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PEER PRESSURE - G&#7890;NG M&Igrave;NH CH&#7840;Y THAY NH&#7918;NG &Aacute;P L&#7920;C V&Ocirc; H&Igrave;NH&nbsp;C&oacute; khi n&agrave;o b&#7841;n lu&ocirc;n t&#7921; h&#7887;i sao m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7841;i c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&#7887;i &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y, sao b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh l&#7841;i tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n k&eacute;m c&#7887;i khi so s&aacute;nh v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c? C&oacute; bao gi&#7901; b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; c&#7889; th&#7917; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n kh&ocirc;ng th&iacute;ch v&igrave; &#273;am m&ecirc; c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c? Hay c&oacute; khi n&agrave;o b&#7841;n c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c b&#7891;n ch&#7891;n, lo l&#7855;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7919;ng th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng m&agrave; t&#7921; h&#7841; th&#7845;p n&#259;ng l&#7921;c c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh?Peer pressure - &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a d&#7847;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t &ldquo;h&#7897;i ch&#7913;ng t&acirc;m l&yacute;&rdquo; ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng lan r&#7897;ng trong th&#7871; h&#7879; gen Z, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; qua con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i. Theo t&#7915; &#273;i&#7875;n T&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c APA, &ldquo;Peer pressure&rdquo; l&agrave; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a m&#7897;t nh&oacute;m &#273;&#7891;ng &#273;&#7859;ng l&ecirc;n c&aacute;c th&agrave;nh vi&ecirc;n c&aacute; nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a nh&oacute;m &#273;&#7875; ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i c&aacute;c chu&#7849;n m&#7921;c v&agrave; k&#7923; v&#7885;ng c&#7911;a nh&oacute;m. &Aacute;p l&#7921;c b&#7841;n b&egrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; gi&aacute; tr&#7883; x&atilde; h&#7897;i h&oacute;a t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; h&#7853;u qu&#7843; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e tinh th&#7847;n ho&#7863;c th&#7875; ch&#7845;t.&nbsp;Ch&uacute;ng ta d&#7877; d&agrave;ng nh&#7853;n ra &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng d&#7877; b&#7883; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i &ldquo;tri&#7879;u ch&#7913;ng&rdquo; n&agrave;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; thanh thi&#7871;u ni&ecirc;n. &#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i ti&#7871;p giao gi&#7919;a s&#7921; b&#7891;ng b&#7897;t v&agrave; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, l&agrave; giai &#273;o&#7841;n c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u bi&#7871;n &#273;&#7893;i m&#7841;nh m&#7869; trong t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m, h&agrave;nh vi v&agrave; &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883;. Suy ngh&#297; ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng t&#259;ng d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng ph&#7843;n &aacute;nh v&#7873; c&aacute;i t&ocirc;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7863;t n&#7863;ng k&egrave;m theo nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i b&#7853;n t&acirc;m v&#7899;i v&#7867; b&#7873; ngo&agrave;i, s&#7913;c h&#7845;p d&#7851;n v&agrave; nh&#7841;y c&#7843;m cao &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i s&#7921; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t so v&#7899;i b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a khi&#7871;n m&#7895;i b&#7841;n tr&#7867; &#273;ang d&#7847;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n kh&eacute;p m&igrave;nh v&#7899;i th&#7871; gi&#7899;i xung quanh, v&#7899;i b&#7841;n b&egrave; b&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh. V&#7853;y nh&#432;ng, mong mu&#7889;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&#7841;y &#273;ua trong cu&#7897;c &#273;ua v&#7899;i l&#7913;a b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a l&agrave; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u ti&ecirc;n quy&#7871;t m&agrave; m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7863;t cho ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, mong mu&#7889;n kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; b&#7887; l&#7841;i tr&ecirc;n chuy&#7871;n t&agrave;u c&#7911;a nh&oacute;m b&#7841;n &#273;ang tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh &aacute;p l&#7921;c v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh c&#7843;n tr&#7903; ch&uacute;ng ta tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng chinh ph&#7909;c ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. H&#417;n th&#7871; n&#7919;a, n&#7873;n v&#259;n h&oacute;a ng&#432;&#7901;i Ch&acirc;u &Aacute; r&#7845;t coi tr&#7885;ng ch&#7911; ngh&#297;a t&#7853;p th&#7875;. