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D&ugrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang c&#7889; g&#7855;ng trau d&#7891;i k&#7929; n&#259;ng qu&#7843;n l&yacute; th&#7901;i gian, gi&#7843;m c&acirc;n, hay ki&#7871;m ti&#7873;n th&igrave; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u lu&ocirc;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n quan tr&#7885;ng trong vi&#7879;c c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. N&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7909; th&#7875;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; l&atilde;ng ph&iacute; th&#7901;i gian c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. B&#7841;n s&#7869; v&#7897;i v&atilde; l&agrave;m h&#7871;t vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c kh&aacute;c m&agrave; ch&#7859;ng bao gi&#7901; th&#7921;c s&#7921; ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh n&oacute;. C&oacute; m&#7897;t s&#7889; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u m&agrave; b&#7841;n s&#7869; c&#7847;n nh&#7901; t&#7899;i s&#7921; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7921; m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Do &#273;&oacute;,&nbsp; m&#7897;t c&acirc;u h&#7887;i quan tr&#7885;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7863;t ra l&agrave;: &ldquo;B&#7841;n c&oacute; n&ecirc;n n&oacute;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n khi h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;?&rdquo; B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7921; m&igrave;nh ch&#7885;n l&#7921;a li&#7879;u c&oacute; n&ecirc;n n&oacute;i ra m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&#7863;t t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c v&agrave; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh. V&igrave; th&#7871;, b&#7841;n c&#7847;n l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7849;n th&#7853;n.C&aacute;c l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n chia s&#7867; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;nKhi &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c n&oacute;i ra m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, c&oacute; 3 c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7875; th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n:1. Kh&ocirc;ng chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i b&#7845;t k&#7923; ai.B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n gi&#7919; b&iacute; m&#7853;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t b&#7841;n &#273;&#7863;t ra nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&oacute; ch&#7881; khi b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&uacute;ng. Trong m&#7897;t s&#7889; tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p, h&#7885; s&#7869; ch&#7859;ng bao gi&#7901; bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c v&igrave; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a h&#7885;.&#431;u &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a c&aacute;ch l&agrave;m n&agrave;y l&agrave; b&#7841;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; ai g&acirc;y &aacute;p l&#7921;c, ch&#7871; gi&#7877;u hay coi th&#432;&#7901;ng khi b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, hay b&#7841;n ch&#7853;m ti&#7871;n. Trong m&#7897;t s&#7889; tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p, m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7853;m ch&iacute; s&#7869; c&#7843;n tr&#7903; b&#7841;n theo &#273;u&#7893;i m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u v&agrave; g&acirc;y kh&oacute; kh&#259;n cho b&#7841;n. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; tr&aacute;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng n&agrave;y b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n kh&ocirc;ng n&oacute;i ra m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh.Nh&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a ph&#432;&#417;ng ph&aacute;p n&agrave;y l&agrave; n&#7871;u m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905;, &#273;&#432;a ra l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n hay &#7911;ng h&#7897; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang n&#7895; l&#7921;c th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n. B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; quen nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y, hay nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; m&#7889;i quen bi&#7871;t c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; b&#7841;n, ho&#7863;c c&oacute; l&#7869; b&#7841;n ch&#7881; c&#7847;n s&#7921; &#7911;ng h&#7897; tinh th&#7847;n khi b&#7841;n chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i ai &#273;&oacute;. Nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng n&oacute;i ra m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh th&igrave; ch&#7859;ng ai c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; b&#7841;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.2. Chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;iM&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&iacute;ch n&oacute;i cho m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i bi&#7871;t v&#7873; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a h&#7885;. Th&#7853;m ch&iacute;, h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i v&#7899;i b&#7913;c t&#432;&#7901;ng n&#7871;u h&#7885; cho r&#7857;ng n&oacute; s&#7869; l&#7855;ng nghe.&nbsp; Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y cho r&#7857;ng c&agrave;ng nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i bi&#7871;t v&#7873; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a h&#7885; th&igrave; s&#7869; c&agrave;ng c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u &aacute;p l&#7921;c khi&#7871;n h&#7885; bu&#7897;c ph&#7843;i ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7873; ra.