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<html><body><p>Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta v&#7851;n n&oacute;i, tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; m&#7897;t x&atilde; h&#7897;i thu nh&#7887;. V&#7853;y th&igrave; ch&#7863;ng &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng sinh vi&ecirc;n c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; v&iacute; von nh&#432; b&#7843;n thu g&#7885;n c&#7911;a m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i. N&#7871;u nh&#432; n&#259;m nh&#7845;t l&agrave; thu&#7903; ng&acirc;y th&#417;, n&#259;m cu&#7889;i l&agrave; khi b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; &ldquo;l&otilde;i &#273;&#7901;i, v&#7853;y th&igrave;... N&#259;m 2 d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; l&agrave; kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian d&#7903; d&#7903; &#432;&#417;ng &#432;&#417;ng, kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian chuy&#7875;n m&igrave;nh, t&#7853;p l&#7899;n c&#7911;a qu&atilde;ng &#273;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute;.</p><h2>Khi ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u "l&#7899;n" trong qu&atilde;ng &#273;&#7901;i &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c</h2><p>N&#259;m nh&#7845;t, m&#7895;i ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7863;t ch&acirc;n v&agrave;o tr&#432;&#7901;ng tr&agrave;n tr&#7873; nhi&#7879;t huy&#7871;t, c&aacute;i g&igrave; c&#361;ng mu&#7889;n c&#7889; g&#7855;ng. V&agrave; th&#7913; g&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng x&ocirc;ng x&aacute;o mu&#7889;n tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m. Nh&#432;ng khi m&#7897;t n&#259;m h&#7885;c &#273;&atilde; tr&ocirc;i qua, c&aacute;i m&#7899;i c&#361;ng tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n c&#361; k&#297;, nhi&#7879;t huy&#7871;t tu&#7893;i tr&#7867; c&#361;ng phai m&agrave;u. N&#259;m 2 &#273;&#7871;n, m&igrave;nh m&#7849;y b&#7895;ng tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n tr&igrave; tr&#7879;, th&ecirc;m v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; c&ograve;n l&agrave; s&#7921; hoang mang. N&#259;m 3 n&#259;m 4 &#273;&atilde; &#7903; ngay tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7855;t, s&#7855;p ra tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7871;n n&#417;i m&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; g&igrave;, ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c tr&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c ch&#432;a th&#7845;y th&#7921;c ti&#7877;n ch&uacute;t n&agrave;o. M&#7885;i th&#7913; &#273;&#7871;n khi&#7871;n b&#7841;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y y h&#7879;t th&#7901;i k&igrave; ph&#7843;n ngh&#7883;ch c&aacute;ch &#273;&acirc;y m&#7845;y n&#259;m. V&agrave; b&#7841;n l&#7841;i th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh ch&aacute;n h&#7885;c, tr&igrave; tr&#7879;, ch&#7881; mu&#7889;n n&#7857;m nh&agrave;.</p><p>Ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; l&agrave; sai khi c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u nh&#432; th&#7871;. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7915;ng coi &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &#273;i&#7875;m d&#7915;ng ch&acirc;n cho m&#7897;t n&#259;m h&#7885;c. B&#432;&#7899;c ngo&#7863;t n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&#7847;n m&#7897;t s&#7921; chu&#7849;n b&#7883;. Mu&#7889;n nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m cu&#7889;i hay khi ra tr&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#432;ng b&#7915;ng, th&igrave; n&#259;m hai l&agrave; m&#7897;t b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#7879;m t&#7889;t.</p><h2>1. Th&#7887;a m&atilde;n tu&#7893;i tr&#7867; v&#7899;i ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng</h2><p>Th&#7901;i gian s&#7869; l&agrave; th&#7913; thi&#7871;u th&#7889;n nh&#7845;t trong nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m cu&#7889;i tr&#432;&#7899;c khi ra tr&#432;&#7901;ng. V&igrave; b&#7841;n s&#7869; b&#7853;n th&#7921;c t&#7853;p, b&#7853;n l&agrave;m kh&oacute;a lu&#7853;n, b&#7853;n ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh n&#7889;t h&#7885;c ph&#7847;n, b&#7853;n &#273;&#7911; th&#7913;. B&#7841;n s&#7869; ch&#7859;ng &#273;&agrave;o &#273;&acirc;u ra th&#7901;i gian cho nh&#7919;ng ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i n&#7919;a. V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n, &ldquo;nh&#7891;i nh&eacute;t&rdquo; m&#7897;t v&agrave;i ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave;o n&#259;m hai s&#7869; ch&#7859;ng c&ograve;n l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u th&#7915;a th&atilde;i.</p><p>Vui v&#7867;, tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i, nh&#7919;ng t&#7915; &#7845;y l&agrave; qu&aacute; th&#7915;a n&#7871;u l&#7841;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y th&ecirc;m l&#7847;n n&#7919;a. Ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i, nh&igrave;n t&#7915; m&#7897;t h&#432;&#7899;ng th&#7921;c d&#7909;ng h&#417;n, l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i kh&ocirc;ng g&igrave; tuy&#7879;t h&#417;n cho vi&#7879;c k&#7871;t n&#7889;i, t&#7841;o m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;, hay th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c t&#432;&#417;ng lai sau n&agrave;y.