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<html><body>Trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i ng&agrave;y nay, nh&#7919;ng t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng trong gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c l&agrave; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a gi&aacute;o vi&ecirc;n v&agrave; h&#7885;c sinh; trong c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a ng&#432;&#7901;i qu&#7843;n l&yacute; v&agrave; nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n v&agrave; trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh l&agrave; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a c&aacute;c th&#7871; h&#7879;. Ch&uacute;ng ta g&#7863;p kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7919;ng g&#7863;p kh&oacute; kh&#259;n trong vi&#7879;c giao ti&#7871;p m&agrave; c&ograve;n g&#7863;p v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; v&#7873; t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng c&aacute;nh&acirc;n, c&aacute;i m&agrave; l&agrave;m cho c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; xung quanh b&#7841;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n kh&oacute; b&#7873;n v&#7919;ng.Ph&#7847;n l&#7899;n trong c&aacute;c t&#7893; ch&#7913;c c&#417; quan, gia &#273;&igrave;nh v&agrave; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#417;n ho&#7863;c k&eacute;m tu&#7893;i, ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u ph&#7843;i gi&#7919; &#273;&uacute;ng chu&#7849;n m&#7921;c x&#432;ng h&ocirc; v&agrave; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; l&#7869; ph&eacute;p v&#7899;i h&#7885;. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; t&#7841;o ra m&#7897;t h&#7879; th&#7889;ng ph&acirc;n c&#7845;p b&#7853;c trong c&ocirc;ng ty, t&#7893; ch&#7913;c v&agrave; ngay ch&iacute;nh trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh ch&uacute;ng ta. B&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh vi&#7879;c x&#432;ng h&ocirc;, giao ti&#7871;p ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng coi c&#7845;p tr&ecirc;n lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; quy&#7873;n l&#7921;c v&agrave; m&#7885;i c&#7845;p d&#432;&#7899;i n&ecirc;n nghe theo, cho d&ugrave; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; &#273;&uacute;ng ho&#7863;c sai, ho&#7863;c kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n v&igrave; nh&#7919;ng l&yacute; do c&aacute; nh&acirc;n. &#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &ldquo;h&agrave;ng d&#7885;c&rdquo;, c&oacute; c&aacute;c c&#7845;p b&#7853;c tr&ecirc;n d&#432;&#7899;i. Ch&iacute;nh t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng n&agrave;y, kh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t nh&#7919;ng nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n kh&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; duy tr&igrave; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh l&acirc;u d&agrave;i cho m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng ty, &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i h&#7885; ph&#7843;i c&oacute; t&iacute;nh ki&#7877;n nh&#7851;n &#273;&#7875; v&#432;&#7907;t qua c&aacute;c xung &#273;&#7897;t v&#7873; m&#7863;t t&acirc;m l&yacute;. Trong m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a c&aacute;c th&agrave;nh vi&ecirc;n trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh c&#361;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; ph&acirc;n c&#7845;p b&#7853;c v&#7873; tu&#7893;i t&aacute;c, n&#259;ng l&#7921;c kinh t&#7871; khi&#7871;n m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i thi&#7871;u s&#7921; ho&agrave; h&#7907;p ch&acirc;n th&#7853;t v&#7899;i nhau.<figure class="image"><img src="/upload/files/Picture%20for%20rela.jpg"></figure>Tr&aacute;i ng&#432;&#7907;c v&#7899;i m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &ldquo;h&agrave;ng d&#7885;c&rdquo;, l&agrave; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &ldquo;h&agrave;ng ngang&rdquo; &ndash; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a s&#7921; b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng gi&#7919;a ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. Ch&uacute;ng ta n&oacute;i &#273;&#7871;n b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng trong vi&#7879;c x&eacute;t &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n v&#7873; m&#7885;i m&#7863;t trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng nh&#432;: c&#417; h&#7897;i vi&#7879;c l&agrave;m, c&#417; h&#7897;i tham gia c&aacute;c ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i, cu&#7897;c thi. Nh&#432;ng &lsquo;B&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng&rsquo; t&ocirc;i mu&#7889;n n&oacute;i &#273;&#7871;n n&#7857;m trong t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng m&#7895;i ch&uacute;ng ta. V&#7853;y l&agrave;m sao v&#7851;n c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7921; b&igrave;nh &#273;&#7859;ng trong t&#7893; ch&#7913;c c&oacute; c&#7845;p tr&ecirc;n v&agrave; c&#7845;p d&#432;&#7899;i ? Ng&#432;&#7901;i qu&#7843;n l&yacute; lu&ocirc;n lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u l&#7879;, nhi&#7879;m v&#7909; bu&#7897;c nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m v&agrave; tu&acirc;n theo, v&#7853;y thay v&igrave; ra l&#7879;nh cho c&#7845;p d&#432;&#7899;i v&#7899;i gi&#7885;ng &#273;i&#7879;u gay g&#7855;t v&agrave; &#273;e do&#7841; &#273;&#7871;n quy&#7873;n l&#7907;i c&#7911;a h&#7885;, ng&#432;&#7901;i qu&#7843;n l&yacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i v&#7899;i h&#7885; nh&#432; &#273;i&#7873;u kh&iacute;ch l&#7879;, gi&uacute;p h&#7885; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7847;m quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a nhi&#7879;m v&#7909; v&agrave; t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng h&#7885;. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y, c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c s&#7869; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh v&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i qu&#7843;n l&yacute; nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7921; y&ecirc;u m&#7871;n v&agrave; t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng t&#7915; nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n c&#7911;a h&#7885;.&nbsp;M&#7889;i quan h&#7879; &ldquo;h&agrave;ng ngang&rdquo; li&#7879;u c&oacute; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n d&#7877; d&atilde;i v&agrave; thi&#7871;u r&#259;n &#273;e v&#7899;i c&#7845;p d&#432;&#7899;i hay con c&aacute;i kh&ocirc;ng ? Ph&#7847;n l&#7899;n m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i lu&ocirc;n mang quy&#7873;n l&#7921;c v&agrave; s&#7921; th&#432;&#7903;ng/ ph&#7841;t &#273;&#7875; r&#259;n &#273;e nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i d&#432;&#7899;i m&igrave;nh, c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#7899;i m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch t&#7889;t. Nh&#432;ng c&aacute;ch gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng &#273;em l&#7841;i s&#7921; t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng gi&#7919;a ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. Con c&aacute;i s&#7907; ba m&#7865; &#273;&aacute;nh n&ecirc;n ngoan v&agrave;&nbsp; h&#7885;c b&agrave;i, nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n s&#7907; s&#7871;p n&ecirc;n m&#7899;i l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c ch&#259;m ch&#7881; v&agrave; l&#7869; ph&eacute;p. Li&#7879;u con c&aacute;i c&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; ngoan hay ch&uacute;ng ch&#7881; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n khi c&oacute; ba m&#7865;? nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n c&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c ch&#259;mch&#7881;, l&#7869; ph&eacute;p hay h&#7885; v&igrave; s&#7921; th&#432;&#7903;ng/ ph&#7841;t n&ecirc;n ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m nh&#432; v&#7853;y? Tuy s&#7921; tu&acirc;n l&#7879;nh d&#432;&#7899;i t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng n&agrave;o c&#361;ng &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t k&#7871;t qu&#7843; cho m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7909; th&#7875;, t&#7841;i sao ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave;m cho m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n t&#7889;t h&#417;n b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng l&#7851;n nhau, kh&iacute;ch l&#7879; t&#7841;o &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; c&ugrave;ng &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n th&agrave;nh qu&#7843; t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t.</body></html>

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