&#431;u &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a c&aacute;ch n&agrave;y l&agrave; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n duy tr&igrave; ti&#7871;n &#273;&#7897; th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u v&agrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u &aacute;p l&#7921;c h&#417;n. V&iacute; d&#7909;, khi b&#7841;n n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n s&#7869; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u n&agrave;y, b&#7841;n s&#7869; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n n&oacute; &#273;&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&aacute;nh m&#7845;t uy t&iacute;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.Nh&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7875;m l&agrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &aacute;p l&#7921;c v&agrave; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;n tr&#7903; ho&#7863;c c&#432;&#7901;i nh&#7841;o v&agrave; ch&#7871; gi&#7877;u b&#7841;n v&igrave; b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u nh&#432; &#273;&atilde; h&#7913;a.3. Chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7909; th&#7875;.B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7885;n ch&#7881; chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7847;n bi&#7871;t ho&#7863;c nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; b&#7841;n. Ngo&agrave;i ra, b&#7841;n c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n - ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng &#7911;ng h&#7897; v&agrave; h&#432;&#7899;ng d&#7851;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.V&#7899;i c&aacute;ch n&agrave;y, b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; g&acirc;y tr&#7903; ng&#7841;i cho b&#7841;n..V&iacute; d&#7909; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng l&#7907;i &iacute;ch c&#7911;a vi&#7879;c chia s&#7867; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.&nbsp;M&#7897;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u h&#7907;p l&yacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; ch&#7911; &#273;&#7873; tr&ograve; chuy&#7879;n tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i cho nh&oacute;m c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, ch&#7859;ng h&#7841;n nh&#432; b&#7841;n b&egrave; hay gia &#273;&igrave;nh c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. M&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&oacute; gi&uacute;p g&#7855;n k&#7871;t m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i trong nh&oacute;m v&igrave; ai c&#361;ng mu&#7889;n b&#7841;n &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u. Kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; b&#7841;n m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng kh&iacute; chung c&#7911;a nh&oacute;m c&#361;ng c&oacute; l&#7907;i cho b&#7841;n.&#272;&ocirc;i khi b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905;, nh&#432;ng h&#7885; bi&#7871;t b&#7841;n c&#7847;n g&igrave; v&agrave; h&#7885; s&#7869; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng t&igrave;m c&aacute;ch gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n. V&iacute; d&#7909;, n&#7871;u b&#7841;n &#273;ang h&#7885;c b&agrave;i, h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; cho b&#7841;n th&#7901;i gian v&agrave; ch&#7895; b&#7841;n c&#7847;n &#273;&#7875; b&#7841;n ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh b&agrave;i t&#7853;p c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. H&#7885; c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m m&#7897;t s&#7889; vi&#7879;c nh&agrave; v&agrave; vi&#7879;c v&#7863;t gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n &#273;&#7875; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7897;ng tay &#273;&#7871;n, cho ph&eacute;p b&#7841;n d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian v&agrave; s&#7913;c l&#7921;c v&agrave;o th&#7913; quan tr&#7885;ng nh&#7845;t l&agrave; vi&#7879;c h&#7885;c.V&iacute; d&#7909; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng h&#7841;n ch&#7871; c&#7911;a vi&#7879;c chia s&#7867; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.T&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n, n&oacute;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng t&#7889;t v&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u b&#7845;t l&#7907;i.&nbsp;C&aacute;c nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u &#273;&atilde; ch&#7881; ra r&#7857;ng v&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7889; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, n&oacute;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t c&oacute; th&#7875; khi&#7871;n b&#7841;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#432; b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&oacute;. T&#7915; &#273;&oacute;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; qu&ecirc;n &#273;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng kh&oacute; kh&#259;n m&agrave; b&#7841;n c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i v&#432;&#7907;t qua tr&#432;&#7899;c khi th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&oacute; . &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n &#273;&uacute;ng v&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7889; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u bu&#7897;c b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i &#273;&#432;a ra l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n l&#7889;i s&#7889;ng v&agrave; s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e c&#7911;a b&#7841;n nh&#432; b&#7887; h&uacute;t thu&#7889;c l&aacute; hay &#259;n u&#7889;ng l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh.&nbsp;B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u v&igrave; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh &#273;&#7873;u c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&#7915;ng cho b&#7841;n. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i h&uacute;t thu&#7889;c l&aacute; th&igrave; t&#7845;t c&#7843; b&#7841;n b&egrave; v&agrave; gia &#273;&igrave;nh b&#7841;n &#273;&#7873;u mong mu&#7889;n b&#7841;n b&#7887; h&uacute;t thu&#7889;c. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n &#273;ang &#259;n u&#7889;ng kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh th&igrave; h&#7885; c&#361;ng mu&#7889;n nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y b&#7841;n c&oacute; l&#7889;i s&#7889;ng t&#7889;t h&#417;n. V&agrave; khi bi&#7871;t b&#7841;n quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n nh&#7919;ng th&oacute;i quen ch&#432;a t&#7889;t &#273;&oacute;, &#273;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n h&#7885; s&#7869; h&#7871;t s&#7913;c vui m&#7915;ng. H&#7885; s&#7869; ch&uacute;c m&#7915;ng b&#7841;n v&igrave; b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;a ra m&#7897;t quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh s&aacute;ng su&#7889;t d&ugrave; trong ti&#7873;m th&#7913;c, ch&uacute;ng ta lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; xu h&#432;&#7899;ng g&#7855;n nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i ch&uacute;c m&#7915;ng v&#7899;i m&#7897;t vi&#7879;c&nbsp; &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh.B&#7841;n c&oacute; n&ecirc;n chia s&#7867; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c kh&ocirc;ng?C&aacute;ch t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh li&#7879;u b&#7841;n c&oacute; n&ecirc;n&nbsp; n&oacute;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t v&#7873; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; b&#7841;n c&#7847;n xem x&eacute;t t&#7915;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7909; th&#7875;. V&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7889; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u,&nbsp; n&oacute;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n &#273;ang c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute; ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n s&#7869; c&oacute; &iacute;ch cho b&#7841;n, v&iacute; d&#7909; nh&#432; vi&#7879;c b&#7841;n &#273;ang tham gia ch&#7841;y marathon &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m t&#7915; thi&#7879;n.&nbsp;C&#361;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u m&agrave; b&#7841;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; ch&#7881; &#273;ang th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n v&igrave; b&#7841;n v&agrave; b&#7841;n th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng n&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a b&#7845;t k&#7923; ai kh&aacute;c. V&iacute; d&#7909;, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;ang tham gia m&#7897;t l&#7899;p h&#7885;c ngo&#7841;i ng&#7919; v&agrave; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t.Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, c&aacute;ch m&agrave; t&ocirc;i &#432;u ti&ecirc;n cho &#273;&#7871;n gi&#7901; v&#7851;n l&agrave; c&oacute; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i (ho&#7863;c m&#7897;t v&agrave;i ng&#432;&#7901;i)m&agrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; tin t&#432;&#7903;ng v&agrave; t&acirc;m s&#7921;. V&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; chia s&#7867; v&#7873; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u, s&#7921; ti&#7871;n b&#7897;, sai l&#7847;m v&agrave; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Ph&#7847;n l&#7899;n m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7873;u mu&#7889;n chia s&#7867; c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; &#273;&acirc;y s&#7869; l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o r&#7857;ng khi b&#7841;n n&oacute;i v&#7873; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, b&#7841;n s&#7869;&nbsp; nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&#7907;i &iacute;ch ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ai &#273;&#7875; t&acirc;m s&#7921; hay s&#7861;n s&agrave;ng h&#7895; tr&#7907; b&#7841;n khi c&#7847;n th&igrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; xem x&eacute;t vi&#7879;c thu&ecirc; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7847;y h&#432;&#7899;ng d&#7851;n.&nbsp;T&oacute;m l&#7841;iM&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u l&agrave; m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n quan tr&#7885;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; thi&#7871;u trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng h&#7857;ng ng&agrave;y c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. V&igrave; v&#7853;y, n&#7871;u b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh th&igrave; b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7863;t ra m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&#7875; bi&#7871;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i th&agrave;nh cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng nh&#432; b&#7841;n mong mu&#7889;n. Th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n&nbsp; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&oacute; s&#7869;&nbsp; gi&uacute;p &iacute;ch cho b&#7841;n&nbsp; trong su&#7889;t h&agrave;nh tr&igrave;nh c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Trong nhi&#7873;u tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p, ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; l&agrave; m&#7897;t ngu&#7891;n kh&iacute;ch l&#7879; v&agrave; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; l&#7899;n lao khi ch&uacute;ng ta ti&#7871;n b&#432;&#7899;c tr&ecirc;n h&agrave;nh tr&igrave;nh &#273;&oacute;. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, c&#361;ng c&oacute; l&uacute;c h&#7885; s&#7869; l&agrave; r&agrave;o c&#7843;n c&#7843;n tr&#7903; ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u. &#272;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng l&agrave; b&#7841;n c&#7847;n x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khi n&agrave;o s&#7869; l&agrave; th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m th&iacute;ch h&#7907;p &#273;&#7875; n&oacute;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7871;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, v&agrave; th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m n&agrave;o l&agrave; t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; b&#7841;n gi&#7919; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u &#273;&oacute; cho ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh. S&#7921; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n l&agrave; c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, nh&#432;ng h&atilde;y &#273;&#432;a ra nh&#7919;ng l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n kh&ocirc;n ngoan.&nbsp;___________________Ngu&#7891;n: https://www.coachingpositiveperformance.com/should-you-be-vocal-about-your-goalsD&#7883;ch gi&#7843;: Ho&agrave;ng Hoa

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