VÙNG XÁM - CÂU CHUYỆN VỀ SỰ TRƯỞNG THÀNH (vol. 2)

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<html><body><h2 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>K&#7923; cu&#7889;i: L&#7921;a ch&#7885;n v&agrave; b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;i tr&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng ng&atilde; r&#7869;&nbsp;</strong></h2><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><blockquote><p style="text-align:justify;">Sau t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i th&#7913;, h&agrave;nh trang m&agrave; b&#7841;n mang theo tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; Tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m.</p></blockquote><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>H&atilde;y ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n s&#7921; th&#7853;t. Nh&#432;ng h&atilde;y m&#7841;nh d&#7841;n b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;i</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Bi&#7871;t c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c v&agrave; suy x&eacute;t m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch to&agrave;n di&#7879;n l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u thi&#7871;t y&#7871;u, nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; n&agrave;o c&#7913; &#273;&#7913;ng &#7903; ng&atilde; ba &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng m&atilde;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Ch&#7859;ng ai mu&#7889;n m&#7897;t t&ecirc;n ba ph&#7843;i c&#7843;, nh&#7845;t l&agrave; khi k&#7867; &#7845;y l&agrave; ch&iacute;nh ta.&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">V&#7867; &#273;&#7865;p l&#7899;n nh&#7845;t c&#7911;a V&ugrave;ng X&aacute;m n&#7857;m &#7903; ch&#7895;: ch&iacute;nh t&#7915; vi&#7879;c nh&#7853;n di&#7879;n c&aacute;c h&#432;&#7899;ng &#273;i v&agrave; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n kh&aacute;c nhau, m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7883;nh h&igrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7889;t l&otilde;i l&agrave;m n&ecirc;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh. Gi&aacute;o s&#432; Ruth Chang (tr&#432;&#7903;ng khoa Lu&#7853;t h&#7885;c, &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c Oxford) &#273;&atilde; nh&#7853;n &#273;&#7883;nh r&#7857;ng: &ldquo;V&#7889;n d&#297;, nh&#7919;ng l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n kh&oacute; kh&#259;n trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;o l&#432;&#7901;ng b&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7841;i l&#432;&#7907;ng tr&#7921;c quan nh&#432; c&acirc;n n&#7863;ng, k&iacute;ch th&#432;&#7899;c, &#273;&#7897; d&agrave;i, &hellip; N&ecirc;n ch&#7859;ng th&#7875; n&oacute;i l&agrave; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n n&agrave;o t&#7889;t h&#417;n hay t&#7879; h&#417;n.&rdquo; &#272;&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; b&agrave;i h&#7885;c l&#7899;n nh&#7845;t m&agrave; V&ugrave;ng X&aacute;m d&#7841;y cho m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. S&#7869; ch&#7859;ng c&oacute; ph&#7847;n th&#432;&#7903;ng hay h&igrave;nh ph&#7841;t n&agrave;o &#273;&#7857;ng sau nh&#7919;ng l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7843;.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Nh&#432;ng &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; ph&#7847;n vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng V&ugrave;ng X&aacute;m, c&ograve;n l&#7841;i l&agrave; ph&#7847;n vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i: ph&#7843;i b&#7855;t tay v&agrave;o h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; ti&#7871;n h&agrave;nh &#273;&#432;a ra quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh. B&#7903;i c&oacute; &yacute; ngh&#297;a g&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng n&#7871;u ta r&#7891;i ch&#7859;ng th&#7853;t s&#7921; l&agrave;m g&igrave; c&#7843;? &#272;&#7871;n cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng, m&#7897;t con ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7883;nh ngh&#297;a b&#7903;i nh&#7919;ng suy ngh&#297; &#273;&#417;n thu&#7847;n c&#7911;a anh ta, m&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7883;nh h&igrave;nh b&#7903;i nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; anh ta l&agrave;m nh&acirc;n danh t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng c&aacute; nh&acirc;n &#7845;y.