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<p style="text-align:justify;">&#272;&atilde; &#273;&#7871;n l&uacute;c b&#7841;n ng&#432;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; x&#7843;y ra trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. L&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n &#273;&#7891;ng ngh&#297;a v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c b&#7841;n c&#7847;n c&oacute; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh ch&iacute;n ch&#7855;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; t&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n, c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng sai l&#7847;m m&agrave; b&#7841;n g&acirc;y ra.&nbsp;<p style="text-align:justify;">M&#7863;c d&ugrave; &#273;&ocirc;i khi cha m&#7865; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m b&#7841;n th&#7845;t v&#7885;ng nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t l&uacute;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; ph&#7843;i ng&#432;ng vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho h&#7885; v&agrave; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c s&#7889;ng. Gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng l&#7899;n l&ecirc;n trong m&#7897;t gia &#273;&igrave;nh ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o. Kh&ocirc;ng ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c nh&#7919;ng l&#7847;n t&ocirc;i b&#7883; &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; t&#7879; h&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p v&agrave; gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch &#7893;n tho&#7843;. C&oacute; l&#7869; t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n v&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; nh&#432;ng c&oacute; v&#7867; l&agrave; t&ocirc;i n&#7893;i gi&#7853;n v&#7899;i h&#7885; v&igrave; nhi&#7873;u l&iacute; do kh&aacute;c h&#417;n. S&#7921; th&#7853;t l&agrave; vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; ch&#7881; c&oacute; th&#7875; khi&#7871;n m&#7885;i chuy&#7879;n c&agrave;ng &#273;i xa h&#417;n m&agrave; th&ocirc;i.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">N&#7871;u b&#7841;n c&#7913; m&atilde;i &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho nh&#7919;ng ph&#432;&#417;ng ph&aacute;p sai l&#7847;m m&agrave; cha m&#7865; &#273;&atilde; ch&#7885;n &#273;&#7875; nu&ocirc;i d&#7841;y b&#7841;n th&igrave; &#273;&oacute; ch&#432;a th&#7875; g&#7885;i l&agrave; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh. Trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, b&#7841;n &#273;&#7875; cha m&#7865; n&#7855;m gi&#7919; quy&#7873;n l&#7921;c nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i t&#432;&#417;ng lai c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. V&agrave; b&#7841;n th&#7845;y &#273;&oacute;, v&#7899;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i vi&#7879;c x&#7843;y ra trong t&#432;&#417;ng lai, b&#7841;n &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho m&#7897;t vi&#7879;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913;. N&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; s&#7921; tha th&#7913; cho nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c &#273;&atilde; x&#7843;y ra &#7903; qu&aacute; kh&#7913; th&igrave; s&#7869; lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; mong mu&#7889;n tr&#7889;n tr&aacute;nh tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m. V&agrave; &#273;&acirc;y kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; l&agrave; m&#7897;t &yacute; ki&#7871;n hay.</p><h2 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>L&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; ng&#432;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865;?</strong></h2><p style="text-align:justify;">B&#7841;n bi&#7871;t &#273;&#7845;y, ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; k&#7875; ra nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ph&#7847;n cha m&#7865; &#273;&atilde; &ldquo;g&oacute;p s&#7913;c&rdquo; t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n ch&uacute;ng. Ch&uacute;ng ta ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n c&oacute; th&#7875; ng&#7891;i k&#7875; l&#7875; c&#7843; ng&agrave;y. Nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; &ocirc;m m&atilde;i &ldquo;c&#7909;c t&#7913;c&rdquo; n&agrave;y v&agrave; &#273;&#7875; n&oacute; hu&#7927; ho&#7841;i ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. &#272;&#7875; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n nh&#7845;t, ch&uacute;ng ta ph&#7843;i h&#7885;c c&aacute;ch gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i n&agrave;y. Sau &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t v&agrave;i c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;.