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<p style="text-align:justify;">Thay &#273;&#7893;i ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; l&agrave; vi&#7879;c d&#7877; d&agrave;ng &ndash; thay &#273;&#7893;i c&#7843; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n l&#7841;i c&agrave;ng kh&oacute; kh&#259;n h&#417;n.<p style="text-align:justify;">B&#7841;n c&oacute; nh&#7899; m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y cu&#7889;i n&#259;m, b&#7841;n chu&#7849;n b&#7883; d&#7885;n d&#7865;p c&#259;n nh&agrave; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh: khi b&#7841;n ch&#7885;n l&#7885;c v&agrave; b&#7887; &#273;i nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n &#273;&#7891; &#273;&atilde; c&#361;, kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n gi&aacute; tr&#7883;, t&#7913;c l&agrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh thay &#273;&#7893;i. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7907;i &#273;&#7871;n khi ph&#7843;i r&#417;i xu&#7889;ng &#273;&aacute;y v&#7921;c tr&igrave; tr&#7879; m&#7899;i ch&#7883;u b&#7855;t tay v&agrave;o &ldquo;t&#7893;ng v&#7879; sinh&rdquo; cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. H&atilde;y b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u ngay b&acirc;y gi&#7901; &ndash; d&agrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng gian v&agrave; th&#7901;i gian cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&igrave;nh cho nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; mu&#7889;n, thay v&igrave; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; v&#7909;n v&#7863;t, nh&#7919;ng x&uacute;c c&#7843;m t&#7891;i t&#7879; hay s&#7921; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; lu&ocirc;n ph&#7843;i s&#7889;ng c&ugrave;ng su&#7889;t b&#7845;y l&acirc;u nay.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">D&ugrave; s&#7899;m hay mu&#7897;n, b&#7841;n c&#361;ng n&ecirc;n t&#7915; b&#7887; 12 &#273;i&#7873;u sau &#273;&acirc;y, &#273;&#7875; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; tr&#7885;n v&#7865;n:</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>1. C&aacute;i t&ocirc;i</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">Kh&ocirc;ng ai quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n chuy&#7879;n b&#7841;n c&oacute; m&#7845;y m&uacute;i hay b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; ki&#7871;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c bao nhi&ecirc;u ti&#7873;n tr&ecirc;n website c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh ng&agrave;y h&ocirc;m qua &#273;&acirc;u.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">H&atilde;y b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u cu&#7897;c tr&ograve; chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7857;ng s&#7921; khi&ecirc;m t&#7889;n thay v&igrave; c&#7913; m&atilde;i c&#7889; g&#7855;ng th&#7875; hi&#7879;n cho t&#7845;t c&#7843; th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o &#7903; m&#7885;i m&#7863;t. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; c&aacute;i t&ocirc;i qu&aacute; l&#7899;n th&#432;&#7901;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7845;p d&#7851;n cho l&#7855;m.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>2. T&#7911; qu&#7847;n &aacute;o Harry-Potter c&#7911;a b&#7841;n</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">Xin l&#7895;i, Harry, m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7873;u y&ecirc;u qu&yacute; c&#7853;u, nh&#432;ng c&aacute;i t&#7911; qu&#7847;n &aacute;o c&#7911;a c&#7853;u th&#7853;t s&#7921; r&#7845;t t&#7879;. T&ocirc;i bi&#7871;t m&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7863;c r&#7845;t l&ocirc;i th&ocirc;i, v&agrave; r&#7891;i c&#7913; t&#7921; h&#7887;i v&igrave; sao m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng kh&ocirc;ng coi tr&#7885;ng &yacute; ki&#7871;n c&#7911;a h&#7885;. Lo&agrave;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7889;n v&#7851;n ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7897;t b&#7847;y &#273;&agrave;n th&iacute;ch &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; m&agrave; th&ocirc;i, v&#7853;y n&ecirc;n nh&#7899; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o l&agrave; b&#7841;n s&#7869; thay &#273;&#7893;i ngay c&aacute;i t&#7911; qu&#7847;n &aacute;o ngh&egrave;o n&agrave;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh &#273;i nh&eacute;.