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1.Ngu&#7891;n g&#7889;c nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i tr&#7855;c nghi&#7879;m t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch:Theo (Cherry.K, 2020) cho bi&ecirc;&#769;t, nh&#432;&#771;ng ba&#768;i tr&#259;&#769;c nghi&ecirc;&#803;m ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch &#273;a&#771; xu&acirc;&#769;t hi&ecirc;&#803;n t&#432;&#768; cu&ocirc;&#769;i TK 18 va&#768; d&acirc;&#768;n tr&#417;&#777; n&ecirc;n ph&ocirc;&#777; bi&ecirc;&#769;n va&#768;o &#273;&acirc;&#768;u TK 19 v&#417;&#769;i da&#803;ng &#273;&acirc;&#768;u ti&ecirc;n la&#768; na&#771;o t&#432;&#417;&#769;ng ho&#803;c. Sau &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c ca&#769;c nha&#768; t&acirc;m ly&#769; ho&#803;c pha&#769;t tri&ecirc;&#777;n va&#768; ph&acirc;n ti&#769;ch tha&#768;nh nhi&ecirc;&#768;u y&ecirc;&#769;u t&ocirc;&#769; ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch. Hi&ecirc;&#803;n nay, ca&#769;c c&ocirc;ng cu&#803; th&#432;&#417;&#768;ng &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c du&#768;ng r&ocirc;&#803;ng ra&#771;i co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; k&ecirc;&#777; &#273;&ecirc;&#769;n nh&#432; Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), Big Five, 16 ki&ecirc;&#777;u ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch,&hellip; co&#769; c&ocirc;ng du&#803;ng nh&#432; &#273;a&#769;nh gia&#769; ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch, hi&ecirc;&#803;u qua&#777; trong&nbsp; tri&#803; li&ecirc;&#803;u t&acirc;m ly&#769;, ch&acirc;&#777;n &#273;oa&#769;n l&acirc;m sa&#768;ng hay nh&#432;&#771;ng v&acirc;&#769;n &#273;&ecirc;&#768; t&acirc;m ly&#769; cu&#777;a m&ocirc;&#803;t ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i, nh&acirc;&#803;n th&acirc;&#769;y s&#432;&#803; thay &#273;&ocirc;&#777;i trong ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch cu&#777;a ba&#777;n th&acirc;n, h&ocirc;&#771; tr&#417;&#803; trong tuy&ecirc;&#777;n du&#803;ng. [1]2.V&igrave; sao con ng&#432;&#7901;i tin v&agrave;o nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i test &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#7871;n v&#7853;y? Tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng c&#7909; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c?Nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n: Theo (Jennifer V. Fayard, 2019) &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432;&#771;ng nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n chi&#769;nh nh&#432; sau:&#10024; Con ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i mu&ocirc;&#769;n &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u ta ch&#432;a bi&ecirc;&#769;t v&ecirc;&#768; ba&#777;n th&acirc;n: nha&#768; t&acirc;m ly&#769; ho&#803;c ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch Simine Vazire &#273;&#432;a ra gia&#777; thuy&ecirc;&#769;t trong m&ocirc;&#803;t t&acirc;&#803;p cu&#777;a podcast &ldquo;The black goat&rdquo; r&#259;&#768;ng chu&#769;ng ta thi&#769;ch la&#768;m nh&#432;&#771;ng ba&#768;i tr&#259;&#769;c nghi&ecirc;&#803;m ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch vi&#768; chu&#769;ng ta hi vo&#803;ng no&#769; se&#771; th&ecirc;&#777; hi&ecirc;&#803;n nh&#432;&#771;ng khi&#769;a ca&#803;nh ma&#768; ta ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng bi&#7871;t v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&oacute;.