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<html><body>&ldquo;H&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c hay kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c v&agrave;o ch&iacute;nh ch&uacute;ng ta&rdquo;&nbsp;&#272;&ocirc;i khi ta t&#7921; h&#7887;i h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c l&agrave; g&igrave;, ta c&oacute; &#273;ang h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c kh&ocirc;ng?&nbsp;&#272;&oacute; th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&agrave; c&acirc;u h&#7887;i kh&oacute; v&igrave; m&#7885;i &#273;&#7883;nh ngh&#297;a, kh&aacute;i ni&#7879;m tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7901;i n&agrave;y &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; tr&#7915;u t&#432;&#7907;ng, l&agrave; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7881; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7845;y m&#7897;t c&#7843;nh &#273;&#7865;p th&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7881; mong &#7903; c&#7841;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i m&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t th&ocirc;i c&#361;ng l&agrave; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ki&#7871;m t&igrave;m, v&#7845;t v&#7843; c&#7843; &#273;&#7901;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t b&oacute;ng h&igrave;nh c&#7911;a n&oacute;. V&Igrave; v&#7853;y, nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; b&agrave;i h&#7885;c, nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c vi&#7871;t ra, ch&#7881; ra cho b&#7841;n s&#7869; ch&#7881; l&agrave; l&iacute; thuy&#7871;t n&#7871;u trong ta kh&ocirc;ng th&#7921;c s&#7921; quy&#7871;t t&acirc;m &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute;.&nbsp;B&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&ocirc;i cho r&#7857;ng, &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n ti&ecirc;n quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c l&agrave; ta ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t ta th&#7921;c s&#7921; mu&#7889;n g&igrave;, kh&aacute;t khao &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; v&agrave; ph&#7843;i ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n r&#7857;ng ta s&#7869; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c khi c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute;, ta ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c &#7903; &#273;&acirc;u th&igrave; m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;i t&igrave;m n&oacute;,&nbsp;Vi&#7879;c th&#7921;c s&#7921; hi&#7875;u m&igrave;nh mu&#7889;n g&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;i&#7873;u d&#7877; d&agrave;ng. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i m&#7845;t c&#7843; &#273;&#7901;i &#273;&#7875; th&#7921;c s&#7921; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&aacute;i &#273;&iacute;ch h&#7885; h&#432;&#7899;ng t&#7899;i l&agrave; g&igrave;. N&#7871;u ta s&#7889;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u th&igrave; kh&aacute;c g&igrave; con thuy&#7873;n l&ecirc;nh &#273;&ecirc;nh gi&#7919;a &#273;&#7841;i d&#432;&#417;ng kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t &#273;i v&#7873; &#273;&acirc;u. Ch&#7881; khi c&oacute; m&#7897;t &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng, m&#7897;t gi&#7845;c m&#417; r&otilde; r&agrave;ng, ta m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; quy&#7871;t t&acirc;m &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c. &#272;&#7915;ng n&ecirc;n m&#7895;i s&aacute;ng th&#7913;c d&#7853;y v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t m&igrave;nh s&#7869; l&agrave;m g&igrave;. &nbsp;&nbsp;H&atilde;y c&#7913; m&#417;, h&atilde;y c&#7913; kh&aacute;t khao th&#7853;t nhi&#7873;u, kh&ocirc;ng ai ng&#259;n c&#7843;n gi&#7845;c m&#417; c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7843;. H&atilde;y th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&#7855;ng nghe l&ograve;ng m&igrave;nh xem th&#7921;c s&#7921; n&oacute; &#273;ang g&agrave;o th&eacute;t &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave;. Ch&#7881; khi hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&ograve;ng m&igrave;nh, ta m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; ki&#7871;m t&igrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c.&nbsp;C&#361;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng gi&#7845;c m&#417; l&#7899;n lao m&agrave; h&#7885; cho r&#7857;ng khi &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute; h&#7885; s&#7869; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c nh&#7845;t tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7901;i. Nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y, khi &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute;, h&#7885; b&#7895;ng ch&#7859;ng c&ograve;n vui v&#7867; nh&#432; tr&#432;&#7899;c v&igrave; h&#7885; ngh&#297; l&#7841;i nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; h&#7885; &#273;&atilde; &#273;&aacute;nh &#273;&#7893;i &#273;&#7875; d&agrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng nh&#432; hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i, c&aacute;i gi&aacute; qu&aacute; &#273;&#7855;t. &#272;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ti&#7873;n t&agrave;i, danh v&#7885;ng nh&#432;ng h&#7885; m&#7845;t &#273;i nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; th&#7921;c s&#7921; tr&acirc;n qu&yacute;, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; m&#7845;t &#273;i c&#7843; nh&acirc;n t&iacute;nh. V&igrave; v&#7853;y, lu&ocirc;n ph&#7843;i suy ngh&#297; th&#7853;t k&#297; xem, &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; th&#7921;c s&#7921; quan tr&#7885;ng v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh.&nbsp;V&agrave; khi &#273;&atilde; t&igrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute; r&#7891;i, h&atilde;y th&#7853;t c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c n&oacute;. N&#7871;u y&ecirc;u ai &#273;&oacute;, h&atilde;y n&oacute;i cho h&#7885; bi&#7871;t, n&#7871;u th&iacute;ch m&#7897;t th&#7913; g&igrave; &#273;&oacute;, h&atilde;y c&#7889; gi&agrave;nh l&#7845;y n&oacute;, h&atilde;y c&#7889; b&#7855;t l&#7845;y h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Ph&#7843;i n&#7895; l&#7921;c th&#7853;t nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7873;u ta mong mu&#7889;n, d&ugrave; &#273;i&#7873;u ta mu&#7889;n c&oacute; b&#7883; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c coi th&#432;&#7901;ng, cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ta do ta quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh. h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c hay kh&#7893; &#273;au do ta quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh, &#273;&#7915;ng c&oacute; chi&#7873;u l&ograve;ng t&#7845;t c&#7843; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, mi&#7879;ng l&#432;&#7905;i th&#7871; gian qu&#7843;n sao n&#7893;i, ta ch&#7881; c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#432;&#7899;c ti&#7871;p tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; v&#7841;ch ra, v&igrave; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c &#7903; ph&iacute;a cu&#7889;i con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng. &nbsp;&nbsp;______________________________________Author: Ph&#432;&#417;ng Mai.&nbsp;&nbsp;</body></html>

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