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">C&aacute;ch &#259;n m&#7863;c c&#7911;a b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; quan tr&#7885;ng, v&agrave; b&#7841;n n&ecirc;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7921; tin v&#7899;i v&#7867; ngo&agrave;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. H&atilde;y &ldquo;di&#7879;n&rdquo; nh&#432; th&#7875; b&#7841;n &#273;&aacute;ng gi&aacute; c&#7843; tri&#7879;u &#273;&ocirc;, k&#7875; c&#7843; khi kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i v&#7853;y.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>3. Tr&aacute;i tim &#273;&oacute;ng k&iacute;n c&#7911;a b&#7841;n</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">N&#7871;u b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u &ndash; m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng &ndash; h&atilde;y m&#7903; l&ograve;ng m&igrave;nh ra. Tin t&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7857;ng c&oacute; m&#7897;t ai &#273;&oacute; ngo&agrave;i kia d&agrave;nh cho b&#7841;n, m&#7897;t ai &#273;&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; mong mu&#7889;n &#273;em &#273;&#7871;n cho b&#7841;n h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c. H&atilde;y gi&#7919; ni&#7873;m tin &#7845;y cho m&igrave;nh v&agrave; &#273;&#7915;ng qu&ecirc;n m&#7881;m c&#432;&#7901;i tr&ecirc;n h&agrave;nh tr&igrave;nh t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u c&#7911;a &#273;&#7901;i b&#7841;n.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">N&#7871;u b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng r&#7897;ng m&#7903; c&aacute;nh c&#7917;a, b&#7841;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; t&igrave;m th&#7845;y n&oacute;. Ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u mu&#7889;n &#273;i t&igrave;m m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t d&agrave;nh ri&ecirc;ng cho m&igrave;nh, nh&#432;ng &#273;&ocirc;i khi th&#7853;t kh&oacute; &#273;&#7875; tin v&agrave;o s&#7921; t&#7891;n t&#7841;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i &#7845;y. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng t&#7915;ng th&#7845;t b&#7841;i v&#7899;i n&#7895; l&#7921;c &#273;&oacute; r&#7891;i &ndash; c&ocirc;ng cu&#7897;c t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m n&agrave;y th&#7921;c s&#7921; r&#7845;t kh&oacute; kh&#259;n v&agrave; &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ch th&#7913;c, ngay c&#7843; trong nh&#7919;ng kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p nh&#7845;t.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">L&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ni&#7873;m tin khi m&#7897;t th&#7913; g&igrave; &#273;&oacute; c&#7913; m&atilde;i kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; t&aacute;c d&#7909;ng? T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7851;n &#273;ang ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c ho&agrave;n thi&#7879;n m&igrave;nh v&agrave; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng cho &#273;i nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n.</p><p style="text-align:justify;"><i>&ldquo;M&#7903; r&#7897;ng tr&aacute;i tim c&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; c&#7889;ng hi&#7871;n nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n b&#7845;t c&#7913; th&#7913; g&igrave; b&#7841;n t&#7915;ng cho &#273;i tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&oacute;&rdquo;</i></p><p style="text-align:justify;">M&#7903; r&#7897;ng tr&aacute;i tim c&oacute; ngh&#297;a b&#7841;n ch&#7859;ng c&#7847;n &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i g&igrave; trong khi v&#7851;n c&#7889; g&#7855;ng t&igrave;m m&#7885;i c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7875; cho &#273;i nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute;. M&#7903; r&#7897;ng tr&aacute;i tim ngh&#297;a l&agrave; chu&#7849;n b&#7883; cho t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i th&#7913; c&oacute; th&#7875; x&#7843;y ra tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7901;i: ph&aacute; s&#7843;n, thay &#273;&#7893;i n&#417;i &#7903;, b&aacute;n xe, b&aacute;n nh&agrave;, t&#7915; b&#7887; m&#7897;t v&agrave;i ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n, thay &#273;&#7893;i ch&#7871; &#273;&#7897; &#259;n, gi&#7843;m c&acirc;n, th&#7917; m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&oacute; m&#7899;i, v&agrave; th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u h&#7913;ng th&uacute; v&#7899;i m&#7897;t l&#297;nh v&#7921;c b&#7841;n t&#7915;ng r&#7845;t gh&eacute;t.