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<html><body> &nbsp;&nbsp;&ldquo;&#272;&#7915;ng bao gi&#7901; &#273;&#7875; t&acirc;m h&#7891;n m&igrave;nh tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng&rdquo;C&oacute; ph&#7843;i b&#7841;n &#273;ang th&#7845;y tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng? Khi m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c &ldquo;tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng&rdquo; l&agrave; khi h&#7885; r&#417;i v&agrave;o v&#7921;c th&#7859;m b&ecirc;n trong m&igrave;nh.&nbsp;Tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i khi ta nh&agrave;n h&#7841;, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; vi&#7879;c g&igrave; l&agrave;m, tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ch&#7881; d&agrave;nh cho nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n, t&#7845;t c&#7843; ch&uacute;ng ta, c&oacute; l&#7869; ai c&#361;ng &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng nh&#432; th&#7871;.Sau m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c b&#7853;n b&#7883;u t&#7889;i t&#259;m m&#7863;t m&#361;i, cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng c&#361;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng gi&acirc;y ph&uacute;t ngh&#7881; ng&#417;i, nh&#432;ng l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute;, d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; ta l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i. Ta c&#7843;m th&#7845;y n&#7863;ng n&#7873;, th&#7845;y c&ocirc; &#273;&#7897;c v&agrave; h&#7909;t h&#7851;ng. Nh&#7919;ng c&#7843;m x&uacute;c d&#7891;n n&eacute;n, t&iacute;ch t&#7909; n&#417;i l&#7891;ng ng&#7921;c nh&#432; mu&#7889;n c&agrave;o x&eacute; t&acirc;m h&#7891;n, n&oacute; &#273;ang g&agrave;o th&eacute;t l&ecirc;n &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&oacute;. N&oacute; &#273;ang c&#7843;m th&#7845;y tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng.&nbsp;C&#7843;m x&uacute;c n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&oacute; &#7903; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&ocirc; &#273;&#417;n v&igrave; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7897;c th&acirc;n nh&#432;ng h&#7885; r&#7845;t vui, h&#7885; t&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng, h&#7885; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; tr&acirc;n tr&#7885;ng l&#7845;y ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u b&#7841;n b&egrave;, ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n xung quanh nh&#432;ng ch&#7859;ng ai c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7921;c s&#7921; b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o th&#7871; gi&#7899;i c&#7911;a h&#7885; v&agrave; l&#7845;p &#273;&#7847;y nh&#7919;ng ch&#7895; tr&#7889;ng &#273;&oacute;.&nbsp;C&#7843;m x&uacute;c n&agrave;y ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c v&agrave;o b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7841;n ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ai kh&aacute;c. b&#7841;n lu&ocirc;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y b&ecirc;n trong b&#7841;n thi&#7871;u &#273;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;i g&igrave; &#273;&oacute;, c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; m&igrave;nh &#273;ang l&agrave;m h&#7857;ng ng&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; c&oacute; m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch, nh&#432; ch&#7841;y m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c &#273;ua kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; c&oacute; v&#7841;ch &#273;&iacute;ch, m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y tr&ocirc;i qua ng&agrave;y n&agrave;o r&#7891;i c&#361;ng nh&#432; ng&agrave;y n&agrave;o, &#273;&#417;n &#273;i&#7879;u v&agrave; t&#7867; nh&#7841;t. V&agrave; r&#7891;i &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y, c&#7843;m x&uacute;c b&ecirc;n trong b&#7841;n d&#7847;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n t&ecirc; li&#7879;t, ch&#7859;ng c&ograve;n y&ecirc;u gh&eacute;t, gi&#7853;n h&#7901;n, nh&#7919;ng n&#7909; c&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7847;u m&ocirc;i ch&#7859;ng c&ograve;n m&#7845;y th&#7853;t l&ograve;ng, nh&#432; m&#7897;t c&aacute;i m&aacute;y ch&#7859;ng c&ograve;n h&#7881; n&#7897; &aacute;i &#7889;.