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N&#7871;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7887;i r&#7857;ng trong m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh: &ldquo;B&#7841;n s&#7869; ch&#7885;n m&agrave;i m&#7897;t vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng hay m&#7897;t vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh?&rdquo;. B&#7841;n nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng: &ldquo;C&oacute; m&#7897;t s&#7921; kh&aacute;c nhau gi&#7919;a m&agrave;i vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh &#273;&oacute;. N&#7871;u m&agrave;i 1 vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng, n&oacute; s&#7869; ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng s&aacute;ng l&ecirc;n, c&ograve;n n&#7871;u m&agrave;i 1 vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute;&hellip;&rdquo; b&#7841;n bi&#7871;t k&#7871;t qu&#7843; r&#7891;i &#273;&#7845;y.&#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&acirc;u h&#7887;i &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n v&agrave; m&#7897;t c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i c&#361;ng &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n kh&ocirc;ng k&eacute;m,&nbsp;<blockquote>T&ocirc;i b&#7843;o r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n tr&#7843; l&#7901;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;, v&igrave;: "b&#7841;n nh&#7853;n ra gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng ngay t&#7915; &#273;&#7847;u&rdquo;B&#7841;n b&#7843;o r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i h&acirc;m, v&igrave;: &rdquo;ai l&#7841;i ch&#7885;n m&agrave;i vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh! Khi &#273;&atilde; nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; ngay tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7855;t"T&ocirc;i b&#7843;o: &ldquo;C&oacute;! V&agrave; &#273;&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng th&oacute;i quen c&#7911;a b&#7841;n &#273;&#7845;y&rdquo;</blockquote>Trong m&#7895;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i lu&ocirc;n s&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh (nh&#7919;ng th&oacute;i quen x&#7845;u) v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng (nh&#7919;ng th&oacute;i quen t&#7889;t), nh&#432;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian &#273;&#7875; m&agrave;i vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n hay l&agrave; vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n ?N&#7871;u b&#7841;n th&#7853;t s&#7921; mu&#7889;n m&agrave;i 1 vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng, c&#7847;n chu&#7849;n b&#7883;:<ul><li>C&oacute; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7909; th&#7875;, l&#7907;i &iacute;ch r&otilde; r&agrave;ng: B&#7841;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t th&oacute;i quen m&agrave; n&oacute; &#273;em &#273;&#7871;n l&#7907;i &iacute;ch c&#7909; th&#7875; cho b&#7841;n (gym, ch&#7841;y b&#7897;: s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e - &#273;&#7885;c s&aacute;ch, xem tedtalk: ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c...), b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; m&#7897;t vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng. B&#7841;n hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c r&egrave;n luy&#7879;n th&oacute;i quen n&agrave;y s&#7869; gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; trong t&#432;&#417;ng l&#7841;i, b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; m&#7897;t vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng l&#7899;n h&#417;n n&#7919;a (T&#7853;p ch&#7841;y b&#7897; &#273;&#7875; &#7845;p &#7911; d&#7921; &#273;&#7883;nh ch&#7841;y b&#7897; xuy&ecirc;n Vi&#7879;t...). N&#7871;u vi&#7879;c th&#7913;c khuya d&#7853;y tr&#7877; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;em &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t l&#7907;i &iacute;ch c&#7909; th&#7875; cho b&#7841;n, chia bu&#7891;n l&agrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang m&agrave;i m&#7897;t vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh... Nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u b&#7841;n ki&ecirc;n tr&igrave; v&agrave; b&#7873;n b&#7881; m&agrave;i vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; xanh &#273;&oacute;, th&igrave; n&oacute; c&#361;ng ch&#7859;ng bi&#7871;n th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t vi&ecirc;n &#273;&aacute; qu&yacute; &#273;&acirc;u :)</li><li>C&oacute; k&#7871; ho&#7841;ch: Kh&ocirc;ng, kh&ocirc;ng. B&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i c&oacute; m&#7897;t b&#7843;n k&#7871; ho&#7841;ch ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p, t&iacute;nh to&aacute;n k&#7929; l&#432;&#7905;ng t&#7915;ng b&#432;&#7899;c. B&#7903;i vi&#7879;c ch&#7881; ng&#7891;i &#273;&oacute; v&agrave; suy ngh&#297; v&#7873; k&#7871; ho&#7841;ch th&ocirc;i c&#361;ng s&#7869; gi&#7871;t ch&#7871;t ng&#7885;n l&#7917;a &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c trong b&#7841;n ngay khi n&oacute; v&#7915;a m&#7899;i nhen nh&oacute;m. N&oacute;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n m&#7897;t k&#7871; ho&#7841;ch khoa h&#7885;c, c&#7909; th&#7875; - &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&acirc;n b&#7893; th&#7901;i gian