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C&#7913; c&aacute;i ki&#7875;u c&aacute;i c&aacute;ch c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh r&#7891;i qu&#259;ng v&agrave;o m&#7863;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, ng&#432;&#7901;i ta kh&ocirc;ng hi&#7875;u hay ph&#7843;n &#7913;ng l&agrave; l&#7895;i c&#7911;a h&#7885; th&igrave; c&oacute; m&agrave; ch&#417;i v&#7899;i d&#7871;. N&#7871;u ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c kh&ocirc;ng quan t&acirc;m, kh&ocirc;ng care b&#7841;n c&#7843;m x&uacute;c v&agrave; ph&#7843;n &#7913;ng ra sao khi ng&#432;&#7901;i ta n&oacute;i g&igrave; l&agrave;m g&igrave; th&igrave; b&#7841;n th&#7845;y sao? B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&iacute;ch ng&#432;&#7901;i ta hi&#7875;u m&igrave;nh v&agrave; &#273;&#7875; &yacute;, quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng? Ai tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7901;i m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&iacute;ch. Ng&#432;&#7901;i th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; EQ l&agrave; v&igrave; th&#7871;. H&#7885; t&igrave;m ra c&ocirc;ng th&#7913;c ri&ecirc;ng &#273;&#7875; c&#7897;ng t&aacute;c thu&#7853;n l&#7907;i nh&#7845;t v&#7899;i t&#7915;ng c&aacute; nh&acirc;n trong h&agrave;nh tr&igrave;nh l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c, x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng quan h&#7879; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. V&agrave;i &#273;i&#7873;u c&#417; b&#7843;n c&#7847;n ngh&#297; cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c:- Ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919;- C&aacute;ch tr&igrave;nh b&agrave;y- K&ecirc;nh t&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c- Th&#7901;i gian n&ecirc;n t&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c- C&aacute;ch gi&uacute;p h&#7885; ti&#7871;p c&#7853;n th&ocirc;ng tin hay t&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n nh&#7845;t- &#272;&#7915;ng assume - cho l&agrave; chuy&#7879;n g&igrave; l&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n. Lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7863;t c&acirc;u h&#7887;i &#273;&#7875; ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n. Lu&ocirc;n th&#7917; &#273;i th&#7917; l&#7841;i cho ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n tr&aacute;nh l&agrave;m m&#7845;t th&#7901;i gian ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c- S&#7917; d&#7909;ng &#273;&#7883;nh d&#7841;ng c&aacute;c lo&#7841;i file ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n nh&#7845;t. &#272;&#7915;ng &#273;&aacute;nh &#273;&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c b&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; b&#7841;n th&#7845;y cool nh&#432;ng m&#7845;t th&#7901;i gian ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c ph&#7843;i t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t- Gi&#7843;i th&iacute;ch t&#7915; chuy&ecirc;n m&ocirc;n n&#7871;u ng&#432;&#7901;i nghe kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; chuy&ecirc;n m&ocirc;n v&agrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng hi&#7875;u. 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