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<html><body> Ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng hay n&oacute;i &#273;&ugrave;a v&#7899;i nhau r&#7857;ng ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; c&oacute;. Trong m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian r&#7845;t d&agrave;i, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; lu&ocirc;n tin v&agrave;o &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y. T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; cho r&#7857;ng khi kh&ocirc;ng th&iacute;ch c&aacute;i g&igrave;, t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n n&oacute;i c&oacute;, v&agrave; khi th&iacute;ch c&aacute;i g&igrave; &#273;&oacute;, th&igrave; n&ecirc;n n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng. Nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng suy ngh&#297; n&agrave;y sai l&#7847;m nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o.&nbsp;T&ocirc;i v&#7851;n c&ograve;n nh&#7899; h&#7891;i c&#7845;p 3, c&oacute; m&#7897;t b&#7841;n trai kh&aacute;c l&#7899;p th&iacute;ch c&ocirc; b&#7841;n t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&aacute; l&acirc;u r&#7891;i. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, c&ocirc; b&#7841;n l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; th&iacute;ch c&#7853;u trai &iacute; v&agrave; lu&ocirc;n n&oacute;i l&#7901;i t&#7915; ch&#7889;i tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7885;i l&#7901;i m&#7901;i c&#7911;a c&#7853;u ta. Nh&#432;ng b&#7903;i, v&#7899;i l&#7889;i suy ngh&#297; &ldquo;ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; c&oacute;&rdquo;, c&#7853;u b&#7841;n v&#7851;n mi&#7879;t m&agrave;i theo &#273;u&#7893;i cho d&ugrave; c&ocirc; b&#7841;n t&ocirc;i c&oacute; n&oacute;i th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;i ch&#259;ng n&#7919;a.&nbsp;C&ocirc; b&#7841;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u tr&aacute;nh m&#7863;t c&#7853;u b&#7841;n &#273;&oacute;. M&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, trong &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; c&#7843; t&ocirc;i, &#273;&atilde; nh&#7853;n ra m&#7897;t s&#7921; th&#7853;t l&agrave; c&ocirc; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; th&iacute;ch ch&agrave;ng trai &#273;&oacute; t&iacute; n&agrave;o. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, m&#7885;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7851;n ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c. C&#7853;u b&#7841;n &#273;&oacute; &#273;i theo c&ocirc; &#7845;y m&#7885;i l&uacute;c m&#7885;i n&#417;i, khi&#7871;n c&ocirc; b&#7841;n kh&oacute; ch&#7883;u &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c b&#7853;t kh&oacute;c khi g&#7885;i &#273;i&#7879;n cho t&ocirc;i. V&agrave; l&uacute;c n&agrave;y t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng m&#7885;i chuy&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; &#7893;n th&#7871; n&agrave;o, kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i t&#7915; l&uacute;c c&ocirc; b&#7841;n t&ocirc;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u tr&aacute;nh n&eacute;, m&agrave; ngay t&#7915; &#273;&#7847;u, khi c&#7853;u b&#7841;n kh&aacute;c l&#7899;p &#273;&oacute; cho r&#7857;ng l&#7901;i t&#7915; ch&#7889;i c&#7911;a c&ocirc; b&#7841;n t&ocirc;i l&agrave; l&#7901;i &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute;.&nbsp;M&#7897;t l&#7847;n kh&aacute;c, t&ocirc;i c&oacute; &#273;&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t trong &#273;&oacute; m&#7897;t b&#7841;n g&aacute;i ph&#7843;i n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7871;n l&#7847;n th&#7913; ba th&igrave; b&#7841;n trai kia m&#7899;i t&#7915; b&#7887; vi&#7879;c thuy&#7871;t ph&#7909;c c&ocirc; n&agrave;ng &#273;&#7875; ch&agrave;ng trai ch&#7909;p &#7843;nh. T&ocirc;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u ch&uacute; &yacute; &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; xung quanh t&ocirc;i h&#417;n. T&ocirc;i ch&#7907;t nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng t&#7841;i sao vi&#7879;c n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; l&#7841;i kh&oacute; &#273;&#7871;n nh&#432; th&#7871;? T&#7841;i sao x&atilde; h&#7897;i l&#7841;i lu&ocirc;n cho r&#7857;ng khi ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng ngh&#297;a l&agrave; c&oacute;?