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<html><body>M&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u &#273;ang b&#417; v&#417;, l&#7841;c l&otilde;ng trong nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;, v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng con ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta g&#7885;i l&agrave; &ldquo;b&#7841;n&rdquo; hay &ldquo;nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ta ch&#7881; bi&#7871;t t&ecirc;n&rdquo;. N&#259;m t&ocirc;i 18 tu&#7893;i, r&#7901;i xa b&#7889; m&#7865;, b&#7841;n b&egrave; ni&ecirc;n hoa &#273;&#7875; &#273;i t&#7899;i th&#7911; &#273;&ocirc; ph&#7891;n hoa n&aacute;o nhi&#7879;t. N&#259;m &#7845;y, t&ocirc;i m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh l&ecirc;n th&agrave;nh ph&#7889; mang theo l&#7901;i b&#7889; d&#7863;n: "Nh&#7899; ch&#417;i v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u b&#7841;n v&agrave;o con nh&eacute;!". T&ocirc;i v&#7869; ra cho m&igrave;nh m&#7897;t vi&#7877;n c&#7843;nh, kh&ocirc;ng h&#7859;n l&agrave; m&agrave;u h&#7891;ng nh&#432;ng ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n s&#7869; t&#432;&#417;i s&aacute;ng h&#417;n b&acirc;y gi&#7901; nhi&#7873;u. Qua nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i &#273;&#259;ng tr&ecirc;n m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i, s&#7921; t&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng con ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&ecirc;n &#273;&oacute;, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; ngh&#297;, h&#7859;n l&agrave; sau n&agrave;y khi m&igrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&agrave; m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n trong c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng &#7845;y, m&igrave;nh c&#361;ng s&#7869; vui v&#7867; nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;y. Nh&#7919;ng con ng&#432;&#7901;i xa l&#7841; &#273;&#7871;n v&#7899;i nhau b&#7857;ng s&#7921; t&#7921; nguy&#7879;n, g&#7885;i nhau l&agrave; anh ch&#7883; em, r&#7891;i s&#7921; quan t&acirc;m nh&#432; h&#7885; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n tr&ecirc;n Facebook, nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i c&oacute; c&aacute;nh trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c. T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; ngh&#297;, cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng sinh vi&ecirc;n ch&#7855;c h&#7859;n s&#7869; nhi&#7873;u m&agrave;u s&#7855;c l&#7855;m. T&ocirc;i ho&agrave; nh&#7853;p v&agrave;o l&#7899;p &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n nh&#7845;t c&oacute; th&#7875;. &ldquo;Xin ch&agrave;o, m&igrave;nh l&agrave; N, &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915;..., b&#7841;n &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; &#273;&acirc;u v&#7853;y?.&rdquo; C&oacute; l&#7869; kh&aacute; l&agrave; m&ocirc; tu&yacute;p c&#361;, nh&#432;ng v&igrave; th&#7871; m&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c kha kh&aacute; b&#7841;n. R&#7891;i t&ocirc;i xin v&agrave;o m&#7897;t c&acirc;u l&#7841;c b&#7897;, n&#417;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c gi&#7899;i thi&#7879;u l&agrave; c&acirc;u l&#7841;c b&#7897; l&#7899;n nh&#7845;t, vui nh&#7845;t tr&#432;&#7901;ng. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; g&igrave; n&#7893;i b&#7853;t nh&#432;ng t&#7921; nh&#7853;n m&igrave;nh l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i d&#7877; ho&agrave; &#273;&#7891;ng v&agrave; d&#7877; n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n. T&ocirc;i quen &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, kho&aacute; tr&ecirc;n r&#7891;i &#273;&#7891;ng ni&ecirc;n. D&#432;&#7899;i s&#7921; ch&#7881; b&#7843;o c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;i tr&#432;&#7899;c, ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t t&#7853;p th&#7875;, v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh chung li&ecirc;n k&#7871;t v&#7899;i nhau trong r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;. Xung quanh t&ocirc;i c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u b&#7841;n: b&#7841;n c&ugrave;ng l&#7899;p, b&#7841;n c&ugrave;ng c&acirc;u l&#7841;c b&#7897;, b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng nghi&#7879;p, b&#7841;n c&ugrave;ng s&#7903; th&iacute;ch, b&#7841;n ng&#432;&#7901;i y&ecirc;u, b&#7841;n Facebook... v&agrave; h&agrave;ng lo&#7841;t nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; b&#7841;n b&egrave; kh&aacute;c n&#7919;a. T&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n vui v&#7867; l&#432;u s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&uacute;c t&ocirc;i c&ograve;n r&#7845;t t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&#7873; s&#7889; l&#432;&#7907;ng s&#7889; &#273;i&#7879;n tho&#7841;i c&#7911;a m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; m&igrave;nh l&#432;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Nh&#432;ng cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a c&ocirc; sinh vi&ecirc;n n&#259;m nh&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u &aacute;p l&#7921;c v&agrave; kh&oacute; kh&#259;n h&#417;n t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; nhi&#7873;u. Vi&#7879;c h&#7885;c tr&ecirc;n l&#7899;p r&#7891;i deadline, vi&#7879;c nh&oacute;m c&acirc;u l&#7841;c b&#7897;, nh&oacute;m thuy&#7871;t tr&igrave;nh tr&ecirc;n l&#7899;p,... T&#7845;t c&#7843; l&agrave;m