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<html><body><p>M&#7897;t chi&#7871;c xe h&#417;i d&ugrave; c&oacute; 3 chi&#7871;c k&iacute;nh chi&#7871;u h&#7853;u v&#7851;n c&oacute; &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; d&#7877; g&acirc;y tai n&#7841;n. T&#432; duy c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#361;ng th&#7871;. L&yacute; tr&iacute; gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#432;a ra nh&#7919;ng quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; ki&#7879;n x&#7843;y &#273;&#7871;n v&#7899;i ch&uacute;ng ta, v&agrave; ch&uacute;ng c&oacute; &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; s&#7869; g&acirc;y t&#7841;i n&#7841;n cho ch&uacute;ng ta v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.</p>

<p>Trong t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c h&agrave;nh vi, t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; v&#7873; con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n (t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch, h&agrave;nh vi, t&#432; duy, &hellip;) c&oacute; th&#7875; chia ra b&#7889;n g&oacute;c v&#7899;i c&aacute;i t&ecirc;n l&agrave; Johari Window:<br>
1. G&oacute;c m&#7903;: Nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; v&#7873; con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, b&#7841;n bi&#7871;t v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh c&#361;ng bi&#7871;t<br>
2. G&oacute;c khu&#7845;t: Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u v&#7873; b&#7841;n m&agrave; ch&#7881; c&oacute; b&#7841;n bi&#7871;t nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i mu&#7889;n che gi&#7845;u kh&ocirc;ng cho ai kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t&nbsp;<br>
3. G&oacute;c m&ugrave;: Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u v&#7873; b&#7841;n m&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh &#273;&#7873;u bi&#7871;t nh&#432;ng b&#7841;n l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &yacute; th&#7913;c g&igrave; v&#7873; n&oacute;<br>
4. G&oacute;c &#7849;n: Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u v&#7873; b&#7841;n m&agrave; c&#7843; b&#7841;n v&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh &#273;&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t. &#272;&acirc;y c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; g&oacute;c ti&#7873;m n&#259;ng m&agrave; b&#7841;n ch&#432;a kh&aacute;m ph&aacute;.</p>

<p>Ch&uacute;ng ta ai c&#361;ng mu&#7889;n c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7889;ng th&#7853;t v&#7899;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; quan h&#7879; v&#7899;i m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&acirc;n thi&#7871;t h&#417;n. Mu&#7889;n v&#7853;y ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n h&#432;&#7899;ng &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c m&#7903; r&#7897;ng g&oacute;c m&#7903; v&agrave; ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng l&agrave;m nh&#7887; &#273;i g&oacute;c khu&#7845;t, g&oacute;c m&ugrave; v&agrave; g&oacute;c &#7849;n.</p>

<p>G&oacute;c khu&#7845;t l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng c&#7843;m x&uacute;c, suy ngh&#297;, thi&ecirc;n v&#7883;, khao kh&aacute;t,.... k&#7875; c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; ki&#7879;n x&#7843;y ra v&#7899;i b&#7841;n trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; m&agrave; b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n gi&#7845;u k&iacute;n kh&ocirc;ng cho ai bi&#7871;t. B&#7841;n s&#7907; n&#7871;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ngo&agrave;i bi&#7871;t c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&uacute;ng v&#7873; b&#7841;n ho&#7863;c s&#7869; ch&#7889;i b&#7887; b&#7841;n,... N&#7871;u g&oacute;c khu&#7845;t l&#7899;n s&#7869; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng nh&#7919;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; th&acirc;n thi&#7871;t trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. Tuy th&#7871; n&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng nguy h&#7841;i &#273;&#7871;n ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p b&#7857;ng g&oacute;c m&ugrave; v&igrave; &iacute;t nh&#7845;t b&#7841;n &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; trong g&oacute;c khu&#7845;t.</p>