&nbsp;&#10024; Con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng kh&aacute;t khao &ldquo;&#273;&#432;&#7907;c thu&#7897;c v&#7873;&rdquo; (m&#7897;t t&#7853;p th&#7875; n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;): ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n m&#7897;t t&#7853;p th&#7875; gi&#7889;ng m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7845;u hi&#7875;u, kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; coi l&agrave; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t. Chu&#769;ng ta th&#432;&#417;&#768;ng s&#417;&#803; va&#768; se&#771; co&#769; nh&#432;&#771;ng pha&#777;n &#432;&#769;ng ti&ecirc;u c&#432;&#803;c n&ecirc;&#769;u nghi&#771; r&#259;&#768;ng kh&ocirc;ng co&#769; n&#417;i na&#768;o phu&#768; h&#417;&#803;p v&#417;&#769;i ki&ecirc;&#777;u ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch cu&#777;a mi&#768;nh.&#10024; Con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng mu&#7889;n &ldquo;&#273;&#7883;nh ngh&#297;a&rdquo; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c theo c&aacute;ch &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n: m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i test t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch l&agrave; &#273;&#7875; gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ta ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch nhanh cho&#769;ng va&#768; d&ecirc;&#771; da&#768;ng, t&#432;&#768; &#273;o&#769; b&#259;&#769;t &#273;&acirc;&#768;u m&ocirc;&#803;t cu&ocirc;&#803;c tro&#768; chuy&ecirc;&#803;n &ldquo;m&#432;&#417;&#803;t&rdquo; nh&acirc;&#769;t co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; cu&#771;ng nh&#432; tra&#769;nh s&#432;&#803; ng&#432;&#417;&#803;ng ngu&#768;ng trong su&ocirc;&#769;t cu&ocirc;&#803;c h&ocirc;&#803;i thoa&#803;i. Nghi&#771;a la&#768; no&#769; giu&#769;p ta ph&acirc;n loa&#803;i ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch nh&#432;&#771;ng ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i ma&#768; ta g&#259;&#803;p nh&#432; m&ocirc;&#803;t tho&#769;i quen &#273;&ecirc;&#777; ph&acirc;&#768;n na&#768;o hi&ecirc;&#777;u &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c th&ecirc;&#769; gi&#417;&#769;i xung quanh. Nh&#432;&#771;ng th&ocirc;ng tin &#273;o&#769; d&acirc;&#768;n d&acirc;&#768;n se&#771; tr&#417;&#777; tha&#768;nh hi&ecirc;&#777;u bi&ecirc;&#769;t cu&#777;a ta trong vi&ecirc;&#803;c ha&#768;nh x&#432;&#777; v&#417;&#769;i nh&#432;&#771;ng ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i xung quanh. Nh&#432;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; g&acirc;y pha&#777;n ta&#769;c du&#803;ng n&ecirc;&#769;u ta nh&acirc;&#803;n &#273;i&#803;nh sai v&ecirc;&#768; ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i kha&#769;c.[2]&#10024; B&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, c&aacute;c b&agrave;i tr&#7855;c nghi&#7879;m th&#432;&#7901;ng cho ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c r&#7857;ng n&oacute; r&#7845;t ch&iacute;nh x&aacute;c d&ugrave; th&#7921;c ch&#7845;t l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i:&nbsp;<ul><li>Ca&#769;ch chu&#769;ng ta nhi&#768;n nh&acirc;&#803;n k&ecirc;&#769;t qua&#777; cu&#777;a ba&#768;i test: &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u na&#768;y co&#769; m&ocirc;&#803;t s&#432;&#803; li&ecirc;n quan kh&ocirc;ng nho&#777; &#273;&ecirc;&#769;n thi&ecirc;n ki&ecirc;&#769;n xa&#769;c nh&acirc;&#803;n, con ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i th&#432;&#417;&#768;ng mu&ocirc;&#769;n ch&#432;&#769;ng minh cho nh&#432;&#771;ng gi&#768; ho&#803; tin. Du&#768; cho nh&#432;&#771;ng m&ocirc; ta&#777; ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch &#273;o&#769; tr&ocirc;ng co&#769; ve&#777; kha&#769; cu&#803; th&ecirc;&#777; nh&#432;ng th&#432;&#803;c ch&acirc;&#769;t no&#769; chi&#777; mang ti&#769;nh kha&#769;i qua&#769;t gi&#432;&#771;a m&ocirc;&#803;t s&ocirc;&#769; loa&#803;i ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch.</li><li>Nh&#432;&#771;ng ba&#768;i tr&#259;&#769;c nghi&ecirc;&#803;m th&#432;&#417;&#768;ng &ldquo;ca ng&#417;&#803;i&rdquo; chu&#769;ng ta:&nbsp; ph&acirc;&#768;n m&ocirc; ta&#777; ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch cu&#777;a chu&#769;ng ta thi&ecirc;n h&#432;&#417;&#769;ng ti&#769;ch c&#432;&#803;c nhi&ecirc;&#768;u h&#417;n va&#768; &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u &#273;o&#769; khi&ecirc;&#769;n ta &ldquo;&#273;&ecirc;&#777; t&acirc;m&rdquo; &#273;&ecirc;&#769;n no&#769; h&#417;n. Du&#768; m&ocirc;&#803;t s&ocirc;&#769; ba&#768;i test v&acirc;&#771;n m&ocirc; ta&#777; ph&acirc;&#768;n ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch ti&ecirc;u c&#432;&#803;c cu&#777;a chu&#769;ng ta nh&#432;ng la&#803;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c cho r&#259;&#768;ng i&#769;t chi&#769;nh xa&#769;c h&#417;n. M&ocirc;&#803;t s&ocirc;&#769; ba&#768;i test nh&#432; MBTI chi&#777; chi&#777; ra nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#777;m ti&#769;ch c&#432;&#803;c trong ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch cu&#777;a ta (v&acirc;&#803;y n&ecirc;n, no&#769; kh&ocirc;ng chi&#769;nh xa&#769;c nh&#432; ta t&#432;&#417;&#777;ng).[3]</li></ul>3.L&#417;&#803;i i&#769;ch/ha&#803;n ch&ecirc;&#769; ma&#768; no&#769; mang la&#803;i? Ca&#769;ch nhi&#768;n nh&acirc;&#803;n cu&#777;a nh&#432;&#771;ng ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i xung quanh d&#432;&#417;&#769;i l&#259;ng ki&#769;nh tr&#259;&#769;c nghi&ecirc;&#803;m ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch?Theo (Cherry, 2020) nh&#7919;ng l&#7907;i &iacute;ch c&#361;ng nh&#432; h&#7841;n ch&#7871; c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i tr&#7855;c nghi&#7879;m t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch bao g&#7891;m:&nbsp;&#10024;L&#417;&#803;i i&#769;ch:<ul><li>C&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u r&otilde; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c h&#417;n v&agrave; &#273;a d&#7841;ng g&oacute;c nh&igrave;n khi ti&#7871;p c&#7853;n m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a c&aacute; nh&acirc;n: hi&#7875;u nh&#7919;ng t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c nhau c&#361;ng &#273;em l&#7841;i c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n kh&aacute;c nhau, gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n m&#7903; mang t&#7847;m m&#7855;t v&agrave; x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng nhi&#7873;u m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; b&#7873;n ch&#7863;t.&nbsp;</li><li>Nh&acirc;&#803;n &#273;i&#803;nh &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u ta thi&#769;ch va&#768; kh&ocirc;ng thi&#769;ch : nh&acirc;&#803;n &#273;i&#803;nh &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;&#259;&#803;c &#273;i&ecirc;&#777;m cu&#777;a ba&#777;n th&acirc;n la&#768; m&ocirc;&#803;t ca&#769;ch giu&#769;p ba&#803;n hi&ecirc;&#777;u ra s&#417;&#777; thi&#769;ch hay nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u ba&#803;n kh&ocirc;ng thi&#769;ch, t&#432;&#768; &#273;o&#769; n&#259;&#769;m b&#259;&#769;t nh&#432;&#771;ng c&#417; h&ocirc;&#803;i va&#768; ch&#259;&#769;c ch&#259;&#769;n trong nh&#432;&#771;ng quy&ecirc;&#769;t &#273;i&#803;nh quan tro&#803;ng &#273;&ocirc;&#769;i v&#417;&#769;i cu&ocirc;&#803;c &#273;&#417;&#768;i ba&#803;n nh&#432; vi&ecirc;&#803;c cho&#803;n nga&#768;nh khi l&ecirc;n &#273;a&#803;i ho&#803;c.