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WORKSHOP XU HƯỚNG VĂN HOÁ ĐỌC TRONG THỜI ĐẠI 4.0

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<html><body>Trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng hay kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u v&agrave;o s&#7921; t&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a cha m&#7865; trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913;. H&oacute;a ra, kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ch&#7881; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; cha m&#7865; m&#7899;i l&agrave; thi&#7871;u v&#7855;ng t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ngay c&#7843; khi &#7903; b&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh cha m&#7865;, nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u cha m&#7865; &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; v&#7899;i con c&aacute;i sai c&aacute;ch c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; khi&#7871;n cho h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; thi&#7871;u th&#7889;n t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng. B&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y ch&#7881; ra m&#7897;t g&oacute;c nh&igrave;n t&acirc;m l&yacute; l&yacute; gi&#7843;i vi&#7879;c m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh &#273;&#7847;y t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c, vui v&#7867; v&agrave; nhi&#7879;t t&igrave;nh. Ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng sai l&#7847;m trong c&aacute;ch gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c con c&#7911;a cha m&#7865; khi&#7871;n h&#7885; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; v&#7853;y. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, h&atilde;y cho ph&eacute;p m&igrave;nh quay tr&#7903; v&#7873; qu&aacute; kh&#7913; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i chi&#7871;u v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t b&#7853;c ph&#7909; huynh, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; g&oacute;c nh&igrave;n quan tr&#7885;ng cho b&#7841;n trong c&aacute;ch gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c con. M&#7897;t trong nh&#7919;ng nhu c&#7847;u c&#7843;m x&uacute;c m&#7841;nh m&#7869; c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i, trong &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; con tr&#7867; l&agrave; mong mu&#7889;n tha thi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n nh&#432; ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7889;n th&#7871; ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng bu&#7897;c ph&#7843;i c&#7889; l&agrave;m th&#7871;. S&acirc;u th&#7859;m t&#7853;n &#273;&aacute;y l&ograve;ng, t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, gi&agrave; c&#361;ng nh&#432; tr&#7867;, &#273;&#7873;u khao kh&aacute;t nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; s&#7921; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh ta, m&agrave; tr&#432;&#7899;c h&#7871;t l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh. Ch&iacute;nh nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y l&agrave;m cho con ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta khi l&#7899;n l&ecirc;n, tr&#7843;i qua giai &#273;o&#7841;n c&ograve;n nh&#7887; c&oacute; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c tham gia v&agrave;o c&aacute;c nh&oacute;m b&#7841;n b&egrave;, tu&acirc;n theo c&aacute;c quy t&#7855;c x&atilde; h&#7897;i, ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n t&igrave;nh b&#7841;n, quan h&#7879; v&#7899;i b&#7841;n kh&aacute;c gi&#7899;i v&agrave; b&#7855;t ch&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7919;ng khu&ocirc;n m&#7851;u h&agrave;nh x&#7917; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. C&aacute;i g&igrave; t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n m&#7897;t &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c, vui v&#7867; v&agrave; nhi&#7879;t t&igrave;nh? &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; &ldquo;b&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng&rdquo; tr&agrave;n &#273;&#7847;y. Nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c n&#7893;i ti&#7871;ng, Ti&#7871;n s&#297; Gary Chapman, trong quy&#7875;n s&aacute;ch c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh c&oacute; t&#7921;a &#273;&#7873; &ldquo;N&#259;m Ng&ocirc;n Ng&#7919; Y&ecirc;u Th&#432;&#417;ng&rdquo; (The Five Love Languages), &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; m&#7897;t &ldquo;c&aacute;i b&#7875; ch&#7913;a &#273;&#7921;ng nh&#7919;ng y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng&rdquo;. Khi &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#7911; trong kh&ocirc;ng kh&iacute; d&#7841;t d&agrave;o t&igrave;nh th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; lu&ocirc;n nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7921; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh, b&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng c&#7911;a n&oacute; s&#7869; lu&ocirc;n &#272;&#7846;Y &#258;M &#7854;P. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; v&#7899;i b&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng &#272;&#7846;Y &#7854;P n&agrave;y lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; tin v&agrave;o b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh. Ch&iacute;nh &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y s&#7869; gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n vui v&#7867;, t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c v&agrave; h&#259;ng h&aacute;i. B&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng kh&ocirc; c&#7841;n s&#7869; d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; v&#7873; h&agrave;nh vi! Khi m&#7897;t &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; ph&#7843;i li&ecirc;n t&#7909;c nh&#7853;n nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i ph&#7843;n &#273;&#7889;i, la r&#7847;y hay ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch, b&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng trong ch&uacute;ng s&#7869; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n kh&ocirc; c&#7841;n. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; k&eacute;m may m&#7855;n n&agrave;y d&#7847;n d&#7847;n c&oacute; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; b&#7845;t m&atilde;n, ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c v&agrave; d&#7917;ng d&#432;ng v&#7899;i n&#7895;i &#273;au c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. Th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; n&agrave;y s&#7869; d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&#7911; lo&#7841;i h&agrave;nh vi c&oacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; nh&#432; k&#7871;t b&#259;ng &#273;&#7843;ng v&#7899;i l&#361; b&#7841;n x&#7845;u (&#273;&#7875; c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c m&igrave;nh quan tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7855;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c), ch&#417;i b&#7901;i l&ecirc;u l&#7893;ng (&#273;&#7875; kh&#7887;a l&#7845;p c&aacute;i b&#7875; kh&ocirc; c&#7841;n trong l&ograve;ng) ho&#7863;c b&agrave;ng quan v&#7899;i h&#7847;u h&#7871;t m&#7885;i s&#7921; trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng h&agrave;ng ng&agrave;y, &ldquo;Sao t&ocirc;i ph&#7843;i quan t&acirc;m? D&ugrave; sao th&igrave; c&#361;ng &#273;&acirc;u c&oacute; ai th&egrave;m bi&#7871;t &#273;&#7871;n t&ocirc;i c&#417; ch&#7913;?&rdquo;. B&aacute;o &#273;&#7897;ng c&#7845;p 1: B&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng c&#7911;a b&#7845;t k&#7923; &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; n&agrave;o c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7841;n ki&#7879;t l&uacute;c n&agrave;o kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t! Trong &#273;&#7901;i m&igrave;nh h&#7847;u nh&#432; t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng trao &#273;&#7893;i v&#7899;i b&#7853;c cha m&#7865; n&agrave;o m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng con c&aacute;i, ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; &iacute;t h&#417;n hay nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n th&ocirc;i. O&aacute;i &#259;m thay, d&ugrave; ph&#7909; huynh cho con c&#7843; &#273;&#7841;i d&#432;&#417;ng t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m, v&#7853;y m&agrave; c&aacute;i b&#7875; nho nh&#7887; trong l&ograve;ng con c&aacute;i v&#7851;n c&oacute; th&#7875; trong t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng kh&ocirc; ki&#7879;t! V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&agrave; &#7903; ch&#7895; m&#7863;c d&ugrave; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng con c&aacute;i, cho con nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; m&igrave;nh ngh&#297; l&agrave; t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t, nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t c&aacute;ch b&agrave;y t&#7887; s&#7921; quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7875; con m&igrave;nh c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh th&#432;&#417;ng s&acirc;u &#273;&#7853;m &#273;&oacute;. S&#7921; th&#7853;t th&igrave; c&aacute;ch cha m&#7865; v&agrave; con c&aacute;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&#7873; th&#7871; gi&#7899;i r&#7845;t kh&aacute;c nhau. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; cha m&#7865; cho con xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u, nh&#432;ng d&#432;&#7899;i &aacute;nh m&#7855;t c&#7911;a con c&aacute;i c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n l&agrave; nh&#432; th&#7871;. Th&#7921;c t&#7871; cho th&#7845;y, trong &#273;a s&#7889; c&aacute;c tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c tr&aacute;i chi&#7873;u. Khi cha m&#7865; v&igrave; s&#7889;t ru&#7897;t tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7897;t bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n sai tr&aacute;i c&#7911;a con m&agrave; la m&#7855;ng ch&uacute;ng th&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ch&#7881; th&#7845;y m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u: s&#7921; th&#7845;t v&#7885;ng v&agrave; gi&#7853;n d&#7919; c&#7911;a cha m&#7865;, v&agrave; suy lu&#7853;n r&#7857;ng cha m&#7865; kh&ocirc;ng y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng ch&uacute;ng, gh&eacute;t b&#7887; ch&uacute;ng. Th&#7853;m ch&iacute; k&#7875; c&#7843; khi cha m&#7865; l&ecirc;n ti&#7871;ng n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng con, ch&#432;a ch&#7855;c con c&aacute;i &#273;&atilde; tin t&#432;&#7903;ng. Ch&uacute;ng ch&#7881; tin v&agrave;o c&aacute;i m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng th&#7845;y l&agrave; &aacute;nh m&#7855;t gi&#7853;n d&#7919; v&agrave; v&#7867; th&#7845;t v&#7885;ng tr&ecirc;n khu&ocirc;n m&#7863;t cha m&#7865;. Ti&#7871;c thay, s&#7921; th&#7845;t b&#7841;i trong vi&#7879;c b&agrave;y t&#7887; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#7911;a b&ecirc;n cho v&agrave; vi&#7879;c gi&#7843;i m&atilde; k&yacute; hi&#7879;u c&#7911;a b&ecirc;n nh&#7853;n th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; m&#7845;u ch&#7889;t trong h&#7847;u h&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&#7843;y sinh trong quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a cha m&#7865; v&agrave; con c&aacute;i. V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n: - Vi&#7879;c cha m&#7865; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng con c&aacute;i. - Vi&#7879;c con c&aacute;i c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng &#7845;y. 3 &#272;I&#7872;U L&Agrave;M C&#7840;N KI&#7878;T B&#7874; Y&Ecirc;U TH&#431;&#416;NG C&#7910;A M&#7896;T &#272;&#7912;A 1. Con c&aacute;i b&#7883; so s&aacute;nh v&#7899;i anh/ch&#7883;/em ho&#7863;c &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; kh&aacute;c. - &ldquo;Anh con h&#7885;c gi&#7887;i th&#7871; m&agrave; con&hellip;&rdquo; - &ldquo;Sao con kh&ocirc;ng gi&#7919; ph&ograve;ng &#7889;c g&#7885;n g&agrave;ng nh&#432; ch&#7883; con?&rdquo;. - &ldquo;B&#7841;n Tom v&#7915;a &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7853;n gi&#7845;y khen, c&ograve;n con th&igrave; sao?&rdquo; Nghe nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i n&agrave;y, m&#7897;t &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; s&#7869; c&oacute; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng, &ldquo;&Agrave; th&igrave; ra m&#7865; th&#432;&#417;ng ch&#7883; h&#417;n m&igrave;nh nhi&#7873;u. M&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; &#273;&#7913;a con ngoan m&agrave; cha m&#7865; mong mu&#7889;n. Ch&#7855;c h&#7885; ch&#7881; &#432;&#7899;c m&igrave;nh l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. H&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh&rdquo;. 2. Ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch v&agrave; &ldquo;v&#7841;ch l&aacute; t&igrave;m s&acirc;u&rdquo;. Nhi&#7873;u cha m&#7865; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i h&agrave;nh vi c&#7911;a con b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch li&ecirc;n t&#7909;c ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch h&agrave;nh vi c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ho&#7863;c b&#7899;i m&oacute;c l&#7895;i l&#7847;m c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng. &ldquo;Con b&#7883; c&aacute;i g&igrave; v&#7853;y?&rdquo; &ldquo;Sao con kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; l&agrave;m t&#7889;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c vi&#7879;c g&igrave; c&#7843;?&rdquo; &ldquo;Sao con l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng qu&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c qu&ecirc;n sau?&rdquo; V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a con l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u nghe l&#7901;i ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n!