</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>1. Th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n s&#7921; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">Cha m&#7865; c&oacute; th&#7875; m&#7855;c nhi&#7873;u sai l&#7847;m, v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng may thay, m&#7897;t v&agrave;i b&#7853;c cha m&#7865; c&ograve;n c&#7889; &yacute; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c g&acirc;y t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a con c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; n&agrave;y khi l&#7899;n l&ecirc;n th&#432;&#7901;ng g&#7863;p v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng hay x&#7843;y ra trong tu&#7893;i th&#417; c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, n&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh &#273;ang &#273;&#7845;u tranh v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; b&ecirc;n trong l&ograve;ng b&#7841;n, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;ang t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m ai &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i. V&agrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; t&igrave;m th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute;, cha m&#7865; c&#7911;a b&#7841;n?</p><p style="text-align:justify;">C&oacute; l&#7869; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n ra b&#7841;n &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; nhi&#7873;u nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o, v&agrave; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#361;ng v&#7853;y. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i nh&#7853;n ra v&agrave; th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n n&oacute; &#273;&#7875; gh&eacute;p c&aacute;c m&#7843;nh gh&eacute;p l&#7841;i v&#7899;i nhau &ndash; nh&#7919;ng m&#7843;nh gh&eacute;p k&#7871;t n&#7889;i hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i v&agrave; qu&aacute; kh&#7913;. C&oacute; ph&#7843;i b&#7841;n &#273;ang &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh? &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7841;n c&#7847;n t&igrave;m ra &#273;&#7875; &#273;i ti&#7871;p tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh.</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>2. Th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n m&#7885;i s&#7921; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">Kh&ocirc;ng, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng l&#7847;m &#273;&acirc;u, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Nh&#432;ng l&#7847;n n&agrave;y kh&aacute;c. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng hay x&#7843;y ra th&igrave; b&#7841;n c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho h&#7885; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p h&#7885; &#273;&#7875; l&#7841;i cho b&#7841;n.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Cho n&ecirc;n, thay v&igrave; ngh&#297; xem t&#7889;t hay x&#7845;u, th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n m&#7885;i s&#7921; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i v&agrave; ph&acirc;n lo&#7841;i ch&uacute;ng, b&#7841;n n&ecirc;n qu&ecirc;n n&oacute; &#273;i th&igrave; h&#417;n. V&agrave; t&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; d&#7877; d&agrave;ng nh&#432;ng n&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t v&#7899;i b&#7841;n. Khi b&#7841;n b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y, b&#7841;n s&#7869; hi&#7875;u v&igrave; sao vi&#7879;c ng&#7915;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i v&agrave; b&#432;&#7899;c ti&#7871;p l&#7841;i quan tr&#7885;ng &#273;&#7871;n v&#7853;y. T&ocirc;i m&#7841;o hi&#7875;m n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng t&#7845;t c&#7843; c&aacute;c b&#7853;c cha m&#7865; &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; m&#7863;t t&#7889;t v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t, v&agrave; th&#7853;t t&#7889;t n&#7871;u b&#7841;n ghi nh&#7899; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;.&nbsp;</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>3. &#272;&#7875; qu&aacute; kh&#7913; ng&#7911; y&ecirc;n</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">&#272;i&#7873;u th&#7913; hai b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n l&agrave; &#273;&oacute;ng c&#7917;a qu&aacute; kh&#7913;. T&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n b&#7841;n c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng k&#7881; ni&#7879;m &#273;&#7865;p trong nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m qua. Th&#7921;c t&#7871; l&agrave; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n y&ecirc;u &#273;&atilde; r&#7901;i &#273;i, v&agrave; b&#7841;n th&iacute;ch vi&#7879;c c&oacute; th&#7875; m&#7881;m c&#432;&#7901;i khi ngh&#297; v&#7873; h&#7885;. V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&agrave;, s&#7889;ng qu&aacute; l&acirc;u trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; v&#7899;i s&#7921; cay &#273;&#7855;ng v&agrave; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i s&#7869; khi&#7871;n b&#7841;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh n&ocirc; l&#7879; c&#7911;a qu&aacute; kh&#7913;, n&ocirc; l&#7879; c&#7911;a t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng th&#7911; ph&#7841;m t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n s&#7921; &#273;&#7855;ng cay trong b&#7841;n.