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng tin m&igrave;nh &#273;ang s&#7889;ng v&#7899;i m&#7897;t tr&aacute;i tim r&#7897;ng m&#7903;, nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng. Ta mang nh&#7919;ng k&igrave; v&#7885;ng xa v&#7901;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i m&igrave;nh &#273;ang y&ecirc;u, v&agrave; r&#7891;i l&#7841;i t&#7921; h&#7887;i sao h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u ta mong &#273;&#7907;i? Nh&#7919;ng k&igrave; v&#7885;ng v&agrave; quy &#273;&#7883;nh c&#7913;ng nh&#7855;c ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ng&#7855;n nh&#7845;t d&#7851;n t&#7899;i tr&aacute;i tim tan v&#7905;.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Li&#7879;u c&oacute; ai trong s&#7889; ch&uacute;ng ta l&#7841;i mu&#7889;n &#7903; c&#7841;nh m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i gi&#7889;ng h&#7879;t m&igrave;nh c&#417; ch&#7913;? T&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7891;ng ngh&#297;a v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c t&igrave;m th&#7845;y v&agrave; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i r&#7845;t kh&aacute;c b&#7841;n. V&agrave; m&#7903; r&#7897;ng tr&aacute;i tim c&#361;ng ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n y&ecirc;u, ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n m&#7885;i &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&#7865;p &#273;&#7869; l&#7851;n m&#7885;i khi&#7871;m khuy&#7871;t c&#7911;a h&#7885;. M&#7903; r&#7897;ng tr&aacute;i tim ngh&#297;a l&agrave; quay l&#7841;i l&agrave;m quen v&#7899;i s&#7921; kh&ocirc;ng-ho&agrave;n-h&#7843;o.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Kh&ocirc;ng-ho&agrave;n-h&#7843;o m&#7899;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; v&#7867; &#273;&#7865;p th&#7921;c s&#7921; c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng, v&agrave; v&#7853;y &#273;&#7845;y &ndash; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7875; b&#7841;n m&#7903; r&#7897;ng tr&aacute;i tim m&igrave;nh m&#7897;t l&#7847;n n&#7919;a.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>4. Nh&#7919;ng k&#7867; th&iacute;ch l&agrave;m t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">L&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7891;i t&#7879; &#273;&#7875; khi&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; th&oacute;i quen x&#7845;u x&iacute; nh&#7845;t tr&ecirc;n th&#7871; gi&#7899;i. N&#7871;u c&oacute; quen ai nh&#432; th&#7871;, t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t b&#7841;n n&ecirc;n tr&aacute;nh xa h&#7885; ngay l&#7853;p t&#7913;c. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y ch&#7881; &#273;ang ng&#259;n c&#7843;n b&#7841;n c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, v&agrave; vi&#7879;c c&#7913; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c qua l&#7841;i v&#7899;i h&#7885; c&#361;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang t&#7915; ch&#7889;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng con ng&#432;&#7901;i tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&aacute;ng ra &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; th&#7875; &#7903; trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>5. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7881; lu&ocirc;n mang &#273;&#7871;n tin t&#7913;c x&#7845;u</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">Ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u s&#7869; c&oacute; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n nh&#432; th&#7871;. &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; c&ocirc; b&#7841;n hay c&#7853;u b&#7841;n s&#7869; &#7847;m &#297; l&ecirc;n v&#7899;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7885; bi&#7871;t khi c&oacute; m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c t&#7845;n c&ocirc;ng kh&#7911;ng b&#7889;. &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7869; lu&ocirc;n n&oacute;i v&#7899;i b&#7841;n r&#7857;ng &#273;i ra kh&#7887;i nh&agrave; v&agrave;o bu&#7893;i t&#7889;i kh&ocirc;ng an to&agrave;n &#273;&acirc;u. N&#7895;i s&#7907; l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng c&#7909; &#273;&#7847;y quy&#7873;n n&#259;ng, v&agrave; h&#7885; ch&#7881; &#273;ang s&#7917; d&#7909;ng n&oacute; &#273;&#7875; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng l&#7845;p &#273;&#7847;y nh&#7919;ng kho&#7843;ng tr&#7889;ng trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a h&#7885;. H&atilde;y t&igrave;m cho m&igrave;nh nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n lu&ocirc;n &#273;em &#273;&#7871;n s&#7921; l&#7841;c quan v&agrave; th&#7853;t