</li><li>Kha&#769;m pha&#769; nh&#432;&#771;ng h&#432;&#417;&#769;ng ti&ecirc;&#769;p c&acirc;&#803;n v&acirc;&#769;n &#273;&ecirc;&#768; kha&#769;c nhau d&#432;&#803;a tr&ecirc;n ki&ecirc;&#777;u ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch cu&#777;a ba&#803;n.</li><li>Nh&acirc;&#803;n ra nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#777;m ma&#803;nh va&#768; &#273;i&ecirc;&#777;m y&ecirc;&#769;u cu&#777;a ba&#777;n th&acirc;n.</li></ul>&#10024;Ha&#803;n ch&ecirc;&#769;:<ul><li>Nh&#432;&#771;ng ba&#768;i tr&#259;&#769;c nghi&ecirc;&#803;m ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch se&#771; kh&ocirc;ng ti&ecirc;n &#273;oa&#769;n tr&#432;&#417;&#769;c &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c tha&#768;nh c&ocirc;ng cu&#777;a ba&#803;n hay b&#259;&#769;t bu&ocirc;&#803;c ta pha&#777;i cho&#803;n &#273;u&#769;ng v&#417;&#769;i ngh&ecirc;&#768; nghi&ecirc;&#803;p &#273;o&#769; ma&#768; chi&#777; g&#417;&#803;i y&#769; nh&#432;&#771;ng ki&ecirc;&#777;u ngh&ecirc;&#768; nghi&ecirc;&#803;p co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; phu&#768; h&#417;&#803;p v&#417;&#769;i ta, trong m&ocirc;&#803;t s&ocirc;&#769; tr&#432;&#417;&#768;ng h&#417;&#803;p thi&#768; l&#432;&#803;a cho&#803;n &#273;o&#769; kh&ocirc;ng phu&#768; h&#417;&#803;p v&#417;&#769;i th&#432;&#803;c t&ecirc;&#769;.</li><li>&#272;o&#769;ng khung ba&#803;n trong ki&ecirc;&#777;u ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch nh&acirc;&#769;t &#273;i&#803;nh se&#771; ng&#259;n c&#7843;n ta th&#432;&#777; s&#432;&#769;c nh&#432;&#771;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u m&#417;&#769;i. VD nh&#432; nh&#432;&#771;ng ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i h&#432;&#417;&#769;ng ngoa&#803;i th&#432;&#417;&#768;ng se&#771; t&#432;&#768; ch&ocirc;&#769;i nh&#432;&#771;ng hoa&#803;t &#273;&ocirc;&#803;ng mang ti&#769;nh ch&acirc;&#769;t y&ecirc;n ti&#771;nh hay ca&#769; nh&acirc;n, vi&ecirc;&#803;c na&#768;y co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; la&#768;m ta bo&#777; l&#417;&#771; nh&#432;&#771;ng tra&#777;i nghi&ecirc;&#803;m hay nh&#432;&#771;ng ba&#768;i ho&#803;c m&#417;&#769;i me&#777; ma&#768; co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; c&acirc;&#768;n thi&ecirc;&#769;t cho cu&ocirc;&#803;c s&ocirc;&#769;ng cu&#777;a ho&#803;.</li><li>Vi&ecirc;&#803;c &ldquo;g&#259;&#769;n ma&#769;c&rdquo; na&#768;y co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; g&acirc;y kho&#769; kh&#259;n cho ta trong nh&#432;&#771;ng m&ocirc;&#769;i quan h&ecirc;&#803;: ta co&#769; th&ecirc;&#777; se&#771; t&#432;&#768; ch&ocirc;&#769;i ho&#259;&#803;c bo&#777; l&#417;&#771; c&#417; h&ocirc;&#803;i &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c ti&ecirc;&#769;p xu&#769;c v&#417;&#769;i nhi&ecirc;&#768;u ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i kha&#769;c nhau vi&#768; kh&ocirc;ng cu&#768;ng s&#417;&#777; thi&#769;ch hay ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch. [4]</li></ul>4.Nh&#432;&#771;ng l&acirc;&#768;m t&#432;&#417;&#777;ng v&ecirc;&#768; ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch:&nbsp;Theo (Benjamin Hardy, 2020), &ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;a ra nh&#7919;ng l&#7847;m t&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7873; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch:&#128204;Con ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i cho r&#7857;ng ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c chia tha&#768;nh &ldquo;ca&#769;c ki&ecirc;&#777;u&rdquo; nh&acirc;&#769;t &#273;i&#803;nh: &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u na&#768;y cu&#771;ng li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&ecirc;&#769;n m&ocirc;&#803;t trong nh&#432;&#771;ng ly&#769; do ta&#803;i sao con ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i la&#803;i tin va&#768;o nh&#432;&#771;ng ba&#768;i tr&#259;&#769;c nghi&ecirc;&#803;m ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch khi ti&#769;nh ca&#769;ch &#273;&#432;&#417;&#803;c chia ra tha&#768;nh &ldquo;ca&#769;c ki&ecirc;&#777;u&rdquo; m&ocirc;&#803;t ca&#769;ch &#273;&#417;n gia&#777;n hoa&#769; qua&#769; m&#432;&#769;c va&#768; mang ti&#769;nh kha&#769;i qua&#769;t, chung chung khi&ecirc;&#769;n cho b&acirc;&#769;t ki&#768; ai cu&#771;ng nh&acirc;&#803;n th&acirc;&#769;y r&#259;&#768;ng &#273;i&ecirc;&#768;u &#273;o&#769; co&#769; li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&ecirc;&#769;n mi&#768;nh. &ldquo;Kh&ocirc;ng co&#769; ca&#769;i go&#803;i la&#768; ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i thu&acirc;&#768;n tuy&#769; h&#432;&#417;&#769;ng ngoa&#803;i hay ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i thu&acirc;&#768;n tuy&#769; h&#432;&#417;&#769;ng n&ocirc;&#803;i. M&ocirc;&#803;t ng&#432;&#417;&#768;i nh&#432; v&acirc;&#803;y thi&#768; hoa&#803; ch&#259;ng la&#768; &#417;&#777; trong nha&#768; th&#432;&#417;ng &#273;i&ecirc;n&rdquo; (Carl Jung; 52) [5]&#128204;Con ng&#432;&#7901;i ngh&#297; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch l&agrave; b&#7849;m sinh v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7893;i: m&#7897;t nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u k&eacute;o d&agrave;i h&#417;n 60 n&#259;m t&#7915; d&#7919; li&#7879;u c&#7911;a m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c kh&#7843;o s&aacute;t 1.208 thi&#7871;u ni&ecirc;n 14 tu&#7893;i &#7903; Scotland v&agrave;o nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m 1950 cho th&#7845;y t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch c&#7911;a g&#7847;n nh&#432; t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tham gia nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u &#273;&atilde; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n kh&aacute;c so v&#7899;i d&#7921; ki&#7871;n r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tham gia h&#7885; t&#7921; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&oacute; r&#7845;t &iacute;t ho&#7863;c th&#7853;m ch&iacute; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; s&#7921; tr&ugrave;ng l&#7863;p so v&#7899;i 63 n&#259;m tr&#432;&#7899;c. [6] Con ng&#432;&#7901;i ta lu&ocirc;n t&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7857;ng t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch l&agrave; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i, nh&#432;ng th&#7921;c t&#7871; l&#7841;i ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i r&#7857;ng con ng&#432;&#7901;i trong t&#432;&#417;ng lai s&#7869; kh&aacute;c v&#7899;i hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i n&ecirc;n ta kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; c&#7913; &ldquo;g&#7855;n m&aacute;c&rdquo; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; d&#7853;m ch&acirc;n t&#7841;i ch&#7895; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.