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<html><body>&#7902; ng&#432;&#7905;ng tu&#7893;i 20, &#273;&#7913;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c nhi&#7873;u quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i, ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng r&#417;i v&agrave;o tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i &acirc;u lo v&agrave; c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n. Ch&uacute;ng ta ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng ch&#7881; m&#7895;i m&igrave;nh g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i v&agrave; c&oacute; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng kh&eacute;p ch&#7863;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n thay v&igrave; chia s&#7867;. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, tr&ecirc;n th&#7921;c t&#7871;, c&oacute; m&#7897;t giai &#273;o&#7841;n v&#7899;i t&ecirc;n g&#7885;i &ldquo;kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20&rdquo; (quarter-life crisis) m&agrave; b&#7845;t k&#7923; ai khi ch&#7841;m ng&#432;&#7905;ng 20 c&#361;ng tr&#7843;i qua.<h2 style="text-align:justify;">Kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 l&agrave; g&igrave;?</h2>Theo nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c &#273;&#7841;i ch&uacute;ng, kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 (kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n t&#432; cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i - quarter - life - crisis) l&agrave; cu&#7897;c kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng &ldquo;li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i lo v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng h&#432;&#7899;ng v&agrave; ch&#7845;t l&#432;&#7907;ng cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng&rdquo;. T&ugrave;y v&agrave;o tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m s&#7889;ng c&aacute; nh&acirc;n m&agrave; giai &#273;o&#7841;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7871;n s&#7899;m ho&#7863;c mu&#7897;n. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng r&#417;i v&agrave;o kho&#7843;ng 20 tu&#7893;i &#273;&#7871;n 30 tu&#7893;i. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n &#273;ang &#273;&#7885;c b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y, c&oacute; l&#7869; b&#7841;n c&#361;ng l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde;, &#273;ang v&agrave; s&#7869; tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian n&agrave;y - kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian &ldquo;th&#7921;c s&#7921;&rdquo; b&#432;&#7899;c ch&acirc;n v&agrave;o th&#7871; gi&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n, &#273;&#7913;ng sau c&aacute;nh c&#7893;ng &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, &#273;&#7913;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c ng&#432;&#7905;ng c&#7917;a cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i v&agrave; v&#7853;t l&#7897;n v&#7899;i th&#7883; tr&#432;&#7901;ng vi&#7879;c l&agrave;m &#273;&#7847;y bi&#7871;n &#273;&#7897;ng.&nbsp;<figure class="image"><img src="https://images.pexels.com/photos/374880/pexels-photo-374880.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;dpr=2&amp;h=650&amp;w=940"><figcaption>Kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 ( &#7843;nh minh h&#7885;a)</figcaption></figure>Kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 l&agrave; m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; t&acirc;m l&yacute; th&#432;&#7901;ng tr&#7921;c, bi&#7871;n &#273;&#7897;ng qua t&#7915;ng giai &#273;o&#7841;n, th&#7901;i k&#7923;, &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng, do v&#7853;y lu&ocirc;n chi&#7871;m nhi&#7873;u gi&#7845;y m&#7921;c c&#7911;a c&aacute;c nh&agrave; nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u. Nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c l&acirc;m s&agrave;ng Alex Powke &#273;&atilde; g&#7885;i &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; &ldquo;m&#7897;t th&#7901;i k&#7923; m&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y b&#7845;t an, nghi ng&#7901; v&agrave; th&#7845;t v&#7885;ng xoay quanh s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p, c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; v&agrave; t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng t&agrave;i ch&iacute;nh&rdquo;. Merideth Goldstein c&#7911;a t&#7901; Boston Globe, x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 di&#7877;n ra khi con ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#432;&#7899;c ch&acirc;n v&agrave;o th&#7871; gi&#7899;i th&#7921;c - t&#7913;c l&agrave; khi r&#7901;i kh&#7887;i gia &#273;&igrave;nh, ho&#7863;c khi t&#7889;t nghi&#7879;p &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c. Theo m&#7897;t nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u v&agrave;o kho&#7843;ng n&#259;m 2015, c&aacute;c nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c Anh Qu&#7889;c &#273;&atilde; cho th&#7845;y gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; &#7903; &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i 20 ng&agrave;y nay ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 v&#7899;i t&#7847;n su&#7845;t v&agrave; c&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7897; l&#7899;n h&#417;n g&#7845;p nhi&#7873;u l&#7847;n.&nbsp;<h2 style="text-align:justify;">T&#7841;i sao tu&#7893;i 20 l&#7841;i g&#7863;p kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng?</h2>C&oacute; l&#7869; trong qu&atilde;ng th&#7901;i gian v&#7853;t l&#7897;n v&#7899;i h&agrave;ng t&aacute; c&acirc;u h&#7887;i &ldquo;T&ocirc;i l&agrave; ai?&rdquo;, &ldquo;T&ocirc;i s&#7869; l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c g&igrave;?&rdquo;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; h&#417;n m&#7897;t l&#7847;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y x&#7845;u h&#7893;, m&#7863;c c&#7843;m v&agrave; c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n. Nh&#432;ng, nh&#432; th&#7921;c t&#7871; &#273;&atilde; ch&#7913;ng minh b&#7857;ng s&#7921; quan t&acirc;m c&#7911;a nhi&#7873;u nh&agrave; nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u, giai &#273;o&#7841;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 l&agrave; giai &#273;o&#7841;n t&acirc;m l&yacute; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n, b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng di&#7877;n ra v&#7899;i m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. B&#7903;i v&#7853;y, b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; x&#7843;y ra ri&ecirc;ng v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7841;n.&nbsp;<blockquote>Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta v&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#7855;c &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i 20 l&agrave; th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng s&#7913;c tr&#7867;, &#432;&#7899;c v&#7885;ng, &yacute; t&#432;&#7903;ng t&aacute;o b&#7841;o. Nh&#432;ng t&#7841;i sao ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7851;n r&#417;i v&agrave;o tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i lo &acirc;u, r&#7889;i b&#7901;i khi b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o tu&#7893;i 20?</blockquote>Tu&#7893;i 20 cho ta c&aacute;i quy&#7873;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&#7899;i r&#7897;ng &#432;&#7899;c m&#417;, nh&#432;ng tu&#7893;i 20 c&#361;ng cho ta m&#7897;t c&aacute;i nh&igrave;n c&#7853;n c&#7843;nh v&#7873; th&#7921;c t&#7871; ph&#361; ph&agrave;ng c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. Khi con s&#7889; h&agrave;ng &#273;&#417;n v&#7883; d&#7883;ch chuy&#7875;n, ti&#7871;n g&#7847;n h&#417;n &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i 21, 22, 23,.. b&#7841;n s&#7869; c&agrave;ng th&ecirc;m th&#7845;m th&iacute;a n&#7895;i kh&#7893; c&#7911;a vi&#7879;c l&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n. B&#7903;i l&#7869;, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; l&uacute;c b&#7841;n ch&iacute;nh th&#7913;c r&#7901;i kh&#7887;i v&ograve;ng tay c&#7911;a gia &#273;&igrave;nh &#273;&#7875; t&#7841;o d&#7921;ng s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p ri&ecirc;ng cho m&igrave;nh, ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n s&#7869; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, &#273;&#7889;i nh&acirc;n x&#7917; th&#7871;, c&#7843; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; t&agrave;i ch&iacute;nh. Khi th&#7921;c s&#7921; b&#432;&#7899;c ch&acirc;n ra &ldquo;th&#7871; gi&#7899;i th&#7921;c&rdquo;, b&#7841;n nh&#7853;n ra nh&#7919;ng m&ugrave;a thi m&igrave;nh t&#7915;ng coi l&agrave; kinh kh&#7911;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; g&igrave; n&#7871;u nh&#432; &#273;em so s&aacute;nh v&#7899;i c&aacute;ch x&#7917; l&yacute; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, v&#7899;i s&#7913;c &eacute;p doanh s&#7889;, c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i - nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; m&agrave; b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t