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">B&#7841;n s&#7869; b&#7883; m&#7855;c k&#7865;t trong m&#7897;t kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n t&#7891;n t&#7841;i, v&agrave; t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i th&#7913; b&#7841;n l&agrave;m s&#7869; &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c so s&aacute;nh, c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c di&#7877;n ra trong th&#7901;i gian &#273;&oacute;. V&igrave; v&#7853;y, khi b&#7841;n th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u ngh&#297; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;ch cha m&#7865; l&agrave;m b&#7841;n tuy&#7879;t v&#7885;ng, h&atilde;y &#273;&oacute;ng ngay c&aacute;nh c&#7917;a &#273;&oacute; l&#7841;i. B&#7841;n l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n v&agrave; b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#7875; t&#7841;o ra nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p h&#417;n cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>4. Ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n tha th&#7913;</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">B&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; bao gi&#7901; nghe ng&#432;&#7901;i ta n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng: Tha th&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i d&agrave;nh cho ng&#432;&#7901;i l&agrave;m t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng b&#7841;n, m&agrave; d&agrave;nh cho s&#7921; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. N&oacute; l&agrave; nh&#432; th&#7871; &#273;&oacute;, t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; b&#7841;n hi&#7875;u &yacute; c&acirc;u n&agrave;y. T&ocirc;i th&#7845;y n&oacute; r&#7845;t &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7845;y.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">V&igrave; v&#7853;y, thay v&igrave; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; h&#7885; &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; hay trong nh&#7919;ng n&#7895;i &#273;au hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i, h&atilde;y quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh tha th&#7913; cho h&#7885;. B&#7841;n th&#7845;y &#273;&#7845;y, kh&ocirc;ng quan tr&#7885;ng &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&atilde; x&#7843;y ra, s&#7921; tha th&#7913; lu&ocirc;n l&agrave; ch&igrave;a kho&aacute; &#273;&#7875; g&#7841;t b&#7887; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; n&iacute;u gi&#7919; hay c&#7843;n tr&#7903; b&#7841;n. H&atilde;y th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; cha m&#7865; &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m, nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho h&#7885; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n n&#7919;a. S&#7921; th&#7853;t ph&#361; ph&agrave;ng n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; &iacute;ch cho b&#7841;n &#273;&#7845;y.</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>5. Ph&aacute; b&#7887; l&#7901;i nguy&#7873;n</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">Nh&#7919;ng gia &#273;&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng &ecirc;m &#7845;m th&#432;&#7901;ng b&#7883; v&#432;&#7899;ng v&agrave;o c&aacute;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&#7885;i l&agrave; &ldquo;l&#7901;i nguy&#7873;n th&#7871; h&#7879;&rdquo;. T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng n&oacute;i theo ngh&#297;a &#273;en v&#7873; m&#7897;t gia &#273;&igrave;nh b&#7883; nguy&#7873;n b&#7903;i m&#7897;t nh&acirc;n v&#7853;t &#273;&#7897;c &aacute;c. &#272;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; d&agrave;nh cho nh&#7919;ng b&#7897; phim th&ocirc;i. Nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i nguy&#7873;n th&#7871; h&#7879; &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7863;c &#273;i&#7875;m ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c &iacute;t hay nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c truy&#7873;n t&#7915; th&#7871; h&#7879; n&agrave;y sang th&#7871; h&#7879; k&#7871; ti&#7871;p.