m&oacute;n tr&aacute;ng mi&#7879;ng (ho&#7863;c m&oacute;n ch&iacute;nh). M&#7897;t s&#7889; c&oacute; l&#7869; s&#7869; b&#7887; ch&#7841;y v&agrave; h&#7885; n&ecirc;n th&#7871;.&#272;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7853;t m&iacute; v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ta bi&#7871;t r&otilde; r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o nh&#432;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng v&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; m&agrave; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n ch&aacute;n n&#7843;n ho&#7863;c c&#7843;m th&#7845;y x&#7845;u h&#7893;. Th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a ta &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i nh&agrave; b&#7871;p c&oacute; th&#7875; h&#417;i qu&aacute; &#273;&aacute;ng. Vi&#7879;c ta d&#7853;y s&#7899;m c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng, nh&#432;ng &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh - t&#7845;t c&#7843; &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c. V&#7873; t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c, ch&uacute;ng ta bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng s&#7903; th&iacute;ch c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; b&#7845;t th&#432;&#7901;ng v&#7899;i s&#7889; &#273;&ocirc;ng nh&#432;ng n&oacute; ch&#7843; ph&#7843;i &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; x&#7845;u. Vi&#7879;c hi&#7875;u r&otilde; r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u k&#7923; qu&#7863;c c&#7911;a ta v&#7873; c&#417; b&#7843;n l&agrave; h&#7907;p l&yacute; cho ph&eacute;p ta th&#7875; hi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng s&#7907; h&atilde;i hay ph&ograve;ng th&#7911;.<figure class="image"><img src="https://f2.photo.talk.zdn.vn/5039632690278157129/e41988794d0ab854e11b.jpg"><figcaption>&#272;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7853;t m&iacute; v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ta bi&#7871;t r&otilde; r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o nh&#432;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng v&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; m&agrave; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n ch&aacute;n n&#7843;n ho&#7863;c c&#7843;m th&#7845;y x&#7845;u h&#7893;.&nbsp;</figcaption></figure>S&#7921; th&agrave;nh th&#7853;t trao cho ch&uacute;ng ta quy&#7873;n y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng ti&#7871;t l&#7897; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; thu&#7897;c v&#7873; c&aacute; nh&acirc;n v&agrave; kh&oacute; n&oacute;i v&#7873; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch c&#7911;a h&#7885;. N&#7871;u h&#7885; kh&#259;ng kh&#259;ng r&#7857;ng h&#7885; th&#7921;c s&#7921; r&#7845;t &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n v&agrave; &lsquo;d&#7877; t&iacute;nh&rsquo;, th&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&eacute;p nh&#7865; nh&agrave;ng nh&#432;ng ki&ecirc;n quy&#7871;t ho&agrave;i nghi. H&#7885; l&agrave; con ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&igrave; ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p. Kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; n&agrave;o c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;i&#7873;u k&#7923; qu&#7863;c g&igrave; &#273;&aacute;ng k&#7875; c&#7843;. V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; v&#7899;i b&#7845;t k&#7923; b&#7841;n &#273;&#7901;i ti&#7873;m n&#259;ng n&agrave;o hi&#7871;m khi l&agrave; v&#7873; h&#7885; c&oacute; k&#7923; l&#7841; hay kh&ocirc;ng, m&agrave; l&agrave; do h&#7885; ch&#432;a hi&#7875;u r&otilde; v&#7873; t&iacute;nh &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh ho&#7863;c kh&ocirc;ng t&igrave;m th&#7845;y t&#7915; ng&#7919; &#273;&#7875; b&agrave;y t&#7887; v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c v&#7873; con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a h&#7885; theo c&aacute;ch d&#7877; hi&#7875;u.Th&#7859;ng th&#7855;n khi h&#7865;n h&ograve; suy cho c&#361;ng l&agrave; c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7875; c&#7863;p &#273;&ocirc;i ti&#7871;t ki&#7879;m th&#7901;i gian cho nhau &ndash; &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i g&#7841;t &#273;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng &#273;au kh&#7893; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t. Ch&uacute;ng ta n&ecirc;n bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng m&#7897;t b&#7873; m&#7863;t b&oacute;ng b&#7849;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; b&#7913;c tranh ch&acirc;n th&#7921;c v&#7873; con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a b&#7845;t k&#7923; ai. Ch&#7881; khi nh&#7919;ng ph&#7913;c c&#7843;m trong ta &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7897;c l&#7897;, ch&uacute;ng ta m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7865; nh&otilde;m m&agrave; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n s&#7921; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh v&agrave; tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i t&#7915; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Khi d&aacute;m b&#7897;c l&#7897; v&agrave; th&iacute;ch &#7913;ng v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p trong b&#7843;n ch&#7845;t con ng&#432;&#7901;i, ch&uacute;ng ta m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n m&agrave; m&igrave;nh mong mu&#7889;n.----------------------------------------------Translator: Tr&#7847;n Thu Th&#7843;oEditor: Nguy&#7877;n Mai ChiH&igrave;nh &#7843;nh minh h&#7885;a: S&#432;u t&#7847;m InternetLink b&agrave;i g&#7889;c: <a href="https://bit.ly/31ME0zq">https://bit.ly/31ME0zq</a>----------------------------------------------&#119826;&#119832;&#119812; - &#119826;&#119828;&#119809; &#119832;&#119848;&#119854;&#119853;&#119841; &#119812;&#119837;&#119842;&#119853;&#119848;&#119851;Fanpage: SUB Youth EditorEmail: sye.youthplus.vn@gmail.comWebsite: youth.com.vn&nbsp;&nbsp;

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