h&#7907;p l&yacute; &#273;&#7875; ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t v&agrave; theo d&otilde;i ti&#7871;n &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Nh&#432;ng trong giai &#273;o&#7841;n m&#7899;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u, &#273;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng nh&#7845;t ch&#7881; l&agrave; b&#7841;n c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng, v&agrave; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o l&#7863;p l&#7841;i th&oacute;i quen &#273;&oacute; &iacute;t nh&#7845;t 1 l&#7847;n m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y. Ngo&agrave;i ra t&ocirc;i s&#7869; chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i b&#7841;n m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng th&#7913;c v&ocirc; c&ugrave;ng &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n gi&uacute;p cho vi&#7879;c m&agrave;i vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t tr&ograve; ch&#417;i h&#7845;p d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c &ldquo;g&acirc;y nghi&#7879;n&rdquo;. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7915;ng n&ocirc;n n&oacute;ng nh&eacute; v&igrave; t&ocirc;i s&#7869; &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n c&ocirc;ng th&#7913;c hay ho n&agrave;y &#7903; g&#7847;n cu&#7889;i b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t.</li><li>Cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng l&agrave; ph&#7843;i th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; mong mu&#7889;n c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n: &ldquo;mi&#7877;n c&#432;&#7905;ng kh&ocirc;ng h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c&rdquo;. M&#7897;t th&oacute;i quen hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; ph&#7843;i b&#7855;t ngu&#7891;n t&#7915; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; v&agrave; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c do b&#7841;n &#273;&#7863;t ra. C&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; b&#7841;n bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n hay kh&ocirc;ng th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n th&oacute;i quen &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o trong 3 th&aacute;ng t&#7899;i &ndash; 6 th&aacute;ng t&#7899;i &ndash; 1 n&#259;m t&#7899;i. Kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i b&#7855;t ngu&#7891;n t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&oacute;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c r&#7857;ng &ldquo;N&agrave;y, m&agrave;y c&#7847;n gi&#7843;m c&acirc;n &#273;i&rdquo;, &ldquo;m&agrave;y c&#7847;n &#273;&#7885;c nhi&#7873;u s&aacute;ch v&agrave;o&rdquo;&hellip; C&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i g&oacute;p &yacute; ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh v&agrave; mang &yacute; t&#7889;t d&agrave;nh cho b&#7841;n. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7875; c&oacute; &#273;&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng b&#7887; cu&#7897;c gi&#7919;a ch&#7915;ng, b&#7841;n c&#7847;n l&#7855;ng nghe b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&atilde;.</li></ul><blockquote>Th&oacute;i quen t&#7889;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c v&iacute; nh&#432; vi&ecirc;n kim c&#432;&#417;ng b&#7903;i n&#7871;u b&#7841;n &ldquo;m&agrave;i&rdquo; &#273;&uacute;ng c&aacute;ch. N&oacute; s&#7869; ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng s&aacute;ng b&oacute;ng v&agrave; c&agrave;ng s&aacute;ng b&oacute;ng th&igrave; c&agrave;ng c&oacute; gi&aacute; tr&#7883;.</blockquote>V&#7853;y m&agrave;i nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o?B&iacute; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7875; x&oacute;a b&#7887; m&#7897;t th&oacute;i quen x&#7845;u &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; ph&#7843;i t&#7853;p m&#7897;t th&oacute;i quen m&#7899;i mang t&iacute;nh t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c, t&ocirc;i g&#7885;i &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; tr&ograve; ch&#417;i &ldquo;&#272;&#7853;p &#273;&aacute;, m&agrave;i kim c&#432;&#417;ng&rdquo;. V&agrave; c&ocirc;ng th&#7913;c cho tr&ograve; ch&#417;i n&agrave;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&#7885;i l&agrave; v&ograve;ng tr&ograve;n th&oacute;i quen 3R. Ngay b&acirc;y gi&#7901; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; m&#7903; m&#7897;t tab n&#7919;a k&#7871; b&ecirc;n b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y v&agrave; g&otilde; v&agrave;o t&#7915; kh&oacute;a &#273;&#7841;i lo&#7841;i l&agrave; &ldquo;3R&rsquo;s Habit&rdquo; s&#7869; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u k&#7871;t qu&#7843;. C&ograve;n mu&#7889;n t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u k&#297; h&#417;n th&igrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; mua s&aacute;ch c&#7911;a t&aacute;c gi&#7843; Charles Duhigg, &ldquo;The Power of Habit&rdquo;.Tr&#7903; l&#7841;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; ch&iacute;nh: nh&#432; c&aacute;i t&ecirc;n c&#7911;a c&ocirc;ng th&#7913;c, b&#7841;n s&#7869; &aacute;p d&#7909;ng 3 ch&#7919; R (Reminder &ndash; Routine &ndash; Reward) v&agrave;o qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh &ldquo;m&agrave;i&rdquo; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. C&ograve;n t&ocirc;i th&igrave; g&#7885;i l&agrave; 3T (kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i nh&acirc;n b&aacute;nh m&igrave; &#273;&acirc;u nh&eacute;) cho d&#7877; nh&#7899;: Th&acirc;n thu&#7897;c &ndash; Th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n &ndash; Th&agrave;nh t&iacute;ch<ul><li style="text-align:justify;">Reminder: T&igrave;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u g&#7847;n g&#361;i, quen thu&#7897;c nh&#7845;t, ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng b&#7841;n th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave;m nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; k&#7871;t n&#7889;i v&#7899;i th&oacute;i quen m&#7899;i. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y b&#7841;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y b&#7883; g&#432;&#7907;ng &eacute;p, b&#7855;t bu&#7897;c m&agrave; m&#7885;i th&#7913; &#273;i&#7873;u di&#7877;n ra m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch r&#7845;t t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n. M&#7897;t v&iacute; d&#7909; &#273;i&#7875;n h&igrave;nh l&agrave; th&oacute;i quen &ldquo;kinh &#273;i&#7875;n&rdquo; m&agrave; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7851;n hay r&#7881; tai nhau: D&aacute;n gi&#7845;y note t&#7915; v&#7921;ng ti&#7871;ng anh trong nh&agrave; v&#7879; sinh, &#273;&#7875; m&#7895;i khi gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t &ldquo;n&#7895;i bu&#7891;n&rdquo; th&igrave; &ldquo;c&oacute; c&aacute;i &#273;&#7885;c cho &#273;&#7905; ch&aacute;n&rdquo;, h&#417;i gh&ecirc; nh&#432;ng m&agrave; th&#7921;c t&#7871; :)))</li><li style="text-align:justify;">Routine: H&atilde;y b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c d&#7877; ho&#7863;c chia nh&#7887; n&oacute;. Theo l&#7901;i c&#7911;a Leo Babauta: "H&atilde;y khi&#7871;n n&oacute; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n qu&aacute; d&#7877; &#273;&#7871;n n&#7895;i b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng". B&#7841;n c&#7911;a h&ocirc;m nay ch&#7881; c&#7847;n t&#7889;t h&#417;n 1% b&#7841;n c&#7911;a h&ocirc;m qua l&agrave; &#273;&#7911;. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; th&oacute;i quen &#273;&#7885;c s&aacute;ch, h&atilde;y kh&#7903;i &#273;&#7897;ng b&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y ch&#7881; c&#7847;n &#273;&#7885;c 1 trang s&aacute;ch. H&atilde;y th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c b&#7841;n cho l&agrave; ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p theo t&#7889;c &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng b&#7841;n, &#273;&#7915;ng th&uacute;c &eacute;p b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ph&#7843;i theo l&#7883;ch tr&igrave;nh hay ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.</li><li style="text-align:justify;">Reward: V&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng v&agrave; t&ocirc;i cho c&#361;ng l&agrave; quan tr&#7885;ng nh&#7845;t, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; bi&#7871;t c&aacute;ch &#259;n m&#7915;ng. &#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &#273;i&#7875;m g&acirc;y nghi&#7879;n c&#7911;a &ldquo;tr&ograve; ch&#417;i&rdquo; n&agrave;y. &#272;&#7915;ng qu&ecirc;n t&#7921; th&#432;&#7903;ng, khen ng&#7907;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n khi &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng c&#7897;t m&#7889;c trong l&#7883;ch tr&igrave;nh. H&atilde;y &#273;&#7875; &yacute; nh&#7919;ng c&#7847;u th&#7911; b&oacute;ng &#273;&aacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y gi&#7887;i nh&#7845;t. T&#7841;o cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c &ldquo;chi&#7871;n th&#7855;ng&rdquo; v&agrave; &ldquo;t&#7921; h&agrave;o&rdquo; r&#7845;t quan tr&#7885;ng. Th&#7853;m ch&iacute; n&#7871;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, h&atilde;y s&aacute;ng t&#7841;o m&#7897;t c&acirc;u n&oacute;i, c&aacute;ch &#259;n m&#7915;ng &#273;&#7897;c &#273;&aacute;o nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; t&#7841;o th&ecirc;m &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c.</li></ul><blockquote>Suy cho c&ugrave;ng, y&#7871;u t&#7889; quan tr&#7885;ng nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh th&oacute;i quen &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; hay kh&ocirc;ng v&#7851;n ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; b&#7841;n.&nbsp;</blockquote>V&igrave; v&#7853;y sau khi &#273;&#7885;c b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i khuy&#7871;n kh&iacute;ch b&#7841;n h&atilde;y t&igrave;m m&#7897;t th&oacute;i quen b&#7845;t k&igrave; cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; l&ecirc;n k&#7871; ho&#7841;ch th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n ngay v&agrave;o ng&agrave;y mai. &#272;i&#7873;u th&#7913; 2, &ldquo;Khi B&#7841;n S&#7855;p B&#7887; Cu&#7897;c, H&atilde;y Nh&#7899; T&#7899;i L&yacute; Do Khi&#7871;n B&#7841;n B&#7855;t &#272;&#7847;u&rdquo;. &#272;i&#7873;u cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng, khi b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng c&#7897;t m&#7889;c nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, h&atilde;y quay l&#7841;i &#273;&acirc;y v&agrave; chia s&#7867; n&oacute;.

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