&nbsp;C&oacute; l&#7869; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7897;t lo&#7841;i v&#259;n h&oacute;a b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u t&#7915; r&#7845;t l&acirc;u tr&#432;&#7899;c kia, t&#7915; c&aacute;i th&#7901;i phong ki&#7871;n phong ki&#7871;n xa l&#7855;c xa l&#417;, ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&oacute;i chung lu&ocirc;n x&#7845;u h&#7893; khi ph&#7843;i n&oacute;i ra suy ngh&#297; th&#7853;t c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Ch&iacute;nh v&igrave; th&#7871;, h&#7885; th&#432;&#7901;ng hay t&igrave;m c&aacute;ch n&oacute;i tr&aacute;nh n&eacute; &#273;&#7875; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n mong mu&#7889;n c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. V&agrave; r&#7891;i khi x&atilde; h&#7897;i ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n h&#417;n, nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7851;n gi&#7919; c&aacute;i suy ngh&#297; n&agrave;y v&agrave; cho r&#7857;ng ph&#7909; n&#7919; ch&#7881; l&agrave; &#273;ang kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n n&oacute;i th&#7853;t ra nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; h&#7885; mu&#7889;n th&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n m&#7899;i tr&#7843; l&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng. Nh&#432;ng s&#7921; th&#7853;t l&agrave; trong th&#7871; k&#7881; 20 n&agrave;y, khi ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng th&igrave; c&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng.&nbsp;Ph&#7909; n&#7919; &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n x&atilde; h&#7897;i hay b&#7845;t k&igrave; m&#7897;t ai gi&uacute;p h&#7885; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n n&#7919;a r&#7891;i. Ph&#7909; n&#7919; c&#361;ng c&oacute; ch&#7911; ki&#7871;n c&#7911;a ri&ecirc;ng m&igrave;nh. Cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i c&#7911;a b&#7845;t k&igrave; ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&agrave;o c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; b&#7845;t k&igrave; m&#7897;t ai kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&#7875; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh. M&#7895;i quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh h&#7885; &#273;&#432;a ra n&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; b&#7883; nghi ng&#7901; hay ph&aacute;n x&eacute;t. Ch&iacute;nh v&igrave; th&#7871;, d&ugrave; b&#7841;n l&agrave; nam hay n&#7919;, khi nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; g&#7863;p kh&oacute; kh&#259;n trong vi&#7879;c n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng, h&atilde;y &#273;&#7915;ng ng&#7847;n ng&#7841;i gi&uacute;p h&#7885;. Ch&#7881; c&oacute; nh&#432; th&#7871; v&#259;n h&oacute;a &ldquo;ph&#7909; n&#7919; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; c&oacute;&rdquo; m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; ng&#259;n ch&#7863;n v&agrave; x&oacute;a b&#7887;.&nbsp;L&#7901;i cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng, mu&#7889;n ch&uacute;c t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; tr&ecirc;n th&#7871; gi&#7899;i n&agrave;y m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y 08/03 vui v&#7867; v&agrave; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c. &#272;&#7915;ng bao gi&#7901; qu&ecirc;n r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n l&agrave; tuy&#7879;t nh&#7845;t khi b&#7841;n l&agrave; ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n, k&#7875; c&#7843; khi b&#7841;n c&oacute; n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng.&nbsp;T&aacute;c gi&#7843;:&nbsp;Ph&#432;&#417;ng Anh V&#361; [Youther]___________________________________&#128293; B&#7841;n mu&#7889;n &#273;&oacute;ng g&oacute;p ph&#7847;n c&ocirc;ng s&#7913;c nh&#7887; b&eacute; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh cho c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng, b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng n&#259;ng &#273;&#7897;ng, tr&#7867; trung v&agrave; &#273;&#7847;y chuy&ecirc;n nghi&#7879;p. Nhanh tay &#273;&#259;ng k&yacute; &#273;&#7875; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh &ldquo;m&#7897;t m&#7843;nh gh&eacute;p trong b&#7913;c tranh thanh xu&acirc;n mang t&ecirc;n YOUTH+&rdquo;&#128073; Link &#273;&#259;ng k&yacute;: http://bit.ly/recruitmentyouth2020&nbsp;</body></html>

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