<p>G&oacute;c m&ugrave; bao g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; v&#7873; b&#7841;n m&agrave; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y trong khi &#7845;y th&igrave; ai c&#361;ng th&#7845;y.<br>
Theo t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c th&igrave; t&acirc;m th&#7913;c c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; hai ph&#7847;n: &yacute; th&#7913;c v&agrave; v&ocirc; th&#7913;c. Hai ph&#7847;n n&agrave;y nh&#432; m&#7897;t t&#7843;ng b&#259;ng tr&ocirc;i tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7841;i D&#432;&#417;ng, ph&#7847;n &yacute; th&#7913;c l&agrave; ph&#7847;n n&#7893;i nh&#7887;, ph&#7847;n v&ocirc; th&#7913;c l&#7899;n h&#417;n nhi&#7873;u l&agrave; ph&#7847;n ch&igrave;m. Nh&#7919;ng ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c, kinh nghi&#7879;m, tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m hay nh&#7919;ng c&#7843;m x&uacute;c c&#7911;a c&aacute; nh&acirc;n khi &#273;&#7889;i di&#7879;n v&#7899;i c&aacute;c v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng d&#7847;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh th&oacute;i quen hay &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n trong v&ocirc; th&#7913;c c&#7911;a m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. T&ocirc;i g&#7885;i ki&#7875;u t&#432; duy &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; T&#431; DUY KINH NGHI&#7878;M. &#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; l&#7889;i t&#432; duy &#273;em l&#7841;i th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng cho r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, khi m&agrave; nh&#7919;ng kinh nghi&#7879;m gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh v&agrave; x&#7917; l&yacute; c&aacute;c s&#7921; vi&#7879;c x&#7843;y ra trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch nhanh ch&oacute;ng. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n n&oacute; l&agrave; th&#7913; sinh ra nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; trong t&#432; duy c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; ph&acirc;n lo&#7841;i nh&#432; sau:&nbsp;</p>

<h3>1. M&ugrave; ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c</h3>

<p>Con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; qu&aacute; cao v&agrave;o ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c v&agrave; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh (&#272;&#7885;c th&ecirc;m Hi&#7879;u &#7913;ng Dunning-Kruger). Khi ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c c&agrave;ng cao th&igrave; &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; c&agrave;ng l&#7899;n. V&igrave; qua nh&#7919;ng kh&oacute; kh&#259;n ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&atilde; v&#432;&#7907;t qua, trong v&ocirc; th&#7913;c ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh suy ngh&#297; &ldquo;m&igrave;nh bi&#7871;t h&#7871;t hay &ldquo;m&igrave;nh l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7871;t&rdquo;. Ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; &ldquo;ch&#7871;t&rdquo; khi mang t&#432; duy &#273;&oacute; trong ng&#432;&#7901;i, khi ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;em kinh nghi&#7879;m c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh &aacute;p d&#7909;ng v&agrave;o m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; t&#432;&#417;ng t&#7921; trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913;, nh&#432;ng n&oacute; l&#7841;i c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh kh&aacute;c m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n ra. Kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh &#7845;y c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; b&#7889;i c&#7843;nh kh&aacute;c nhau, t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch con ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c nhau,...</p>

<h3>2. M&ugrave; tin t&#432;&#7903;ng</h3>

<p>Con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng &ldquo;nghe nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; mu&#7889;n nghe, th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; mu&#7889;n th&#7845;y, v&agrave; hi&#7875;u nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; mu&#7889;n hi&#7875;u&rsquo;&rsquo;. Nh&#7919;ng th&ocirc;ng tin &#273;&#7889;i ch&#7885;i hay kh&ocirc;ng ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i suy ngh&#297; ho&#7863;c s&#7921; tin t&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; b&#7883; lo&#7841;i b&#7887;. Do &#273;&oacute; s&#7921; th&#7853;t &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&aacute;c v&#7899;i s&#7921; th&#7853;t &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c cho d&ugrave; c&ugrave;ng m&#7897;t s&#7921; ki&#7879;n.&nbsp;</p>