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y c&#361;ng d&#7877; hi&#7875;u khi m&#7895;i ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh s&#7921; so s&aacute;nh x&atilde; h&#7897;i v&agrave; lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7863;t b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&ecirc;n b&agrave;n c&acirc;n v&#7899;i b&#7841;n b&egrave; &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a &#273;&#7875; x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh v&#7883; tr&iacute; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i. C&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n &ldquo;con nh&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i ta&rdquo; lu&ocirc;n l&agrave; ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; mu&ocirc;n thu&#7903; v&agrave; &aacute;m &#7843;nh t&#432; duy c&#7911;a th&#7871; h&#7879; gen Z. B&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh &#273;&oacute;, ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; b&aacute;c b&#7887; s&#7921; hi&#7879;n di&#7879;n c&#7911;a &ldquo;con dao 2 l&#432;&#7905;i&rdquo;- m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i &#273;&atilde; khu&#7871;ch &#273;&#7841;i &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a khi&#7871;n ch&uacute;ng ta tr&#7903; l&ecirc;n m&ocirc;ng lung, v&ocirc; &#273;&#7883;nh tr&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7919;ng b&#7913;c tranh m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta ch&#7881; c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch kh&ocirc;ng to&agrave;n v&#7865;n&nbsp; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. Nh&#7919;ng b&#7913;c tranh v&#7873; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng m&agrave;u h&#7891;ng, nh&#7919;ng l&#7847;n check-in t&#7841;i kh&aacute;ch s&#7841;n sang tr&#7885;ng hay nh&#7919;ng b&#7843;ng &#273;i&#7875;m IELTS 8.0-9.0 v&#7899;i chi&#7871;c h&#7885;c b&#7893;ng to&agrave;n ph&#7847;n c&#7911;a l&#7913;a b&#7841;n khi&#7871;n ta nh&#432; b&#7883; bao v&acirc;y v&agrave;o s&#7921; h&agrave;o nho&aacute;ng c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c m&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; l&#7845;y m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7875;m &#273;&#7875; b&#7845;u v&iacute;u v&agrave;o.&nbsp;Nh&#7919;ng &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a khi&#7871;n cho ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u nghi ng&#7901; v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. C&agrave;ng nghi ng&#7901; c&agrave;ng khi&#7871;n c&#417; th&#7875; ch&uacute;ng ta tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n m&#7879;t m&#7887;i, suy s&#7909;p v&agrave; th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; m&#7845;t lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; ti&#7871;n v&#7873; ph&iacute;a tr&#432;&#7899;c. S&#7921; nghi ng&#7901; khi&#7871;n ch&uacute;ng ta lung lay v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng d&#7921; &#273;&#7883;nh c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, lung lay v&#7873; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh v&agrave; tr&#7889;n m&igrave;nh trong g&oacute;c t&#7889;i &#273;&#7875; cho d&ograve;ng &#273;&#7901;i t&#7921; ch&#7843;y. V&#7853;y nh&#432;ng, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;i ch&#7853;m kh&ocirc;ng? Kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873;, b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; &#273;i ch&#7853;m hay l&agrave; thua cu&#7897;c, ch&#7881; l&agrave; con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, &#273;am m&ecirc; &#273;&#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng thu&#7897;c v&#7873; b&#7841;n v&agrave; th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m th&iacute;ch h&#7907;p v&#7851;n ch&#432;a t&#7899;i.M&#7895;i ch&uacute;ng ta h&atilde;y h&#7885;c c&aacute;ch y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng v&agrave; tr&acirc;n qu&yacute; nh&#7919;ng th&agrave;nh qu&#7843; m&agrave; ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh g&#7863;t h&aacute;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.