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">N&#7871;u cha m&#7865; b&#7841;n l&agrave;m b&#7841;n t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng, b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng l&#7863;p l&#7841;i nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; v&#7899;i con b&#7841;n. &#272;&#7875; ng&#7915;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865;, b&#7841;n ch&#7881; c&#7847;n d&#7915;ng vi&#7879;c l&#7841;m d&#7909;ng, b&#7887; b&ecirc; ho&#7863;c b&#7845;t c&#7913; sai l&#7847;m b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i h&#7913;ng ch&#7883;u trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; ngay tr&ecirc;n ng&#432;&#7905;ng c&#7917;a c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. &#272;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7875; n&oacute; &#273;i xa h&#417;n n&#7919;a. M&agrave; thay v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, t&#7841;o ra m&#7897;t t&#432;&#417;ng lai t&#432;&#417;i s&aacute;ng h&#417;n cho th&#7871; h&#7879; sau c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, h&atilde;y t&#7853;p trung v&agrave;o &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;.</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>6. T&#7853;p trung ch&#7919;a l&agrave;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n&nbsp;</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">Th&#7853;t d&#7877; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho ai &#273;&oacute; khi b&#7841;n bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng h&#7885; th&#7853;t s&#7921; l&agrave;m t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng b&#7841;n. Nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u c&#7913; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c t&#7853;p trung &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i thay v&igrave; t&igrave;m ra gi&#7843;i ph&aacute;p s&#7869; khi&#7871;n b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7919;a l&agrave;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#7875; s&#7889;ng t&#7889;t h&#417;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i d&agrave;nh cho con b&#7841;n hay t&#432;&#417;ng lai c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng m&agrave; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; d&agrave;nh cho b&#7841;n.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">&#272;&#7875; ch&#7845;m d&#7913;t nh&#7919;ng n&#259;ng l&#432;&#7907;ng ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c m&agrave; cha m&#7865; &aacute;p &#273;&#7863;t l&ecirc;n b&#7841;n, h&atilde;y t&#7853;p trung v&agrave;o vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; t&#7889;t v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; tr&acirc;n tr&#7885;ng m&#7885;i ph&#7849;m ch&#7845;t t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u h&#7885; l&agrave;m v&#7899;i b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; c&oacute; th&#7875; hu&#7927; ho&#7841;i cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. B&#7841;n l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;i&#7873;u khi&#7875;n chuy&#7871;n bay n&agrave;y m&agrave;.</p><h2 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>Ng&#432;ng &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho cha m&#7865; v&agrave; C&#7855;t b&#7887; s&#7907;i d&acirc;y &#273;&#7897;c h&#7841;i t&#7915; qu&aacute; kh&#7913;&nbsp;</strong></h2><p style="text-align:justify;">T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng n&oacute;i b&#7841;n nh&#7845;t thi&#7871;t ph&#7843;i c&#7855;t &#273;&#7913;t quan h&#7879; v&#7899;i cha m&#7865;. &#272;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng l&agrave; h&atilde;y ch&#7845;m d&#7913;t m&#7885;i &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7875; l&#7841;i trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. B&#7845;t c&#7913; &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang c&#7889; n&iacute;u gi&#7919; t&#7915; qu&aacute; kh&#7913; &#273;&#7873;u ph&#7843;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#361; b&#7887;. L&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n, b&#7841;n c&oacute; quy&#7873;n quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i cha m&#7865; b&#7841;n.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Th&#7853;t t&#7889;t n&#7871;u c&oacute; th&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng, k&iacute;nh tr&#7885;ng cha m&#7865; v&agrave; d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian b&ecirc;n h&#7885;, nh&#432;ng s&#7869; l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#7893;n ch&uacute;t n&agrave;o n&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&#7841;i b&#7883; m&#7855;c k&#7865;t trong nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&atilde; qua. C&#417; b&#7843;n l&agrave; b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i h&#7885;c c&aacute;ch t&aacute;ch b&#7841;ch nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y v&agrave; t&#7915; t&#7915; xem x&eacute;t nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&oacute; khi ch&uacute;ng ta tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh h&#417;n. 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