&rdquo; Con ch&#7859;ng ch&#7883;u gi&uacute;p m&#7865; vi&#7879;c nh&agrave; g&igrave; c&#7843;. Sao con l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng th&#7871;?&rdquo; 3. &#272;&aacute;nh &#273;&ograve;n v&agrave; m&#7855;ng ch&#7917;i Kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i n&oacute;i b&#7841;n c&#361;ng bi&#7871;t, &#273;&aacute;nh &#273;&#7853;p (th&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7859;ng ch&acirc;n h&#7841; c&#7859;ng tay ho&#7863;c d&ugrave;ng &#273;&ograve;n roi) c&#361;ng nh&#432; ch&#7917;i m&#7855;ng v&agrave; d&aacute;n cho con c&aacute;i nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i nh&atilde;n t&#7879; nh&#432; &ldquo;&#273;&#7891; v&ocirc; d&#7909;ng&rdquo;, &ldquo;&#273;&#7891; ngu nh&#432; con heo&rdquo;, &ldquo;&#273;&#7891; h&#432; h&#7887;ng&rdquo;&hellip; l&agrave; bi&#7879;n ph&aacute;p r&uacute;t ki&#7879;t b&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng c&#7911;a con c&aacute;i m&#7841;nh nh&#7845;t, v&iacute; nh&#432; c&aacute;i m&aacute;y b&#417;m m&#7897;t tr&#259;m m&atilde; l&#7921;c. B&aacute;o &#273;&#7897;ng c&#7845;p 2: Khi m&#7897;t &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c cha m&#7865; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n, ch&uacute;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;i t&igrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; &#7903; n&#417;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t cho ch&uacute;ng. &#272;i&#7873;u nguy hi&#7875;m nh&#7845;t l&agrave; khi m&#7897;t &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y ch&uacute;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n v&agrave; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh m&igrave;nh, ch&uacute;ng s&#7869; c&oacute; khuynh h&#432;&#7899;ng t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; &#7903; nh&#7919;ng n&#417;i kh&aacute;c, ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o l&agrave; t&#7889;t cho ch&uacute;ng. Nhu c&#7847;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n l&agrave; nhu c&#7847;u &#273;&#7913;ng th&#7913; ba trong thang b&#7853;c nhu c&#7847;u c&#417; b&#7843;n c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c Maslow l&#7853;p ra. N&oacute; ch&#7881; &#273;&#7913;ng sau nhu c&#7847;u v&#7853;t cahats v&#7873; c&aacute;i &#259;n m&#7863;c v&agrave; nhu c&#7847;u v&#7873; s&#7921; an to&agrave;n. V&igrave; th&#7871;, m&#7897;t khi kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7887;a m&atilde;n c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n, tr&#7867; s&#7869; c&oacute; khuynh h&#432;&#7899;ng &#273;i t&igrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; &#7903; b&#7845;t c&#7913; &#273;&acirc;u, k&#7875; c&#7843; khi vi&#7879;c &#273;&oacute; g&acirc;y h&#7841;i cho ch&uacute;ng. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y l&agrave; nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n l&yacute; gi&#7843;i cho vi&#7879;c t&#7841;i sao c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; b&#7883; r&#7911; r&ecirc; tham gia v&agrave;o nh&#7919;ng b&#259;ng nh&oacute;m x&#7845;u, tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh n&#7841;n nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng t&#7879; n&#7841;n x&atilde; h&#7897;i nh&#432; ma t&uacute;y, quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c trong tu&#7893;i v&#7883; th&agrave;nh ni&ecirc;n, v&agrave; b&#7883; l&ocirc;i k&eacute;o v&agrave;o nh&#7919;ng con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng l&#7847;m l&#7841;c, tha h&oacute;a. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y, m&#7897;t khi &#273;&atilde; hi&#7875;u ra t&#7847;m quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a nhu c&#7847;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n, ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh s&#7869; c&oacute; g&oacute;c nh&igrave;n kh&aacute;c v&agrave; &yacute; th&#7913;c v&#7873; vi&#7879;c thay &#273;&#7893;i t&#432; duy trong c&aacute;ch t&#432;&#417;ng t&aacute;c v&#7899;i m&#7895;i &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; khi c&ograve;n nh&#7887;. B&#7903;i l&#7869;, s&#7921; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh c&#7911;a m&#7895;i &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; trong t&#432;&#417;ng lai &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u b&#7903;i s&#7921; gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c v&agrave; nu&ocirc;i d&#7841;y c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng b&#7853;c ph&#7909; huynh trong hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i. Ngu&#7891;n: Rosie. 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