t&#7915;ng ng&agrave;y. Ch&uacute;ng ta d&#7847;n nh&#7853;n ra cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; m&agrave;u h&#7891;ng nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; t&#432;&#7903;ng t&#432;&#7907;ng, &#273;i l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng g&#7855;n v&#7899;i b&#7897; vest sang ch&#7843;nh m&agrave; th&#7921;c t&#7871; s&#7869; tr&#7843; l&#7901;i b&#7841;n b&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng deadline d&#7891;n d&#7853;p, r&#7901;i kh&#7887;i c&ocirc;ng ty v&agrave;o l&uacute;c 9h - 10h t&#7889;i v&agrave; tr&#7903; v&#7873; nh&agrave; trong tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i r&#361; r&#432;&#7907;u, thi&#7871;u ng&#7911;.&nbsp;<figure class="image"><img src="https://images.pexels.com/photos/568027/pexels-photo-568027.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;h=750&amp;w=1260" alt="Grayscale Photography of Crying Woman"></figure>&#272;&ocirc;i khi, nh&#7919;ng sinh vi&ecirc;n s&#7855;p t&#7889;t nghi&#7879;p, v&agrave; c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;i l&agrave;m 1 - 2 n&#259;m, v&#7851;n ch&#7845;p ch&#7899;i v&#7899;i c&acirc;u h&#7887;i &ldquo;M&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i ng&agrave;nh/ c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng? M&igrave;nh th&#7921;c s&#7921; ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave;? C&oacute; n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m l&#7841;i t&#7915; &#273;&#7847;u?&rdquo;. S&#7921; &#273;&#7889;i l&#7853;p gi&#7919;a th&#7921;c t&#7871; v&agrave; t&#432;&#7903;ng t&#432;&#7907;ng c&ugrave;ng s&#7921; m&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh v&#7883; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, l&agrave;m cho ch&uacute;ng ta r&#417;i v&agrave;o tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 v&#7899;i c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c k&eacute;m c&#7887;i, &acirc;u lo, bi quan, m&#7863;c c&#7843;m.Nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m th&aacute;ng tu&#7893;i 20, ai c&#361;ng loay hoay v&#7899;i c&#417;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh. Trong c&#417;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20, ng&#432;&#7901;i ta ngh&#297; nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n &#273;&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, b&#7903;i v&#7853;y l&agrave;m c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; b&#7895;ng t&aacute;ch d&#7847;n nhau ra. B&#7841;n b&egrave; kh&oacute; t&igrave;m th&#7845;y t&#7847;n s&#7889; c&#7911;a nhau khi ai c&#361;ng m&#7863;c c&#7843;m v&#7899;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u m&#7903; l&ograve;ng. M&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#361;ng kh&oacute; n&#7843;y m&#7847;m hay g&igrave;n gi&#7919; &#7903; m&#7897;t &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i c&#7847;n s&#7921; &#273;&aacute;nh &#273;&#7893;i gi&#7919;a t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u v&agrave; s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p. Bi quan, &acirc;u lo v&#7873; s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p, kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 c&#361;ng c&ograve;n g&#7855;n v&#7899;i c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, c&ocirc; &#273;&#7897;c, l&#7841;c l&otilde;ng.&nbsp;&#272;&uacute;ng nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i ta v&#7851;n ngh&#297;, tu&#7893;i 20 nhi&#7873;u kh&aacute;t khao, nhi&#7873;u d&#7921; &#273;&#7883;nh, m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u. &#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; l&yacute; do khi&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng b&#7841;n tr&#7867; tu&#7893;i 20 nh&#432; ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7883; &aacute;p l&#7921;c. Kh&ocirc;ng &aacute;p l&#7921;c l&agrave;m sao &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, khi nh&#7919;ng d&#7921; &#273;&#7883;nh th&igrave; vi&#7871;t th&agrave;nh h&agrave;ng d&agrave;i, n&#7895; l&#7921;c r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u nh&#432;ng k&#7871;t qu&#7843; v&#7851;n d&#7853;m ch&acirc;n t&#7841;i ch&#7895;. &#7902; nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m th&aacute;ng tu&#7893;i 20, &#273;&ocirc;i l&uacute;c ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7883; cu&#7889;ng qu&yacute;t tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ch&#7841;y c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. &Aacute;p l&#7921;c, s&#7921; t&#7921; ti tr&agrave;n &#273;&#7871;n khi b&#7841;n b&egrave; l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y vi&#7879;c kia, c&ograve;n m&igrave;nh th&igrave; v&#7851;n l&ocirc;ng b&ocirc;ng. Kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 c&ograve;n &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng l&yacute; do nh&#432; v&#7853;y.