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>B&agrave;i h&#7885;c sau c&ugrave;ng</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">B&agrave;i h&#7885;c l&#7899;n nh&#7845;t m&agrave; ai r&#7891;i c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i h&#7885;c ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; hai ch&#7919; &ldquo;tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m&rdquo;. V&igrave; m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7881; th&#7853;t s&#7921; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh khi bi&#7871;t c&aacute;ch ch&#7883;u tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh, v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng m&agrave; ta l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;i. &Yacute; ngh&#297;a th&#7853;t s&#7921; cho s&#7921; t&#7891;n t&#7841;i c&#7911;a V&ugrave;ng X&aacute;m ph&#7843;i l&agrave;: mu&#7889;n tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, ph&#7843;i d&aacute;m &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i n&oacute;; nh&#432;ng &#272;&#7874; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, ph&#7843;i d&aacute;m r&#7901;i &#273;i. V&igrave; n&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng h&#7885;c c&aacute;ch h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; ch&#7883;u tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m, &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; v&#7851;n ch&#7881; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867;, ch&#7883;u s&#7921; d&#7851;n d&#7855;t c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c v&agrave; m&#7855;c k&#7865;t l&#7841;i trong m&#7897;t th&#7871; gi&#7899;i th&#7847;n ti&ecirc;n t&#432;&#417;i &#273;&#7865;p gi&#7843;n &#273;&#417;n m&agrave; ch&#7859;ng th&#7875; n&agrave;o l&#7899;n l&ecirc;n. N&ecirc;n c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n m&agrave; t&#7921; tay ch&uacute;ng ta ph&#7843;i vi&#7871;t &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; n&agrave;o ta l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n tin t&#432;&#7903;ng, nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; ta mu&#7889;n nh&acirc;n danh v&agrave; &#273;&#7841;i di&#7879;n trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. V&agrave; c&#7843; c&aacute;i gi&aacute; ta ph&#7843;i tr&#7843; cho m&#7895;i l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">X&eacute;t theo m&#7897;t kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, ph&#7847;n th&#432;&#7903;ng sau c&ugrave;ng c&#7911;a V&ugrave;ng X&aacute;m, hay &#273;&uacute;ng h&#417;n l&agrave; c&#7911;a h&agrave;nh tr&igrave;nh tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, d&agrave;nh cho m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; s&#7921; t&#7921; do. Suy cho c&ugrave;ng, khi d&aacute;m &#273;&#7913;ng ra t&#7921; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh v&agrave; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n cho cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i m&igrave;nh, b&#7841;n s&#7869; t&#7921; do nh&#7845;t. V&agrave; theo l&#7869; t&#7845;t y&#7871;u, &ldquo;FREEDOM IS NOT FREE&rdquo; (T&#7921; do l&agrave; m&#7897;t th&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; mi&#7877;n ph&iacute;).&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><h3 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>P.S:&nbsp;</strong></h3><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><p style="text-align:justify;">Ph&#7843;i n&oacute;i th&ecirc;m r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng ch&#7885;n l&#7921;a trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c xem nh&#432; th&#7913; b&#7845;t di b&#7845;t d&#7883;ch. Ta &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&eacute;p quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh kh&aacute;c &#273;i. B&#7903;i v&igrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&atilde; r&#7869; lu&ocirc;n t&#7891;n t&#7841;i, nh&#7919;ng h&#7879; gi&aacute; tr&#7883; hay &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; ta tin t&#432;&#7903;ng c&oacute; quy&#7873;n &#273;&#7893;i thay v&agrave; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n theo th&#7901;i gian. Ai c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n kh&aacute;c &#273;i, d&#297; nhi&ecirc;n l&agrave; &#273;i k&egrave;m m&#7897;t c&aacute;i gi&aacute; ph&#7843;i tr&#7843; t&#432;&#417;ng x&#7913;ng. &#272;&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; l&#7869; t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng th&ocirc;i m&agrave;.</p><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><h4 style="text-align:justify;"><strong>~END~</strong></h4><p style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Author: UY&Ecirc;N PH&#431;&#416;NG (YOUTHer)</strong></p></body></html>


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