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<html><body>&nbsp;C&oacute; ai b&acirc;y gi&#7901; &#273;ang t&#7921; h&#7887;i ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n r&#7857;ng, m&igrave;nh hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i c&oacute; th&#7853;t s&#7921; l&agrave; ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh.Trong s&acirc;u th&#7859;m, m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c nh&igrave;n th&#7845;u t&acirc;m h&#7891;n v&agrave; d&#7847;n d&#7847;n kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n s&#7869; l&agrave;m cho con ng&#432;&#7901;i ta hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh. Nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng tin v&agrave;o nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u th&#432; th&#7871; t&#7915; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m tr&#432;&#7899;c, &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&aacute; th&#7875; c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta, t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n r&#7857;ng n&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng suy ngh&#297;, &#273;&#7913;c tin, t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7883; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng nhi&#7873;u t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng y&#7871;u t&#7889; &#7903; x&atilde; h&#7897;i.&nbsp;&nbsp;Ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng th&#7871; m&#7841;nh, v&agrave; &#273;i&#7875;m y&#7871;u kh&aacute;c nhau, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng m&agrave;u s&#7855;c kh&aacute;c nhau trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng, th&#7871; c&aacute;c b&#7841;n h&atilde;y t&#7921; h&#7887;i r&#7857;ng &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&atilde; t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n s&#7921; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t &#273;&oacute;. N&#7871;u c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i c&aacute;c b&#7841;n l&agrave; do t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch, s&#7903; th&iacute;ch, kh&#7843; n&#259;ng b&#7849;m sinh, hay c&aacute;c g&oacute;c nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n ri&ecirc;ng c&#7911;a m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; v&#7899;i suy ngh&#297; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, th&#7871; th&igrave; c&oacute; bao gi&#7901; b&#7841;n &#273;&#7863;t ra c&acirc;u h&#7887;i khi t&#7841;i sao ta l&#7841;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y x&#7845;u h&#7893; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng k&yacute; &#7913;c c&#361; m&agrave; l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; ta xem l&agrave; b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng, l&yacute; do c&oacute; ph&#7843;i v&igrave; b&acirc;y gi&#7901; ta &#273;&atilde; b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u thay &#273;&#7893;i &#273;i nh&#7919;ng g&oacute;c nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n trong m&#7855;t ch&uacute;ng ta, ta thay &#273;&#7893;i v&#7873; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch m&agrave; b&acirc;y gi&#7901; khi ta nh&igrave;n l&#7841;i n&oacute; th&#7853;t s&#7921; &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m ta c&#7843;m th&#7845;y th&#7853;t ng&#7841;i ng&ugrave;ng v&#7873; ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh nh&#432;ng trong m&#7897;t th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m kh&aacute;c.&nbsp;&nbsp;Julian Baggini, trong m&#7897;t bu&#7893;i di&#7877;n &#273;&#7841;t c&#7911;a TED, &ocirc;ng c&oacute; n&oacute;i : &ldquo; Nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u ngh&#297; v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n nh&#432; m&#7897;t th&#7921;c th&#7875;, kh&ocirc;ng h&#7859;n l&agrave; v&#7853;t th&#7875;, m&agrave; nh&#432; m&#7897;t qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh, m&#7897;t th&#7913; lu&ocirc;n thay &#273;&#7893;i, t&ocirc;i cho r&#7857;ng &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7897;t suy ngh&#297; r&#7845;t t&#7921; do.&rdquo;, c&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u nh&#432; con ng&#432;&#7901;i ta l&agrave; m&#7897;t qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh s&#7889;ng tr&ecirc;n th&#7871; gi&#7899;i, ta s&#7869; c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7883; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng t&#7915; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u y&#7871;u t&#7889; t&#7915; b&#7841;n b&egrave;, gia &#273;&igrave;nh, x&atilde; h&#7897;i, v&agrave; n&oacute; &#273;ang d&#7847;n h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh ch&iacute;nh ta, ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c ta s&#7869; thay &#273;&#7893;i n&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n suy ngh&#297; v&agrave; &#273;&#7913;c tin c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta trong th&#7901;i gian g&#7847;n &#273;&#7871;n, c&aacute;c b&#7841;n d&#7847;n kh&ocirc;ng nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n ra n&oacute;, nh&#432;ng th&#7853;t s&#7921; b&#7841;n &#273;ang thay &#273;&#7893;i theo t&#7915;ng ng&agrave;y, v&agrave; n&#7871;u nh&#432; b&#7841;n v&#7851;n gi&#7919; suy ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y t&acirc;m h&#7891;n, v&agrave; mu&#7889;n kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n qua t&#7915;ng ng&agrave;y, th&igrave; t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n quan tr&#7885;ng n&#7919;a!. B&acirc;y gi&#7901;, c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u b&agrave;i test t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch b&#7841;n b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch l&#7853;p ra th&#7853;t nhi&#7873;u c&acirc;u h&#7887;i &#273;&#7875; b&#7841;n tr&#7843; l&#7901;i, v&agrave; c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u c&ocirc;ng ty th&#432;&#7901;ng d&ugrave;ng n&oacute; &#273;&#7875; tuy&#7875;n nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, &#273;&uacute;ng, &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; th&#7853;t s&#7921; b&acirc;y gi&#7901; &#273;ang r&#7845;t thu h&uacute;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ng&#432;&#7901;i d&ugrave;ng