<h3>3. M&ugrave; c&#7843;m x&uacute;c&nbsp;</h3>

<p>C&#7843;m x&uacute;c l&agrave;m m&#7901; &#273;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. Khi b&#7855;t g&#7863;p m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&oacute; m&#7899;i m&#7867;, c&aacute;i ch&uacute;ng ta nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n l&agrave; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c th&igrave; n&atilde;o b&#7897; ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; b&#7883; &#273;i&#7873;u h&#432;&#7899;ng theo s&#7921; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c &#7845;y, nh&#7855;m ch&#7913;ng minh ch&uacute;ng ta l&agrave; &#273;&uacute;ng. V&iacute; d&#7909; khi m&#7899;i g&#7863;p s&#7871;p c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, th&#7845;y s&#7871;p nhu&#7897;m t&oacute;c b&#7841;ch kim, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; ngh&#297; ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y ch&#7855;c thu&#7897;c th&agrave;nh ph&#7847;n v&#7899; v&#7849;n, kh&ocirc;ng ra g&igrave;. V&agrave; trong m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; quan s&aacute;t nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c c&#7911;a s&#7871;p &#273;&#7875; ch&#7913;ng minh suy ngh&#297; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh l&agrave; &#273;&uacute;ng m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n nh&#7919;ng kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p h&#417;n t&#7915; &ocirc;ng s&#7871;p n&agrave;y. V&#7899;i c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;, ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng ch&#417;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; c&ugrave;ng t&#432; duy quan &#273;i&#7875;m. V&#7899;i m&#7897;t t&#7893; ch&#7913;c th&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t nguy c&#417; r&#7845;t l&#7899;n.</p>

<h2>C&#7847;n l&agrave;m g&igrave; &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;m &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; t&#432; duy?</h2>

<p>1. T&#7853;p ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t c&aacute;i &ldquo;T&ocirc;i&rdquo;. N&#7871;u ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&aacute;i &ldquo;T&ocirc;i&rdquo;, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#7843;m x&uacute;c. N&ecirc;n nh&#7899; &#273;i&#7875;m m&ugrave; t&#432; duy l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u ai c&#361;ng th&#7845;y m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ta. V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n khi ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#7843;m x&uacute;c, ch&uacute;ng ta d&#7877; d&agrave;ng &#273;&oacute;n nh&#7853;n th&ocirc;ng tin, g&oacute;p &yacute; t&#7915; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. V&agrave; t&#432; duy &#273;a chi&#7873;u s&#7869; gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta ph&acirc;n t&iacute;ch quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh n&ecirc;n x&#7917; l&yacute; nh&#432; n&agrave;o v&#7899;i g&oacute;p &yacute; &#273;&oacute;. X&atilde; h&#7897;i ng&agrave;y nay, EQ quan tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n IQ r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u.<br>
2. T&#7853;p b&#7887; d&#7847;n quan ni&#7879;m &#273;&uacute;ng &ndash; sai, ph&#7843;i &ndash; tr&aacute;i, t&#7889;t &ndash; x&#7845;u, th&agrave;nh &ndash; b&#7841;i. M&#7885;i &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881; c&oacute; ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p hay kh&ocirc;ng ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p. V&iacute; d&#7909; &#7903; Vi&#7879;t Nam c&oacute; quan ni&#7879;m &ldquo;Th&#432;&#417;ng cho roi cho v&#7885;t&rdquo;, nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u &#273;em sang M&#7929; &aacute;p d&#7909;ng th&igrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7883; &#273;i t&ugrave; khi l&agrave;m th&#7871; v&#7899;i ch&iacute;nh &#273;&#7913;a con m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7867; ra. Quan ni&#7879;m &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;&uacute;ng sai, m&agrave; n&oacute; c&oacute; ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i c&aacute;i b&#7889;i c&#7843;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng th&ocirc;i.</p>

<p>Trong b&#7889;i c&#7843;nh &#273;&#7845;t ch&#7853;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&ocirc;ng, s&#7921; c&#7841;nh tranh gay g&#7855;t bi&#7871;n th&#432;&#417;ng tr&#432;&#7901;ng th&agrave;nh chi&#7871;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7893; m&aacute;u theo ngh&#297;a &#273;en nh&#432; hi&#7879;n nay, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; &ldquo;ch&#7871;t&rdquo; n&#7871;u ch&#7881; d&#7915;ng l&#7841;i &#7903; T&#431; DUY KINH NGHI&#7878;M. Ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i n&acirc;ng t&#432; duy c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh l&ecirc;n &#7903; level cao h&#417;n, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; T&#431; DUY S&Aacute;NG T&#7840;O v&agrave; T&#431; DUY &#272;&#7896;T PH&Aacute;.</p></body></html>


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