s&#7921; gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n ho&agrave;n thi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>6. S&#7921; c&#7847;u to&agrave;n</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">T&ocirc;i quen m&#7897;t sinh vi&ecirc;n m&#7899;i t&#7889;t nghi&#7879;p. C&ocirc; &#7845;y lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7913;ng &#273;&#7847;u l&#7899;p h&#7885;c c&#361;ng nh&#432; r&#7845;t xu&#7845;t s&#7855;c trong c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c th&#432;&#7901;ng ng&agrave;y c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Yay, m&#7897;t ng&ocirc;i sao v&agrave;ng cho s&#7921; tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i &#273;&oacute;!</p><p style="text-align:justify;">V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&#7857;m &#7903; ch&#7895;, s&#7869; lu&ocirc;n lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m c&ocirc; b&#7841;n nh&#7853;n ra m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; l&agrave; s&#7889; m&#7897;t trong m&#7885;i l&#297;nh v&#7921;c. Nh&#7919;ng kho&#7843;nh kh&#7855;c n&agrave;y nghi&#7873;n n&aacute;t s&#7921; t&#7921; tin c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y, v&agrave; ch&uacute;ng khi&#7871;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n nh&#7919;ng feedback v&#7873; &#273;i&#7875;m y&#7871;u c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">B&#7841;n s&#7869; ch&#7859;ng th&#7875; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o m&igrave;nh s&#7869; ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o 100% m&#7885;i l&uacute;c m&#7885;i n&#417;i, v&#7853;y n&ecirc;n &#273;&#7915;ng c&#7889; l&agrave;m th&#7871; l&agrave;m g&igrave;. &ldquo;Mi&#7877;n l&agrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;&uacute;ng kho&#7843;ng 50% th&#7901;i gian, m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7869; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n nh&#7919;ng th&#7845;t b&#7841;i c&#7911;a b&#7841;n th&ocirc;i&rdquo;.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>7. S&#7921; ch&#7847;n ch&#7915;, kh&ocirc;ng d&aacute;m h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i v&#7873; vi&#7879;c chu&#7849;n b&#7883; b&agrave;i di&#7877;n v&#259;n Toastmasters &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh trong s&aacute;u th&aacute;ng. R&#7891;i t&ocirc;i th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n n&oacute; v&agrave; th&#7845;t b&#7841;i th&#7843;m h&#7841;i.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Sao t&ocirc;i l&#7841;i ch&#7901; &#273;&#7907;i l&acirc;u &#273;&#7871;n th&#7871;? T&ocirc;i s&#7907;. Khi t&ocirc;i th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n b&agrave;i di&#7877;n thuy&#7871;t ti&#7871;p theo c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; c&#7913; th&#7871; n&oacute;i, b&#7845;t ch&#7845;p n&#7895;i s&#7907;, k&#7871;t qu&#7843; &#273;&atilde; kh&aacute; h&#417;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">S&#7869; ch&#7859;ng bao gi&#7901; l&agrave; &ldquo;th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m th&iacute;ch h&#7907;p&rdquo; &#273;&#7875; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng, d&ugrave; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n c&oacute; l&agrave; g&igrave;. Khi b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; b&#7887; c&ocirc;ng s&#7913;c &#273;&#7875; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t tr&#432;&#7899;c k&#7871;t c&#7909;c, k&#7871;t qu&#7843; c&#7911;a b&#7841;n s&#7869; t&#7889;t h&#417;n g&#7845;p ba g&#7845;p b&#7889;n l&#7847;n.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>8. Chi&#7871;c g&#432;&#417;ng chi&#7871;u h&#7853;u c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i b&#7841;n</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">N&#7871;u mu&#7889;n ti&#7871;n v&#7873; ph&iacute;a tr&#432;&#7899;c, b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; c&#7913; m&atilde;i ngo&aacute;i l&#7841;i ph&iacute;a sau. S&#7869; c&oacute; m&#7897;t v&agrave;i b&agrave;i h&#7885;c trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; ghi nh&#7899;, nh&#432;ng r&#7891;i &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t l&uacute;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; bu&#7897;c ph&#7843;i d&#7915;ng l&#7841;i, x&#7889;c l&#7841;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh v&agrave; h&#432;&#7899;ng t&#7899;i t&#432;&#417;ng lai m&agrave; th&ocirc;i!