</p><h2>2. Bao tr&#7885;n m&#7897;t qu&#7889;c gia m&#7899;i b&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c h&#7885;c th&ecirc;m m&#7897;t ngo&#7841;i ng&#7919;</h2><p>Nghe th&igrave; c&oacute; v&#7867; c&#361; r&iacute;ch &#273;&uacute;ng kh&ocirc;ng? Trong &#273;&#7847;u b&#7841;n khi &#273;&#7885;c &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng d&ograve;ng n&agrave;y s&#7869; ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng, &ocirc;i l&#7841;i chuy&#7879;n h&#7885;c ti&#7871;ng Anh ch&#7913; g&igrave;. Ai c&#361;ng bi&#7871;t ti&#7871;ng Anh quan tr&#7885;ng r&#7891;i. Nh&#432;ng, chuy&#7879;n kh&#7849;n thi&#7871;t ph&#7843;i nh&#7855;c l&#7841;i nhi&#7873;u l&#7847;n. Th&#7901;i bu&#7893;i n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ti&#7871;ng Anh c&#361;ng ch&#7859;ng kh&aacute;c n&agrave;o b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t ch&#7919;. Vi&#7879;c trau d&#7891;i ti&#7871;ng Anh c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;a d&#7841;ng v&agrave; phong ph&uacute; l&ecirc;n nhi&#7873;u h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c kh&aacute;c nhau. B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; xem phim, &#273;&#7885;c truy&#7879;n hay&nbsp; l&ecirc;n Youtube t&igrave;m m&#7897;t v&agrave;i ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; b&#7841;n th&iacute;ch (Make-up, c&ocirc;ng ngh&#7879;, n&#7845;u n&#432;&#7899;ng,... Ch&#7881; c&oacute; th&#7913; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng ngh&#297; ra ch&#7913; ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; c&#7843;).</p><p>B&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh &#273;&oacute;, ch&#7885;n h&#7885;c m&#7897;t ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; m&#7899;i c&#361;ng m&#7903; ra nhi&#7873;u ng&atilde; r&#7869; kh&aacute;c sau n&agrave;y. Ti&#7871;ng Ph&aacute;p cho c&aacute;c v&#259;n b&#7843;n lu&#7853;t. Hay ti&#7871;ng Trung &#273;&#7875; h&ograve;a nh&#7853;p v&agrave;o c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng ti&#7871;ng &#273;&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7843;o nh&#7845;t c&#7843; th&#7871; gi&#7899;i.</p><h2>3. &ldquo;M&#7897;t ch&uacute;t&rdquo; Part-time cho ng&agrave;y n&#259;ng &#273;&#7897;ng</h2><p>Nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i n&oacute;i n&#259;m 2 ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m v&agrave;ng cho nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n. N&#259;m hai l&agrave; khi b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; &ldquo;ranh&rdquo; h&#417;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u. B&#7841;n c&#361;ng &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7855;n &#273;o suy ngh&#297; &#273;&acirc;u l&agrave; c&aacute;i c&oacute; &iacute;ch v&agrave; n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m. Th&#7913; quan t&acirc;m duy nh&#7845;t cho m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; ti&#7873;n. N&oacute;i l&agrave; v&#7853;y, nh&#432;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c n&agrave;o r&#7891;i c&#361;ng &#273;em l&#7841;i gi&aacute; tr&#7883;, d&ugrave; &iacute;t d&ugrave; nhi&#7873;u. B&#7891;i b&agrave;n, &#273;&#7913;ng qu&#7847;y, nghe c&oacute; ch&uacute;t s&aacute;o r&#7895;ng v&agrave; ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; t&yacute; chuy&ecirc;n m&ocirc;n. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&oacute; l&#7841;i l&agrave; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7875; nh&#7919;ng k&#297; n&#259;ng m&#7873;m th&#259;ng hoa.</p><h2>4. Ch&#259;m ch&uacute;t cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n</h2><p>S&#7869; l&agrave; thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t n&#7871;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ch&#7859;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i m&agrave; d&aacute;m g&#7885;i l&agrave; qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh chuy&#7875;n m&igrave;nh. H&atilde;y ch&#259;m ch&uacute;t v&#7873; c&#7843; h&igrave;nh th&#7875; l&#7851;n t&acirc;m h&#7891;n. D&ugrave; b&#7883; coi l&agrave; phi&#7871;n di&#7879;n, nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7851;n tuy&#7875;n ng&#432;&#7901;i d&#7921;a v&agrave;o &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n. N&#259;m hai l&agrave; khi th&#7901;i gian v&#7851;n &#273;&#7847;y t&uacute;i. V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n b&#7841;n h&atilde;y d&agrave;nh m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n cho m&igrave;nh, cho s&aacute;ch, hay th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; c&aacute;c trung t&acirc;m fitness.</p><p>M&#7897;t khi &#273;&atilde; l&agrave; th&#7901;i gian th&igrave; ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; ph&uacute;t n&agrave;o l&agrave; v&ocirc; ngh&#297;a. T&#7853;n d&#7909;ng m&#7897;t b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#7879;m t&#7889;t s&#7869; gi&uacute;p cho b&#432;&#7899;c ngo&#7863;t tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n h&#417;n. N&#259;m Hai s&#7869; th&#7853;t t&#7867; nh&#7841;t n&#7871;u b&#7841;n ch&#7881; bi&#7871;t ng&#7891;i kh&ocirc;ng v&agrave; ch&aacute;n n&#7843;n. &#272;&#7901;i s&#7869; l&agrave; m&agrave;u &#273;en n&#7871;u khi ta ngh&#297; n&oacute; th&#7853;t t&#7867; nh&#7841;t. T&#7841;i sao b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;n m&igrave;nh tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7885;a s&#297; &#273;&#7875; t&ocirc; v&#7869; cho m&#7897;t n&#259;m hai r&#7921;c r&#7905;?</p><p>Ngu&#7891;n: HRC Skills</p></body></html>


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