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<html><body>&nbsp;&nbsp;M&#7895;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; m&#7897;t &#273;&#7883;nh ngh&#297;a kh&aacute;c nhau v&#7873; s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, v&agrave; c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n nh&#7845;t ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c sau c&acirc;u h&#7887;i&ldquo;&Yacute; ki&#7871;n v&#7873; s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n l&agrave; g&igrave;?&rdquo;&nbsp;Th&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7869; li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n 3 kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh: T&agrave;i s&#7843;n c&#7911;a c&#7843;i, &#273;&#7883;a v&#7883; x&atilde; h&#7897;i v&agrave; m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c. Nh&#432;ng h&atilde;y th&#7917; xem x&eacute;t s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng qua 10 kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh x&atilde; h&#7897;i m&agrave; b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p, s&#7869; gi&uacute;p b&#7841;n &ldquo;t&aacute;ch nh&#7887;&rdquo; c&aacute;c ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; v&agrave; theo &#273;u&#7893;i s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng d&#7877; d&agrave;ng h&#417;n.&nbsp;&nbsp;<ol><li style="text-align:justify;">Th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&#7873; V&#7852;T CH&#7844;T (Physical):</li></ol>- Ti&#7873;n b&#7841;c, c&aacute;c ph&#432;&#417;ng ti&#7879;n di chuy&#7875;n (xe c&#7897;), tranng s&#7913;c, d&#7883;ch v&#7909; h&#432;&#7903;ng th&#7909; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng (du l&#7883;ch, gi&#7843;i tr&iacute;),&hellip; - Th&#7853;t kh&oacute; tr&aacute;ch vi&#7879;c c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a &#273;&#7841;i &#273;a s&#7889; ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; d&#7921;a v&agrave;o m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; &ldquo;s&#7903; h&#7919;u c&#7911;a c&#7843;i v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t&rdquo; l&agrave; ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n. Khi m&agrave; s&#7921; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; d&#7921;a tr&ecirc;n m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; t&#259;ng tr&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a n&#7873;n kinh t&#7871;. Cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y &#273;&#7873;u xoay quanh &ldquo;c&#417;m, &aacute;o, g&#7841;o, ti&#7873;n&rdquo; th&igrave; c&#7911;a c&#7843;i, v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t d&#7847;n tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng c&#7909; c&#417; b&#7843;n nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; &#273;&aacute;p &#7913;ng nhu c&#7847;u cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ngh&egrave;o h&#7885; c&#7847;n m&#7897;t l&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a c&#7843;i, v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t &ldquo;&#273;&#7911;&rdquo; &#273;&#7875; h&#7885; s&#7889;ng. C&ograve;n nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i gi&agrave;u - d&#432; gi&#7843; h&#417;n v&#7873; c&#7911;a c&#7843;i, v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t s&#7869; l&#7845;y ch&uacute;ng &#273;&#7875; t&#7841;o th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t th&#432;&#7899;c &#273;o so s&aacute;nh v&#7899;i nhau. Ai s&#7903; h&#7919;u c&agrave;ng nhi&#7873;u, d&#432; th&#7915;a c&agrave;ng nhi&#7873;u th&igrave; vi&#7879;c &#273;&aacute;p &#7913;ng nhu c&#7847;u hay h&#432;&#7903;ng th&#7909; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng s&#7869; c&agrave;ng t&#7889;t, h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i qu&aacute; b&#7853;n t&acirc;m v&#7873; c&aacute;i &#259;n, c&aacute;i m&#7863;c, ch&#7895; &#7903; qua m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y th&igrave; t&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n h&#7885; s&#7869; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&agrave; &ldquo;th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng&rdquo;.&nbsp;&nbsp;<ol><li style="text-align:justify;">Th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&#7873; T&#7846;M &#7842;NH H&#431;&#7902;NG (Influence):</li></ol>- Ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; th&#7913; hai m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng hay nh&#7855;c &#273;&#7871;n khi &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p v&#7873; s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &ldquo;&#272;&#7883;a v&#7883; x&atilde; h&#7897;i&rdquo;. Nh&#432;ng nh&igrave;n chung v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&#7885;i l&agrave; &ldquo;t&#7847;m &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng&rdquo;. &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; s&#7921; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a