</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>9. Kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">&#272;&#417;n gi&#7843;n th&ocirc;i, vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh s&#7899;m mu&#7897;n g&igrave; c&#361;ng s&#7869; ph&aacute; h&#7911;y b&#7841;n.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>10. N&#7895;i s&#7907; m&#7841;o hi&#7875;m</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">Cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n s&#7869; thay &#273;&#7893;i ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n m&#7897;t khi b&#7841;n r&#7901;i kh&#7887;i v&ugrave;ng an to&agrave;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; l&agrave;m v&agrave;i vi&#7879;c h&#417;i &#273;i&ecirc;n r&#7891; m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t: tham gia m&#7897;t bu&#7893;i g&#7863;p m&#7863;t, th&#7917; n&oacute;i tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&aacute;m &#273;&ocirc;ng, &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t &#273;&#7845;t n&#432;&#7899;c m&#7899;i, s&#7889;ng t&#7921; l&#7853;p, ch&#417;i nh&#7843;y l&ograve; c&ograve; nh&#432; th&#7875; b&#7841;n &#273;ang tr&#7903; l&#7841;i h&#7891;i 5 tu&#7893;i m&#7897;t l&#7847;n n&#7919;a&hellip; Th&#7917; m&#7841;o hi&#7875;m v&agrave; t&#7921; &#7911;ng h&#7897; ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, t&ocirc;i h&#7913;a v&#7899;i b&#7841;n n&oacute; s&#7869; &#273;&aacute;ng gi&aacute;.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>11. N&oacute;i r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n s&#7869; g&#7885;i l&#7841;i sau</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">Vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y nghe c&oacute; v&#7867; nh&#7887; nhoi, nh&#432;ng n&oacute; &#273;ang gi&#7871;t ch&#7871;t th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. D&#7915;ng ngay vi&#7879;c n&oacute;i c&acirc;u n&agrave;y nh&#432; m&#7897;t th&oacute;i quen &ndash; h&atilde;y ch&#7881; n&oacute;i v&#7899;i m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n s&#7869; g&#7885;i l&#7841;i sau khi b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; s&#7869; g&#7885;i l&#7841;i cho h&#7885;. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n n&oacute;i d&#7889;i ngay t&#7915; vi&#7879;c g&#7885;i l&#7841;i cho m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, li&#7879;u c&ograve;n l&#7901;i h&#7913;a n&agrave;o kh&aacute;c b&#7841;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n n&#7919;a? H&atilde;y nh&#7899; r&#7857;ng, &#273;&#7875; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, b&#7841;n c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m &#273;&uacute;ng nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; m&igrave;nh n&oacute;i.</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>12. Xin l&#7895;i v&igrave; t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i th&#7913;</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">H&ocirc;m qua, t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t tin nh&#7855;n t&#7915; m&#7897;t c&#7853;u b&#7841;n. C&#7853;u &#7845;y xin l&#7895;i v&igrave; &#273;&atilde; nh&#7855;n tin cho t&ocirc;i v&agrave; h&#7887;i t&ocirc;i li&#7879;u c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7853;n l&#7901;i qu&#7843;ng b&aacute; trang Instagram c&#7911;a c&#7853;u &#7845;y hay kh&ocirc;ng, m&#7897;t trang c&oacute; l&#432;&#7907;ng followers kh&aacute; l&#7899;n.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">B&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i xin l&#7895;i m&#7885;i l&uacute;c m&#7885;i n&#417;i nh&#432; th&#7871;. H&atilde;y t&#7921; tin v&agrave; hi&#7875;u r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#7875; chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">C&#7853;u b&#7841;n n&agrave;y c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u gi&aacute; tr&#7883;, nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i &#273;ang t&#7915; b&#7887; n&oacute; b&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng x&#7913;ng &#273;&aacute;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&aacute;p l&#7841;i tin nh&#7855;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. H&atilde;y ch&#7881; xin l&#7895;i khi b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;&atilde; ph&#7841;m m&#7897;t sai l&#7847;m n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">V&#7853;y sau t&#7845;t c&#7843;, b&#7841;n c&oacute; mu&#7889;n thay &#273;&#7893;i cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng?</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Ngu&#7891;n: HRC Skill</p></p>


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