<h2 style="text-align:justify;">L&agrave;m sao &#273;&#7875; b&#432;&#7899;c ra kh&#7887;i kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20?</h2>Tr&#432;&#7899;c khi t&igrave;m c&aacute;ch tho&aacute;t ra kh&#7887;i giai &#273;o&#7841;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c coi l&agrave; t&#7891;i t&#7879; n&agrave;y, ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian &#273;&#7875; hi&#7875;u v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873;. Theo ti&#7871;n s&#297; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c Jeffrey Droat, ngu&#7891;n g&#7889;c c&#7911;a lo&#7841;i h&igrave;nh kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng n&agrave;y n&#7857;m &#7903; b&ecirc;n trong ch&iacute;nh m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta. Do &#273;&oacute;, th&#7845;u hi&#7875;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&agrave; ph&#432;&#417;ng ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7875; &ldquo;l&agrave;m b&#7841;n&rdquo; v&#7899;i kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20. Khi &#273;&oacute;, ch&uacute;ng ta nh&#7853;n ra t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, k&#7875; c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#361;ng tr&#7843;i qua giai &#273;o&#7841;n 20 &#273;&#7847;y s&oacute;ng gi&oacute;. Qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 l&agrave; m&#7897;t t&iacute;n hi&#7879;u t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; cho th&#7845;y ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;ang d&#7847;n v&#432;&#7907;t qua giai &#273;o&#7841;n kh&oacute; kh&#259;n nh&#7845;t trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng &#273;&#7875; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh. Khi nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#259;n nguy&ecirc;n c&#7911;a v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; th&#7845;y tr&acirc;n tr&#7885;ng kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian n&agrave;y v&agrave; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y may m&#7855;n h&#417;n nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ngo&agrave;i kia v&#7851;n s&#7903; h&#7919;u t&acirc;m h&#7891;n v&ocirc; t&#432;, h&#7901;i h&#7907;t trong h&igrave;nh h&agrave;i c&#7911;a m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh.&nbsp;Giai &#273;o&#7841;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng tu&#7893;i 20 s&#7869; gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta suy x&eacute;t l&#7841;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7875; th&#7845;u su&#7889;t v&#7873; t&#432;&#417;ng lai, v&agrave; &#273;&#7883;nh h&igrave;nh con ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; ta mu&#7889;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh. Nh&#7919;ng kh&oacute; kh&#259;n trong kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian n&agrave;y l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7875; m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7885;c c&aacute;ch &#273;&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7847;u v&#7899;i th&#7917; th&aacute;ch, t&#432; duy &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p v&agrave; quy&#7871;t &#273;o&aacute;n h&#417;n - &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; s&#7921; chu&#7849;n b&#7883; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng cu&#7897;c kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng trong t&#432;&#417;ng lai.<figure class="image"><img src="https://images.pexels.com/photos/997462/pexels-photo-997462.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;h=750&amp;w=1260" alt="Man Wearing Black Hoodie on Rock Edge"></figure>&nbsp;Trong giai &#273;o&#7841;n kh&#7911;ng ho&#7843;ng, ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng thu m&igrave;nh, nh&#432;ng &#273;&oacute; qu&#7843; l&agrave; m&#7897;t quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh sai l&#7847;m khi n&oacute; ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng &#273;&#7849;y b&#7841;n v&agrave;o v&#7921;c s&acirc;u m&agrave; th&ocirc;i. 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