t&ocirc;i b&#7883; stress trong ch&iacute;nh s&#7921; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&ecirc;m t&ocirc;i th&#7913;c &#273;&#7871;n 2-3h s&aacute;ng &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&agrave; &#273;&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&ograve;n kh&ocirc;ng hi&#7875;u n&oacute; c&oacute; &iacute;ch g&igrave;. Nh&#7919;ng b&#7919;a &#259;n s&#417; s&agrave;i, thi&#7871;u dinh d&#432;&#7905;ng, nh&#7919;ng cu&#7897;c g&#7885;i &#273;i&#7879;n v&#7873; nh&agrave; ch&#7881; mu&#7889;n b&#7853;t kh&oacute;c v&#7899;i b&#7889; m&#7865; nh&#432;ng v&#7851;n ph&#7843;i vui v&#7867;. T&ocirc;i c&oacute; trong tay r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;, &agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&uacute;ng. T&ocirc;i bi&#7871;t t&ecirc;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, nh&#432;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; bi&#7871;t. T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng t&igrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ai trong s&#7889; h&#7885; &#273;&#7875; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng&rdquo; h&ocirc;m nay m&igrave;nh m&#7879;t l&#7855;m&rdquo;. D&#7847;n d&#7847;n t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng c&oacute; cho m&igrave;nh m&#7897;t v&agrave;i ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n th&acirc;n &#7903; tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c. R&#7891;i m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y, m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n x&#7843;y ra khi m&#7885;i th&#7913; &#273;ang t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p. V&igrave; m&#7897;t s&#7921; v&ocirc; t&acirc;m, v&ocirc; &yacute; c&#7911;a ai &#273;&oacute;, l&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i kia c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng, nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i t&#7841;i th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m tranh c&atilde;i b&#7897;c ph&aacute;t kh&ocirc;ng suy ngh&#297; l&agrave;m cho &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng. M&#7897;t v&#7871;t th&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh, c&oacute; th&#7875; sau &#273;&#7845;y c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i xin l&#7895;i, nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u n&oacute;i gi&#7843;ng ho&agrave;. Nh&#432;ng v&#7871;t &#273;inh v&#7851;n c&ograve;n l&#7895;, d&ugrave; &#273;&oacute;ng v&#7843;y, th&agrave;nh s&#7865;o, nh&#432;ng n&oacute; v&#7851;n &#273;au nh&#7913;c m&#7895;i khi tr&aacute;i gi&oacute; tr&#7903; tr&#7901;i. L&uacute;c &#273;&oacute;, v&igrave; l&ograve;ng t&#7921; t&ocirc;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i ch&#7885;n im l&#7863;ng &#273;&#7875; r&#7891;i t&#7915; ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n th&acirc;n thi&#7871;t b&#7895;ng tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i d&#432;ng&hellip; &#272;&#7871;n b&acirc;y gi&#7901; ch&#7881; c&ograve;n l&agrave; &ldquo;b&#7841;n th&acirc;n c&#361;&rdquo;. Th&#7901;i gian tr&ocirc;i qua, b&#7895;ng m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y t&ocirc;i nh&igrave;n l&#7841;i, ch&#7907;t th&#7845;y ch&#7859;ng c&ograve;n ai &#273;&#7913;ng y&ecirc;n m&atilde;i m&#7897;t ch&#7895;. Ch&#7881; c&#7847;n m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t b&#7853;n r&#7897;n, v&#7899;i m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t v&ocirc; t&acirc;m, th&ecirc;m nh&#7883;p th&#7901;i gian th&#7845;m tho&#7855;t thoi &#273;&#432;a, t&ocirc;i v&agrave; c&aacute;c b&#7841;n b&#7895;ng xa th&ecirc;m m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t. C&oacute; l&uacute;c nh&#7899; nhau, ta v&#7897;i v&atilde; &#273;i t&igrave;m, n&oacute;i v&#7899;i nhau v&agrave;i c&acirc;u qua loa, vi&#7871;t v&agrave;i d&ograve;ng tin nh&#7855;n m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y b&oacute;ng h&igrave;nh &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng. Nh&#7919;ng tin nh&#7855;n v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i b&ocirc;ng &#273;&ugrave;a &iacute;t &#273;i, s&#7921; quan t&acirc;m c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n n&#7891;ng nhi&#7879;t, ai r&#7891;i sau &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng c&oacute; cho m&igrave;nh con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ri&ecirc;ng v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; kh&aacute;c. Thi tho&#7843;ng, b&#7841;n nh&#7855;n cho t&ocirc;i v&agrave;i d&ograve;ng &#273;&#7875; gi&#7919; li&ecirc;n l&#7841;c, nh&#432;ng sao m&agrave; xa l&#7841; qu&aacute;, d&#7847;n d&#7847;n, ch&uacute;ng ta ch&#7881; c&ograve;n l&agrave;&rdquo; c&#7889; nh&acirc;n&rdquo;. &#272;&#7871;n gi&#7901; t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i hi&#7875;u r&#7857;ng, h&#7847;u h&#7871;t c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng &#273;&#7873;u d&#7921;a tr&ecirc;n m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; l&#7907;i &iacute;ch. B&#7841;n c&agrave;ng mang l&#7841;i nhi&#7873;u c&oacute; l&#7907;i h&#7885; c&agrave;ng &#7903; b&ecirc;n b&#7841;n l&acirc;u h&#417;n. M&#7889;i quan h&#7879; b&#7841;n b&egrave; c&#361;ng v&#7853;y. V&#7853;y &#273;&acirc;u m&#7899;i l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; m&agrave; t&ocirc;i &#273;ang t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m? 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