&ldquo;&#272;&#7915;ng so s&aacute;nh h&#7853;u tr&#432;&#7901;ng c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&igrave;nh v&#7899;i trailer &#273;&#7865;p &#273;&#7869; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c&rdquo;- nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i khung c&#7843;nh m&agrave; h&#7885; c&#7855;t gh&eacute;p &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#432;a l&ecirc;n m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng m&#7863;t &#273;&#7865;p nh&#7845;t, &#273;&atilde; qua ch&#7881;nh s&#7917;a. Th&#7921;c ra, m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng s&#7903; th&iacute;ch ri&ecirc;ng, nh&#7919;ng h&#7841;n ch&#7871; ri&ecirc;ng, v&igrave; v&#7853;y &#273;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7875; nh&#7919;ng b&#7913;c h&igrave;nh kia l&agrave;m xao &#273;&#7897;ng &yacute; ch&iacute; quy&#7871;t t&acirc;m c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n. N&#7871;u c&oacute; th&#7875;, h&atilde;y h&#7841;n ch&#7871; s&#7917; d&#7909;ng m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i, unfriend, unfollow v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; toxic b&#7903;i v&igrave; cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta ch&#7881; c&oacute; m&#7895;i ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7889;ng v&agrave; hi&#7875;u n&oacute; m&agrave; th&ocirc;i. &#272;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i, m&#7841;nh d&#7841;n l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n mu&#7889;n &#273;&#7915;ng v&igrave; m&#7897;t r&agrave;o c&#7843;n n&agrave;o c&#7843;. B&#7903;i v&igrave; ch&#7881; khi b&#7841;n v&#432;&#7907;t qua ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng th&#7917; th&igrave; b&#7841;n s&#7869; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng th&agrave;nh t&#7921;u m&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7901; t&#7899;i v&agrave; ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh phi&ecirc;n b&#7843;n t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t m&agrave; b&#7841;n t&#7915;ng &#432;&#7899;c m&#417;.&nbsp;Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ph&#7911; nh&#7853;n t&#7847;m quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a nh&oacute;m b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a. N&#7871;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ch&uacute;ng ta x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7903; th&iacute;ch v&agrave; &#273;am m&ecirc; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ray ch&#7881; thu&#7897;c v&#7873; ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh th&igrave; b&#7841;n b&egrave; c&ugrave;ng trang l&#7913;a l&agrave; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c gi&uacute;p ta c&#7889; g&#7855;ng, l&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i th&#7911; c&#7841;nh tranh l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh v&agrave; l&agrave; c&#7897;ng s&#7921; b&#7893; tr&#7907; cho nhau trong nh&#7919;ng l&#297;nh v&#7921;c kh&aacute;c nhau. &#7902; th&aacute;i c&#7921;c kh&aacute;c, nh&oacute;m b&#7841;n b&egrave; &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a &#273;&oacute;ng vai tr&ograve; quan tr&#7885;ng trong vi&#7879;c t&#7841;o d&#7921;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh, n&eacute; tr&aacute;nh nh&#7919;ng h&agrave;nh vi ch&#7889;ng &#273;&#7889;i x&atilde; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i &#273;&#7843;m nh&#7853;n ch&#7913;c n&#259;ng c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng gia &#273;&igrave;nh v&agrave; x&atilde; h&#7897;i. V&igrave; v&#7853;y, ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng n&ecirc;n tr&acirc;n tr&#7885;ng nh&#7919;ng nh&oacute;m b&#7841;n t&#7889;t &#273;&#7875; ch&iacute;nh s&#7921; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a h&#7885; &#273;&atilde; khi&#7871;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u m&agrave;u s&#7855;c h&#417;n.&nbsp; T&agrave;i li&#7879;u tham kh&#7843;o:&nbsp;<ol><li>American Psychological Association. (n.d.). peer pressure. APA Dictionary of Psychology. https://dictionary.apa.org/peer-pressure</li><li>Graber E. G. (2021, September 11). S&#7921; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#7903; tu&#7893;i v&#7883; th&agrave;nh ni&ecirc;n. C&#7849;m nang MSD - Phi&ecirc;n b&#7843;n d&agrave;nh cho chuy&ecirc;n gia. https://www.msdmanuals.com/vi/chuy%C3%AAn-gia/nhi-khoa/t%C4%83ng-tr%C6%B0%E1%BB%9Fng-v%C3%A0-ph%C3%A1t-tri%E1%BB%83n/s%E1%BB%B1-ph%C3%A1t-tri%E1%BB%83n-%E1%BB%9F-tu%E1%BB%95i-v%E1%BB%8B-th%C3%A0nh-ni%C3%AAn</li><li>L&ecirc; T. (2021, December 22). Peer pressure - Tr&#7867; con, ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n v&agrave; &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a. 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