m&#7895;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c (&#273;&oacute; th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh, &yacute; ki&#7871;n, h&agrave;nh vi,&hellip;) v&agrave; ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i l&agrave; s&#7921; h&#432;&#7903;ng &#7913;ng c&#7911;a &#273;&aacute;m &#273;&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t c&aacute; nh&acirc;n/ nh&oacute;m ng&#432;&#7901;i, th&#432;&#7901;ng li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a c&aacute; nh&acirc;n/ nh&oacute;m ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute;: nh&#432; l&atilde;nh &#273;&#7841;o c&#7911;a m&#7897;t t&#7893; ch&#7913;c, th&#7847;n t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; (ca s&#297;, di&#7877;n vi&ecirc;n),&hellip;- Vi&#7879;c t&#7841;o t&#7847;m &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&aacute;m &#273;&ocirc;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng d&#7877; d&agrave;ng, &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; m&#7897;t th&#7917; th&aacute;ch c&#7921;c k&igrave; l&#7899;n &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i nhi&#7873;u y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i (v&#7873; t&agrave;i n&#259;ng, tr&iacute; tu&#7879;, &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c,&hellip;). N&ecirc;n khi c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; r&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&agrave; r&#7845;t x&#7913;ng &#273;&aacute;ng &#273;&#7875; theo &#273;u&#7893;i. V&#7899;i b&#7843;n ch&#7845;t th&iacute;ch &ldquo;chinh ph&#7909;c&rdquo; c&#7911;a &#273;a s&#7889; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&igrave; &#273;&acirc;y s&#7869; nh&#432; m&#7897;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7847;n c&oacute; c&#7911;a &ldquo;ng&#432;&#7901;i chi&#7871;n th&#7855;ng&rdquo;- s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng.&nbsp;<ol><li style="text-align:justify;">Th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&#7873; C&#7842;M X&Uacute;C (Emotion):</li></ol>- M&#7863;t c&#7843;m x&uacute;c th&#432;&#7901;ng li&ecirc;n h&#7879; m&#7853;t thi&#7871;t &#273;&#7871;n c&aacute;c v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; chung nh&#432;: M&#7889;i quan h&#7879;, ni&#7873;m t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&agrave; s&#7921; h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng.- V&#7873; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; c&#417; b&#7843;n, vi&#7879;c gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&#7889;t v&#7899;i c&aacute;c th&agrave;nh vi&ecirc;n trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh, c&oacute; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh, c&oacute; c&aacute;c m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; b&#7841;n b&egrave; v&agrave; x&atilde; h&#7897;i l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh &#273;&atilde; l&agrave; m&#7897;t mong &#432;&#7899;c r&#7845;t l&#7899;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i. Do m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng ta th&#432;&#7901;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; c&ugrave;ng l&uacute;c l&agrave;m t&#7889;t h&#7871;t &#7903; t&#7845;t c&#7843; c&aacute;c vai tr&ograve; trong m&#7885;i m&#7889;i quan h&#7879;.- V&agrave; s&#7921; c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng v&#7873; m&#7863;t c&#7843;m x&uacute;c (t&acirc;m tr&#7841;ng) c&oacute; li&ecirc;n quan s&acirc;u s&#7855;c v&agrave; tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p &#273;&#7871;n h&agrave;nh vi v&agrave; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh c&#7911;a m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. N&ecirc;n n&#7871;u ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&#7919; &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh v&agrave; c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng t&#7889;t v&#7873; m&#7863;t c&#7843;m x&uacute;c s&#7869; gi&uacute;p h&#7841;n ch&#7871; &#273;&#7871;n t&#7889;i &#273;a vi&#7879;c &#273;&#432;a ra nh&#7919;ng quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh v&agrave; h&agrave;nh vi sai l&#7847;m d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n nhi&#7873;u h&#7853;u qu&#7843; &#273;&aacute;ng ti&#7871;c. Hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#7843;m x&uacute;c c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; l&agrave;m ch&#7911; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute; x&#7913;ng &#273;&aacute;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh.&nbsp;<ol><li style="text-align:justify;">Th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&#7873; TRI TH&#7912;C (Knowleges):</li></ol>- V&#7899;i th&#7871; h&#7879; tr&#7867; ng&agrave;y nay, &ldquo;tri th&#7913;c&rdquo; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c v&ocirc; c&ugrave;ng ch&uacute; tr&#7885;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; v&#7873; m&#7863;t ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c m&agrave; c&ograve;n v&#7873; m&#7863;t &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c c&#7911;a m&#7895;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7875; t&#7841;o ra nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t v&agrave; tinh th&#7847;n trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i. C&aacute;c th&#432;&#7899;c &#273;o c&#417; b&#7843;n &#273;&#7871; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; n&agrave;y th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave;: k&#7871;t qu&#7843; h&#7885;c t&#7853;p, s&#7921; hi&#7875;u bi&#7871;t v&agrave; n&#259;ng l&#7921;c gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873;.- &#7902; tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c, k&#7871;t qu&#7843; h&#7885;c t&#7853;p d&ugrave;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; ti&#7871;p thu ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c v&agrave; r&egrave;n luy&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c c&#7911;a h&#7885;c sinh/ sinh vi&ecirc;n. S&#7921; hi&#7875;u bi&#7871;t v&agrave; n&#259;ng l&#7921;c gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; qua qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh lao &#273;&#7897;ng v&agrave; sinh ho&#7841;t trong &#273;&#7901;i s&#7889;ng. Nh&#7919;ng &yacute; ki&#7871;n &#273;&oacute;ng g&oacute;p &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n, b&#7841;n b&egrave;, &#273;&#7891;ng nghi&#7879;p, c&#7845;p tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; ch&uacute;ng ta ho&agrave;n thi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n h&#417;n.- N&#7871;u m&#7897;t c&aacute; nh&acirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; cao hay c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n (c&oacute; b&#7857;ng c&#7845;p/ ch&#7913;ng nh&#7853;n) v&#7873; m&#7863;t tri th&#7913;c th&igrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u c&#417; h&#7897;i th&#259;ng ti&#7871;n trong s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p v&agrave; nhi&#7873;u c&#417; h&#7897;i thu&#7853;n l&#7907;i &#273;&#7875; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n trong &#273;&#7901;i s&#7889;ng.&nbsp;<ol><li style="text-align:justify;">Th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&#7873; TH&#7874; CH&#7844;T (Constitution):</li></ol>- V&#7873; m&#7863;t th&#7875; ch&#7845;t hai v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; quan tr&#7885;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i quan t&acirc;m nh&#7845;t l&agrave; v&#7867; &#273;&#7865;p ngo&#7841;i h&igrave;nh (appearance) v&agrave; t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e (healthy).- Trong hai y&#7871;u t&#7889; n&agrave;y th&igrave; gi&#7899;i tr&#7867; th&#432;&#7901;ng ch&uacute; tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n v&#7873; v&#7867; &#273;&#7865;p ngo&#7841;i h&igrave;nh do h&#7885; ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng c&#417; h&#7897;i thu&#7853;n l&#7907;i c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7915; vi&#7879;c s&#7903; h&#7919;u n&oacute;, v&#7873; c&#7843; m&#7863;t s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p, t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i. C&ugrave;ng v&#7899;i s&#7921; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n hi&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;i c&#7911;a h&#7879; th&#7889;ng y t&#7871; v&agrave; khoa h&#7885;c k&#297; thu&#7853;t th&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n &#273;&#7875; s&#7903; h&#7919;u m&#7897;t ngo&#7841;i h&igrave;nh nh&#432; &yacute; &#273;&atilde; thu&#7853;n l&#7907;i h&#417;n cho r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#7867;.- Nh&#432;ng t&#7915; c&#7893; ch&iacute; kim, &ldquo;t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e&rdquo; v&#7851;n s&#7869; lu&ocirc;n l&agrave; ti&ecirc;u ch&iacute; h&agrave;ng &#273;&#7847;u &#273;&#7875; g&oacute;p ph&#7847;n t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n b&#7845;t k&igrave; kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng n&agrave;o c&#7911;a m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. Vi&#7879;c c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e t&#7889;t v&#7873; th&#7875; ch&#7845;t c&#361;ng &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i s&#7921; r&egrave;n luy&#7879;n c&#417; th&#7875; (th&#7875; d&#7909;c-th&#7875; thao) v&agrave; gi&#7919; th&oacute;i quen sinh ho&#7841;t l&agrave;nh m&#7841;nh. Khi c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t c&#417; th&#7875; kh&#7887;e m&#7841;nh, kh&ocirc;ng b&#7879;nh t&#7853;t th&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7853;p trung &#273;&#7875; theo &#273;u&#7893;i nh&#7919;ng m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u kh&aacute;c trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng.&nbsp;(c&ograve;n ti&#7871;p&hellip;)&nbsp;AUTHOR: TH&#416; L&#7878; - YOUTHER. &nbsp;</body></html>

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