&nbsp;&#128204;T&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; qu&aacute; kh&#7913; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh ch&uacute;ng ta: nh&#7919;ng y&#7871;u t&#7889; nh&#432; sang ch&#7845;n t&acirc;m l&yacute;, m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng, ti&#7873;m th&#7913;c c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&ograve;n b&#7849;y khi&#7871;n ta m&#7855;c k&#7865;t trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; v&agrave; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta v&agrave; khi&#7871;n vi&#7879;c thay &#273;&#7893;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n kh&oacute; x&#7843;y ra nh&#432;ng ch&iacute;nh ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh c&oacute; s&#7917; d&#7909;ng ch&uacute;ng &#273;&#7875; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh con ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; ta mu&#7889;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh.&nbsp;&#128204;T&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch ph&#7843;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&aacute;m kh&aacute; ra: vi&#7879;c c&#7889; g&#7855;ng kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch b&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i tr&#7855;c nghi&#7879;m khi&#7871;n ta kh&ocirc;ng h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; xao nh&atilde;ng, b&agrave;o ch&#7919;a cho l&#7889;i s&#7889;ng hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. V&igrave; v&#7853;y &#273;&#7875; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh n&ecirc;n m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u hay &#273;am m&ecirc;, ta ph&#7843;i h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng ta b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch trau d&#7891;i h&#7857;ng ng&agrave;y.&#128204;T&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch l&agrave; con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7853;t s&#7921; v&agrave; &ldquo;x&aacute;c th&#7921;c&rdquo; c&#7911;a ta: ch&acirc;n th&#7853;t kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; ta bi&#7879;n minh cho nh&#7919;ng h&#7841;n ch&#7871; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh m&agrave; l&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i di&#7879;n v&#7899;i s&#7921; th&#7853;t, &ldquo;con ng&#432;&#7901;i x&aacute;c th&#7921;c&rdquo; l&agrave; th&#7913; ta tin t&#432;&#7903;ng nh&#7845;t v&agrave; khao kh&aacute;t nh&#7845;t. [7] Ngu&#7891;n t&agrave;i li&#7879;u tham kh&#7843;o:[1] Cherry.K (2020). What is a personality test?. Truy c&acirc;&#803;p nga&#768;y 21/12/2021: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-personality-testing-2795420#toc-history-of-personality-tests[2] Jennifer V. Fayard (2019). When Personality Test Results Are Wrong, But Feel So Right. Truy c&acirc;&#803;p nga&#768;y 21/12/2021:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/people-are-strange/201909/when-personality-test-results-are-wrong-feel-so-right[3] Jennifer V. Fayard(2019). Why Do We Like Personality Tests, Even the Bad Ones?. Truy c&acirc;&#803;p nga&#768;y 21/12/2021:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/people-are-strange/201909/why-do-we-personality-tests-even-the-bad-ones[4] Cherry.K (2020). Reasons to Learn More About Your Personality Type. Truy c&acirc;&#803;p nga&#768;y 21/12/2021:https://www.verywellmind.com/reasons-to-learn-more-about-your-personality-type-4099388[5] Carl Jung (1921). Psychological Types. Zurich: Rascher Verlag.[6] Mathew A. Harris, Caroline E. Brett, Wendy Johnson and Ian J. Deary (2016). 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