v&agrave; c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng n&#417;i tuy&#7875;n nh&acirc;n vi&ecirc;n, nh&#432;ng c&oacute; khi n&agrave;o b&#7841;n test m&#7897;t b&agrave;i test qua c&aacute;c kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian kh&aacute;c nhau v&agrave; nh&#7853;n l&#7841;i m&#7897;t k&#7871;t qu&#7843; kh&aacute;c. T&ocirc;i th&igrave; c&oacute; &#273;&oacute;, h&#7915;m khi t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n m&#7897;t k&#7871;t qu&#7843; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, t&ocirc;i t&#7921; h&#7887;i t&#7841;i sao, t&ocirc;i h&#7887;i &#273;&acirc;y c&oacute; th&#7853;t s&#7921; l&agrave; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh, hay m&igrave;nh tr&#7843; l&#7901;i nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u h&#7887;i nh&#432; c&#7843;m t&iacute;nh m&agrave; l&#7841;i ra k&#7871;t qu&#7843; kh&aacute;c. May m&#7855;n thay, t&ocirc;i v&agrave;o s&aacute;ng nay &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nghe m&#7897;t b&agrave;i n&oacute;i t&#7915; &ocirc;ng Julian Baggini di&#7877;n &#273;&#7841;t v&agrave; n&oacute; nh&#432; th&#7853;t s&#7921; tr&#7843; l&#7901;i h&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng th&#7855;c m&#7855;c c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i, r&#7857;ng ch&iacute;nh t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;ang d&#7847;n thay &#273;&#7893;i qua t&#7915;ng ng&agrave;y, &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&agrave; t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n &#273;ang s&#7889;ng v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng d&ograve;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i &#273;&oacute; v&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng d&#7847;n hi&#7875;u ra r&#7857;ng, t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n c&oacute; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n trong t&#432;&#417;ng lai. V&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng ch&#7855;c r&#7857;ng c&aacute;c b&#7841;n c&#361;ng th&#7871;.&nbsp;&nbsp;Thay &#273;&#7893;i c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n hay kh&ocirc;ng, theo t&ocirc;i th&igrave; c&oacute;, nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; thay &#273;&#7893;i v&#7873; c&aacute;c y&#7871;u t&#7889; t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n m&#7897;t m&agrave;u ri&ecirc;ng c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, x&atilde; h&#7897;i c&oacute; th&#7875; d&#7921;a v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; v&agrave; &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; ch&uacute;ng ta l&agrave; chuy&#7879;n b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng, v&igrave; ai b&acirc;y gi&#7901; c&#361;ng s&#7869; thay &#273;&#7893;i theo th&#7901;i gian. Nh&#432;ng m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; ch&#7855;c c&aacute;c b&#7841;n &#273;&#7885;c &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&acirc;y c&oacute; l&#7869; &#273;&atilde; qu&ecirc;n, m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ta c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng kh&#7843; n&#259;ng b&#7849;m sinh khi ta sinh ra &#273;&#7901;i, ta c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7853;n d&#7909;ng n&oacute; &#273;&#7875; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n l&agrave; th&#7871;. Nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i b&acirc;y gi&#7901; c&oacute; th&#7875; xem r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u v&#7873; b&#7897; phim X-Factor, c&oacute; th&#7875; suy ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng, n&#7871;u nh&#432; ta c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng b&#7857;ng t&#7845;t c&#7843; s&#7913;c l&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; th&#7853;t gi&#7887;i v&#7873; m&#7897;t l&#297;nh v&#7921;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, c&aacute;c b&#7841;n s&#7869; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng, th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng n&agrave;y n&#7857;m tr&ecirc;n ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c thang ng&#432;&#7905;ng gi&#7887;i c&#7911;a c&ocirc;ng ch&uacute;ng c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n, nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u c&aacute;c b&#7841;n suy ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; ch&#7845;t b&#7849;m sinh, th&igrave; t&ocirc;i l&#7841;i c&oacute; m&#7897;t &yacute; ki&#7871;n kh&aacute;c. T&agrave;i n&#259;ng b&#7849;m sinh, l&agrave; m&#7897;t y&#7871;u t&#7889; &#273;&aacute;nh d&#7845;u cho b&#7841;n m&#7897;t m&agrave;u s&#7855;c ri&ecirc;ng c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, v&agrave; t&#7847;m cao m&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &#273;&#7875; gi&#7889;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; b&#7841;n, &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i n&oacute;i gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; h&#7885; ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; gi&#7887;i h&#417;n h&#7885;.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;T&ocirc;i ch&#7881; mu&#7889;n c&#7889; g&#7855;ng truy&#7873;n &#273;&#7841;t r&#7857;ng, con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7853;t trong m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881; c&#7847;n d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian ra t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u l&agrave; s&#7869; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, c&oacute; khi l&agrave; s&#7921; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &#273;&oacute; ch&#7881; l&agrave; s&#7921; v&ocirc; &iacute;ch v&igrave; th&#7871; h&atilde;y c&#7913; s&#7889;ng theo &#273;&uacute;ng v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n h&atilde;y c&#7889; g&#7855;ng l&agrave;m &#273;i&#7873;u t&#7889;t, ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n t&#7889;t &#273;&#7875; r&#7857;ng ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n c&#361;ng s&#7869; l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7889;t.&nbsp;Ngu&#7891;n tham kh&#7843;o:Ted.com: Is there a real you? &ndash; Julian BagginiAuthor:&nbsp;B&#7843;o Ng&acirc;n[Youther]&nbsp;&nbsp;</body></html>

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