&nbsp;Ngu&#7891;n g&#7889;c s&acirc;u xa c&#7911;a tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng l&agrave; khi ta m&#7845;t &#273;i k&#7871;t n&#7889;i v&#7899;i t&acirc;m h&#7891;n, t&acirc;m h&#7891;n ta kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n nh&#7841;y c&#7843;m nh&#7919;ng &#432;u t&#432;, r&#7841;o r&#7921;c nh&#7919;ng nhi&#7879;t t&igrave;nh ch&aacute;y b&#7887;ng. C&oacute; th&#7875; do nh&#7919;ng di ch&#7913;ng tu&#7893;i th&#417;, c&uacute;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; do c&aacute;ch l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n l&#7889;i s&#7889;ng qu&aacute; kh&eacute;p k&iacute;n v&agrave; t&#7867; nh&#7841;t. &#272;&ocirc;i khi, m&#7845;t m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch v&agrave;o cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#361;ng khi&#7871;n m&#7895;i bu&#7893;i s&aacute;ng m&#7903; m&#7855;t ra l&#7841;i ch&#7859;ng bi&#7871;t ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m g&igrave;. C&#361;ng c&oacute; khi do b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; n&eacute;n nh&#7919;ng c&#7843;m x&uacute;c trong l&ograve;ng qu&aacute; l&acirc;u, ch&#7859;ng n&oacute;i n&#259;ng, chia s&#7867;, c&#7913; m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh g&#7863;m nh&#7845;m nh&#7919;ng n&#7895;i &#273;au, v&#7895; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng v&#7871;t th&#432;&#417;ng m&atilde;i ch&#7859;ng l&agrave;nh, &#273;&#7875; r&#7891;i, bao x&uacute;c c&#7843;m &#273;&atilde; bi&#7871;n &#273;&acirc;u m&#7845;t, ch&#7881; &#273;&#7875; l&#7841;i m&#7897;t t&acirc;m h&#7891;n tr&#7889;ng r&#7895;ng kh&#7855;c kho&#7843;i.&nbsp;T&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; &#273;&oacute; &#273;ang thi&ecirc;u &#273;&#7889;t ta t&#7915;ng ng&agrave;y, g&#7863;m nh&#7845;p &#273;i t&#7915;ng m&#7843;nh t&acirc;m h&#7891;n. &#272;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7875; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7883; nh&#7845;n ch&igrave;m trong n&oacute;, &#273;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7875; n&oacute; chi ph&#7889;i b&#7841;n, h&atilde;y ch&#7889;ng l&#7841;i n&oacute;, h&atilde;y b&#7843;o v&#7879; l&#7845;y c&aacute;i b&#7843;n ng&atilde; b&ecirc;n trong m&igrave;nh. H&atilde;y t&igrave;m gi&#7843;i ph&aacute;p t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng nguy&ecirc;n do &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7849;y b&#7841;n &#273;&#7871;n t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng n&agrave;y. H&atilde;y m&#7903; l&ograve;ng, h&atilde;y l&#7855;ng nghe t&acirc;m h&#7891;n m&igrave;nh, k&#7871;t n&#7889;i v&agrave; t&igrave;m l&#7841;i m&#7843;nh t&acirc;m h&#7891;n b&#7883; t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, h&atilde;y &#273;&#7863;t ra cho m&igrave;nh m&#7897;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u, h&atilde;y &#273;&#7863;t n&#7873;n m&oacute;ng cho nh&#7919;ng gi&#7845;c m&#417; th&#7853;t ho&agrave;n h&#7843;o, h&atilde;y th&#7875; hi&#7879;n nh&#7919;ng c&#7843;m x&uacute;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&#7899;i m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh, bu&#7891;n th&igrave; kh&oacute;c, vui th&igrave; c&#432;&#7901;i, h&atilde;y th&#7917; m&#7897;t l&#7847;n s&#7889;ng nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; v&ocirc; lo v&ocirc; ngh&#297; v&agrave; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng l&#7845;y ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh.T&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n &#273;&acirc;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;i&#7873;u ng&agrave;y m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y hai l&agrave; kh&#7855;c ph&#7909;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, n&oacute; c&#7847;n s&#7921; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng t&#7915; trong ch&iacute;nh t&acirc;m h&#7891;n, m&#7897;t t&acirc;m h&#7891;n kh&aacute;t khao s&#7889;ng l&#7841;i m&#7897;t l&#7847;n n&#7919;a, &#273;&#7875; n&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&#7845;p &#273;&#7847;y b&#7857;ng t&igrave;nh y&ecirc;u, l&yacute; t&#432;&#7903;ng, b&#7857;ng ni&#7873;m tin, b&#7857;ng t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p nh&#7845;t tr&ecirc;n cu&#7897;c &#273;&#7901;i n&agrave;y.&nbsp;____________Author: Ph&#432;&#417;ng Mai</body></html>

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